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Well, I’m not going anywhere. So everyone is going to have to put up with my opinions and subtle put downs 😂. One has to fight for civility, decency and the ability to refer to one’s self in the first person…
This forum is just a slice of the whole population. There will always be some shallow, un-self-aware, or even malevolent people in any group. They stand out because of their behaviour. They spoil the view of course but they do serve to highlight the contrast of the good stuff that exists if you can keep them in check.
I see ignorant comments where guys resort to ad hominem attacks when they can’t argue the point. (That usually gets stopped by the moderators).  I also see some quite astonishing ignorance and prejudice about working in the business which sometimes I try to address but then I get told I’m wrong by guys who aren’t providers (strange word btw). Then there’s those who are purely superficial who comment on providers looks as if that’s all the guy has to offer. It’s all here. 
I have to go back to my point about this place being a microcosm of society. The trouble is society is pretty bad right now where we have leaders who display all of those characteristics: shallow, bombastic, disregarding of experience and expertise, and even sometimes malevolent. Is it any wonder those of a similar nature feel emboldened when they see supposed leaders behaving like this? 
I know politics isn’t allowed…(moderators please don’t take this down!) but I’m not taking a political side: leaders of right and left are like it. I’m pointing out that when we ignore or hide from these bad actors we allow them to grow and become emboldened. Eventually you run out of hiding places and have to tackle them, so you should never let them get away with it. Ridicule them, hold the mirror up, argue, undermine and challenge them.

 

This thread is not long for this world - an example of one of the many reasons I don’t care to participate anymore. The irony is utterly lost here.
Thank you to all the good clients and quiet lurkers who appreciate what I and other providers have to say, and those choosing not to contribute to all the problematic behavior. I’ve met many of you in person and can confirm this community has many good people in it. It’s too bad the rotten apples spoil the barrel. Some of those bad apples are providers too. It goes both ways.
I have a voice, and I am willing to share it with those who want to listen. Going forward, it will be on my own terms, on my own platform, without censorship, or anyone saying that I can’t call a spade a spade. No clowns tolerated; I will suffer neither b***** nor fools. You will hear about it once it’s ready. Meanwhile, I have a living to make and a tour to complete.
I hope for the sake of all you who value this special place on the internet, that the moderators take this opportunity to look inward, to consider what kind of community they really want this to be and make changes to steer the ship in that direction. Maybe it isn’t really a place for providers to participate. Maybe it is. Maybe it’s truly a review platform with consistent criteria for clients to post more meaningful commentary and data points. It’s been since 2023 we were expecting such a review style platform to launch. Guess that isn’t happening.
Whichever direction the site administrators and moderators decide they want it to go, CoM can’t continue in a healthy way as it has been. It’s a fools errand for contributors to demand providers spend their time and energy here (for free) for the benefit of strangers on the internet, many of whom mock and ridicule us in return. This is my last piece of unsolicited advice. If you privately want my input, maybe some ideas to make positive changes, you know where to find me.
I’m done casting pearls to swine. It’s too bad some of the very good people will miss out because the loudest voices in the room are deafening squeals.
For now, good bye, and good luck.

I don’t post as often as I used to because there are a lot of really toxic men on here. Some are cool but most conversations devolve into rude comments and uncivilized communication. There are also several guys on the site that clearly dislike each other and can’t seem to just ignore one another so many threads are just them going at it. It just gets tiresome. At least that’s why I no longer contribute.

I have a premium account and no, Karl_Kelso does not share face pics, but yes, he is definitely handsome!

Caught up with Karl recently and he’s looking so great. He told me he’s changing up his workouts and looking even better than ever. With the same heart and joy for life. He’s really the best. 

Mine is definitely
https://rent.men/Karl_Kelso
 

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

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Another vote for 'Welcome to the Forum'. Most members here appreciate openness and honesty from escorts who come here, and it can so easily be a corrective to negativity and speculation. It's all the better when that negativity is countered by the sort of calm rebuttal that you offered, rather than anger. Best of luck as you reembark on this journey.

Hi Jon - thank you for posting this and welcome to this message board.  I hope this will be a fun and rewarding activity for you.  I wish you the best of luck!

Well his post is 3 hours old, and as a new member his first post(s) had to get approved by a moderator. So just timing. 

Hi all, I'm the provider.
This thread is so full of tall-tales that it's cracking me up! 🤣
I'm vers, maybe even more top. All my clients so far have been bottoms and we've had a lot of fun 😀. 
I am financially independent; I'm not coming away from some previous "sugar daddy" arrangement, lol; I wasn't "put out on the curb," by a recent breakup (that suggestion had me floored! 🤣).
I haven't had any "open house" events, for prospective "sugar daddies" (lol🤣) but something like an "open house" for anyone interested in meeting me sounds like a fun idea if enough guys are interested 😃.
I say that I don't want to meet guys who are in exclusive relationships because I would feel like I'm hurting their partner. As an empath, that wouldn't feel right. 
My images are up-to-date and from modeling gigs in over the past year. I dabbled in escorting in college years ago but I haven't been active in the industry since then. 
I'm doing this, frankly, because I enjoy giving intimacy, and it's fun to earn income from something that I enjoy. 

I am old. In my honesty, I tend to  ramble in my conversation. Even the house cat regards me with scorn. Too, I am not given to indulging my critics in their diatribes.  My recommendation to you is to forego my posts if you find them tedious in the reading. Succinctly put, shove off,  sailor.

By reputation, he is a sweet, engaging "bottom" recently set out on the curb by his keeper; he is going on forty, and, his shelf life as a young "hot item" having expired, he is exploring sundry venues to the end of finding a mature gentleman of means to take him as an "exclusive", hence his qualification that prospective clients be unattached; his expectations are,I agree, somewhat unrealistic given the nature of the escorting business. That stated, he is on my calendar in the coming winter season.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

I am a premium member of RM, but since the beginning of this year, you cannot, even as a premium member, publish a review unless you register your phone number for verification. As I do not want RM to call me or send SMS to my phone, this is a total showstopper for me. So I think this reduces even further the number of reliable reviews in RM.

While I do not have access to premium content, I can say with 99% certainty that he would not share face pics.  But you can trust us when we’re all saying that (regardless of whatever your personal preference is) he is objectively an incredibly handsome man… my best description would be to imagine if Superman were a catalog model.

I’ll be 82 in a couple of months and I’m still raring to go. True, the body parts are wearing out and nothing works quite the way it used to. But, a couple of weeks between orgasms, a couple of viagra, a couple of a hundred dollars, and the right provider do the trick. I have always been a chicken hawk,  and today “chicken” for me is definitely someone over 30…or more…someone who has been around the block a couple of times, who understands they are not god’s gift to the world, who are skillful at what they do, who understand that they are in business and each of us have a role in the transaction. My role is to respect them and their work, to be flexible in setting up appointments as with any professional, to be clear on what I am buying, to pay the fee asked, to show up on time clean and prepared, to be complimentary as appropriate, to express gratitude for a service well rendered, to write positive reviews on their ad page and on COM, and to be a loyal repeat client. In the situations where it works best, I have become the old guncle who shares whatever wisdom I have gained in a long life and they share the excitement of youth and change. With the right person that goes beyond sagging tits and a limp dick. 

I have to agree! I saw him yesterday and had an exceptional experience that is worth repeating! Highly recommended!