Saabster

I'm wondering if others share unsolicited pictures and stats with their provider prior to meeting. I always do and I do it out of common courtesy, thinking it is only fair that if I know what the provider looks like along with their stats, then they should know what I look like and my stats.  
I have never had a provider ask for pictures/stats yet I always provide prior to meeting. 

I think this is good practice and I do as well. 

There is also a scam going around on insta/gridr/scruff about massage- shows a very handsome guy, reasonable rates, very chatty- but then asks for a PayPal deposit to reserve a time.  It felt wrong so I never did the deposit, but when one guy was 2 blocks away I said I would walk over now with cash and he said no.  within a week ad was gone and popped up again with a new guy. 

OK he is actually fantastic. I do think he had an emergency yesterday but we just met and wow ... twink tops are hard to find and he's great. Friendly, nice smile, and quite a powerhouse (although not insensitive).  His english isn't great but he's working on that. I highly recommend him.

Breaking news lol ... we had a misunderstanding yesterday but he wrote this morning with a big apology and offered to make it up to me with a visit tonight at a reduced rate. Says it really was an emergency. So I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt and will report after our session.

Met him in NYC and he was kinda unfriendly in communication and then fell asleep during session (at 7pm)
reached out in SF for a redo.  He was again unenthusiastic in text and then quoted me $500 (when he was only $400 in nyc).  
 
Me: i appreciate your hustle but that price hike is not cool
him: That's standard price in nyc my friend
 
NEXT….

Way too muscular to be just 165 lbs. As Harry noted the description text is strangely written.

His description is weird.

The ‘collage boy of your dreams.’ I guess he’s an artist?

I met him yesterday. He’s very handsome and was a lot of fun. Too bad all the background noise here detracted from the original poster’s query. He’s well worth a meeting for anyone not put off by his stutus, which really shouldn’t be an issue for anyone who takes the proper precautions.

I'm a top who very selectively rims, but has zero issue with oral. 
Bottom line, rimming is far riskier than sucking dick, especially if either party hasn't had their hep vaxes.
Also, a lot of guys can keep their cock clean, but don't have a clue when it comes to hole maintenance.

Nycbob on RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com "Bob' is accommodating, and has some massage skills, but:
Pics are dated, add at least 5-7+ years
He is not 5'10", more like 5'7"
Speaks no English, however when I arrived he knew how to say "money first"
Suspect he is traveling with a handler
Would not repeat
 
 
 

I like to hang my arms and head over the end of the bed.

I’ve been a premium member on RentMasseur for about eight months.  Typically I use the messaging feature to make initial contact with a masseur and then move things over to text.  So I’m heading back to FTL this week and I want to check a message that included the provider’s rates and address information from our previous session in December.  But to my surprise my messages from 2023 are gone. I’m guessing the RentMasseur mailbox will only hold messages for six months and then 💥 they’re gone. Who knew? (Or more important, are my messages hiding somewhere else on the platform and I just haven’t found them yet?)

Neck ink is always unfortunate, even more so on such a gorgeous young man.

I've done it twice that I can think of.  Once a masseur walked to my hotel in the summer and said he'd like to shower before we started, I offered to join him and some playful fondling while we showered.  The other offered some sort of scrub in the shower, which felt great, especially when he finished rinsing me off and started sucking my cock. 

His pics look hot, but as others have noted they are all several years old. A member since May 2016. So he either started when he was 15 or he is now way older than 23. I'm guessing the later.

And there's a photo from 2017.  Most photos are from 2020 and 2021 but nothing more recent.  Big red flag to me if a guy has a lot of photos but none are current!  If someone is interested in him, confirm his current appearance.
And IMHO, all of his photos have a plastic or fake look to his face.  Too much photoshop?  Too many fillers and cosmetic procedures?

🙄 Typical str8 Boi behavior. Reels u in and then “let’s” you suck them off. How much did that cost? No thanks. This is why when I see “straight” I just ignore the ad. 

Interesting profile… 
Smooth ***y fit FEM BOI expert in Erotic, VERBAL and fantasy touching!
Pics sure don’t present as fem!

It sounds as if you just randomly put together two escorts and it didn't work out for you.
Learn from this.  Find an escort who has a second he works well with.  Don't just throw two strangers together and expect that it's going to work out in your favor.
Also, when it's not working out, don't exacerbate being the odd man out.  Ask one or both of them to leave.
No, you cannot demand them to pay attention to you, but you can end things and save yourself the stress.

Ironic that he simultaneously lists
"Into party" and also "healthy" in the same profile.
It's sad when young gay men spend so much time at the gym getting themselves looking so sexy only to blow it all away by getting addicted to meth. ☹️
 

I also don’t mind bed massages either when the massage skills are there. Should have mentioned there was no mutual touching during the session and a basic tug of a HE. 

I tried him at the $300/massage experience, might of well have been escort session. He is as pictured, friendly with very good English skills.
I would repeat, even with his 'average' sized Johnson.

wrong approach bc it’s way too vague.  
2-3 texts max to schedule, including your preferred time & place.  some flexibility, but not for the flakes.
a key decision point is how provider responds to inquires & ease of scheduling.  If it’s cumbersome & problematic- then you can expect that to carry through if there is ever an actual appointment.