shadowcatzxxx

Fer God's sake! Enough politics and sniping back and forth!! Has anybody met this incredibly handsome stud! I couldn't care less where he's from ... want to know if he's real and worth the effort to meet!

Fer God's sake! Enough politics and sniping back and forth!! Has anybody met this incredibly handsome stud! I couldn't care less where he's from ... want to know if he's real and worth the effort to meet!

Bumping again!
 

Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply  in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis.  Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ...

Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply  in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis.  Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ...

Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply  in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis.  Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ...

Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply  in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis.  Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ...

Good to see that other people are finding success on this site. It has been pretty much a bust for me in the Boston area. I joined after my previous SB (bisexual, unbelievably drop-dead gorgeous from head to foot and everything in-between), after a wonderful 2-year relationship, was convinced by his therapist that if he really plans to marry a woman, he ought to stop cultivating relationships that don't support his going in that direction. Unfortunately, I was very vulnerable at the time we met, and allowed myself to fall DEEPLY, deeply  in love with this sweet, smart, charming adonis.  Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved, I suppose ... but I am now in a dizzying tailspin. In despair at this loss, I joined seeking, and have been not at all impressed. The best-looking guys seem to be charlatans, scammers, or guys who think they can get 4 figures monthly by doing private videos. Ah well, such is the SD life ...

Wow! Now that's a guy I could go for despite the extent of his tattoos ... which would normally turn me off. WOOF!!! Anyone meet this stud?

WARNING: Googled "holiday houseboys" and it took me to a site that repeatedly attempted to download and install software of at least two different kinds.

Well, it ended well. Or ended in my end? Whatever.
As I had begun to suspect during a long text foreplay, this guy is real, he's hot, and he has reason not to use pics that would disclose his identity. So the owner of the insta from which a couple of pics were borrowed (with owner's consent, they know each other) happens to have very much the same type of muscular body as this guy, so he used those pics as a fair representation of his own physique. Take my word for it. He's built. And handsome. I don't want to wander into review territory here, so let's just say I'll be seeing him again.

Well, it ended well. Or ended in my end? Whatever.
As I had begun to suspect during a long text foreplay, this guy is real, he's hot, and he has reason not to use pics that would disclose his identity. So the owner of the insta from which a couple of pics were borrowed (with owner's consent, they know each other) happens to have very much the same type of muscular body as this guy, so he used those pics as a fair representation of his own physique. Take my word for it. He's built. And handsome. I don't want to wander into review territory here, so let's just say I'll be seeing him again.

Well, it ended well. Or ended in my end? Whatever.
As I had begun to suspect during a long text foreplay, this guy is real, he's hot, and he has reason not to use pics that would disclose his identity. So the owner of the insta from which a couple of pics were borrowed (with owner's consent, they know each other) happens to have very much the same type of muscular body as this guy, so he used those pics as a fair representation of his own physique. Take my word for it. He's built. And handsome. I don't want to wander into review territory here, so let's just say I'll be seeing him again.

Update. I don't know why he was playing games with those pics. He has absolutely no need to. He agreed to do a brief FaceTime with me, which we just finished. He is who he says he is: hot, handsome, and muscular. Now I just need to see what he can deliver in person. I'll update you in a few days, after we meet.

The most important thing is knowledge. Good escorts (and really good clients) get tested regularly and quickly notify clients of any potential issues. I did actually get Chlamydia from an escort but was able to test and treat very quickly because he tested frequently and informed me quickly as well.
In my opinion, the risk of STDs is actually higher if you're having frequent Grindr hookups over frequent escort hookups. Not every dude on Grindr tests themselves regularly or even cares or knows how to contact you if they did catch something. 
As a client, this is also something that should be part of your escort conversation. How frequently do you get tested? Do you notify your clients if you test positive for an STD? 
If you don't like their answers, then maybe don't spend time with them.

Following, if only out of curiosity to see where this ends up.  LOL

He is a totally and resoundingly responsible provider. Last weekend, when we were supposed to meet, he had a sore throat and cough, self-tested, and came out positive. So he deferred meeting until he is clear. I wish I knew that any other providers were as assiduous in protecting both themselves and their clients. Hope to see him as soon as he is in the clear. So far, A+ for this guy.
 

Well, he just blocked me from viewing his profile on RM, so it looks like you may be right! Damn. Those photos are HOT!!!

Well, he just blocked me from viewing his profile on RM, so it looks like you may be right! Damn. Those photos are HOT!!!

Gotcha. Well, we'll see if this happens or not. He's coming here, so its not like I'm doing a long drive to get to him. I'm still hoping that the guy who sent me full-body pics (with face) shows up, has the kind of body he's advertising, and then I'll be set for him to (to borrow an acronym form a fellow poster) FMRG! Wish me luck

@Shadowcatzxxxx– I know many on this forum don’t accept that guys on RM are out to scam, but I have a default skeptical position toward any new hire until we’ve met. Anything that upsets the “normal” course of action therefore raises at least a pink flag for me. I did admit that it seems responsible. It would just make me more apt to accept without surprise if the meet doesn’t happen. COVID has been a convenient excuse for many to get out of any number of things.

Have rescheduled ... will report assuming that meeting actually happens.
 

Have rescheduled ... will report assuming that meeting actually happens.
 

He is a totally and resoundingly responsible provider. Last weekend, when we were supposed to meet, he had a sore throat and cough, self-tested, and came out positive. So he deferred meeting until he is clear. I wish I knew that any other providers were as assiduous in protecting both themselves and their clients. Hope to see him as soon as he is in the clear. So far, A+ for this guy.
 

Bump/ Any more info? The guy looks seriously hot.