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I love watching nearly nude athletes. I wish they all would compete in the nude.

On HBO Max, they have an "Extras" section on the Episodes line. In Extras for Episode 8, there is a podcast, first featuring Nancy Miller interviewing Antonio Campos and Maggie Cohn, and then she interviews Colin Firth, who knew nothing of the case before accepting the role. It's his first TV production since Pride and Prejudice. I think there might be podcasts for each episode. I have to check that out. But the Episode 8 podcast was gripping. I wouldn't listen to the podcasts before seeing the series.

No need to do that. I meant nothing personal. It's just when I read the words "very clean and hygienic" in America, I never know what to think. But I can say this, I don't want the scent of lavender on my boy's cock, pit, or ass crack. To each his own.

I don't see why the request should lack tact. If clean shaven is your thing, then it's important to mention that to someone who shows both options in their photos. However, it would be foolish to assume that gay men don't take their every day appearance seriously, or take it lightly. Most of the sexually active gay men I know are very serious about their sexual prowess, and that includes the message they deliberately send with their chosen physical appearance. Trend or not, if a gay guy is sporting facial hair, there's typically a reason. You need to find out how flexible someone is with this issue. I imagine some guys would view the request as a financial incentive. If you offered me $100+ to shave my beard for our appointment, I would probably say yes. But that's me.

Sorry. I never found the smell of a hospital, a medical lab, or an operating room to be sexy. The scent of Clorox wipes does not arouse my cock. Nobody likes to talk about it, but an unwashed provider who lets multiple customers lick him during the day's workload can be problematic. If licking is your fetish, it is worth talking to your doctor about that. Washing your skin numerous times a day can also present challenging issues. I wouldn't want to be a provider with sensitive skin. You can create a profile on the massage sites. You can state in your profile what you like, and provide the link in your communication with the provider. There is no guarantee the provider will read it, even if you ask him to, but many will read it, and say yes to your request. Most men are sexually affected by scent, pro or con, so there is absolutely no reason to feel awkward about discussing this issue. If the issue is important to you, then it's your responsibility to communicate that. Many providers respect good communication. If you don't speak up, the encounter could become a disappointing guessing game.

He's got a very nice smile, which to me indicates a positive sign. He's willing to show the public that he might be genuinely happy. His MF ad says he's licensed, while his RM as does not mention that. I wonder why. I hope someone tries him and reports back.

Apparently, the original documentary "The Staircase" can be seen on Netflix. Here is a photo of the real family.

This is a tough one to admit to liking. Maybe if the story had been fiction. Being that it's true, and it's backed up by a French documentary, there is way too much pain, lying and deceit. Living in the closet plays a serious role in this story, all the way to the end. Damage, damage, and more damage. It's a tough story to like.

It's an 8-episode drama based on the famous Michael Peterson case. I knew nothing about it. Came across this by accident, and was immediately hooked. The writing, acting, and directing are top quality. It's an HBO production. It's a tragic true story. The wife dies in the family home, presumably from an accidental fall, and the husband is almost immediately accused of her murder, and goes to trial. The husband, a well-known author, reveals he is bi-sexual, and claims his wife knew he lead a double life that included lots of gay escort activity. None of the adult children or relatives knew. It's a roller-coaster ride of high drama, sexual secrets, betrayal and family dysfunction. Colin Firth plays Michael Peterson superbly. Toni Collette plays Kathleen, the dead wife. Patrick Schwarzenegger plays the youngest son. The story's premise is fascinating for older gay men, especially those in the closet. I highly recommend this series.

This is true. My former partner had quite a few wealthy clients, people who thought nothing of spending upwards of $1000 on a haircut. For many wealthy people, spending $1000 is like a common person forking over a $20 bill. My partner always spoke fondly about the wealthy men and women who were kind and generous, and discreet. They didn't seem to be the norm. He would often say, the higher the price, the more demanding a customer. My partner did not enjoy working with demanding customers. A service is a service. It seems rare you would ever be treated like an equal. My partner would find joy and comfort that some wealthy people truly appreciated the art of the craft. When talent is respected, working with the wealthy can be enjoyable.

This was an interesting read. Thanks for posting it. I think it is amazing that actors like Alexander Skarsgård and Harry Melling agreed to do this film. The sex scenes are never easy to film for anyone, the crew and the actors, but especially the naked actors. In the wrestling scene, it looks to me like Harry's cock was nearing full erection state, and they went with it. It made the cut, even his cock adjustment was not edited out. The Intimacy Coordinator was a handsome guy. What fun for him. I'm not sure this video will post, but here's a link of Robbie Taylor Hunt talking about the experience. https://www.facebook.com/pinknews/videos/what-was-it-like-working-as-the-intimacy-coodinator-on-pillion-we-spoke-to-robbi/1494283918792960/

I just saw it tonight. It's based on a book. I purposely worked hard to not read much about this film before seeing it. I did enjoy the film's craft. I could watch it again, and probably will. I thought the actors did a great job, especially Harry Melling. I found Harry very difficult to watch. I don't find him attractive, and his bad teeth really bothered me. So many close-ups. But he did a great job with the character. Alexander Skarsgård was wonderful. I'm happy with the amount of nudity, but I always wish he would do more. The prosthetic artist is credited at the end, so we know the cock is not his. But whoa that body. Nicely oiled and beautifully lit. The parents were well cast, too. It is a shocking film for our times. I'm so glad it got financed. America needs to see more, and learn more about how complicated sex really is.

My former partner had a good friend who once worked for Leona Helmsley. She was notorious for being cheap, and telling everyone who would listen that this is how she got rich. Yet, in her will, she left $12 million to her dog, Trouble, which a NY judge later reduced to $2 million. Wealthy people can be crazy. My gut tells me that most of them are. Mixing sex and "work" may be a ruse of the past. Me-Too continues to have impact. All it takes is one participant to go rogue, and careers and reputations end. I won't even mention lawsuits. Wherever power exists, especially in show business, seduction won't be far behind. There will always be ambitious people, male and female, who will jump at the chance to get paid for sex in exchange for a career opportunity. Well written, with such a friendly tone. If I could afford it, I would take this handsome guy to Alan David, and treat him to a bespoke suit.

I swear my computer is haunted. Shortly after I post to this thread this morning, this comes up in my Feed: Eric Roberts gets what I'm saying. "Dime store-ish." That's where we're at. I have no experience hiring escorts, except many people have told me that HE massage therapists are precisely that. Still, the notion that there is an exclusive club of Oxford graduates, perhaps those handsome characters in the movie Maurice, that cater to wealthy men via word-of-mouth, and charge a fortune for their elevated experience, is nothing more than a Merchant-Ivory romantic fantasy. "If you have to ask the price, then you can't afford the service." LOL. Sounds like some 1980's tag line created on Madison Avenue, from a sales agent who believed his shit didn't stink. When it comes to shopping for sex, do men really care about the college credits and the gene pool of the guys they hire? How much of an escort's background is actually knowable? Do their CVs also get passed along by underground word-of-mouth? I suspect most men hire based on looks first, including men like Geffen. Most men want what they normally can't have by simple mutual attraction. After that, it's usually a particular turn-on that facilitates a sale. Sure, if you're doing an overnight or an extended vacation, you want all of the above, and maybe some chemistry and humor mixed in. You definitely don't want to hire a homeless drug addict, although it wouldn't surprise me if that might be a fetish for some billionaires.

LOL. Isn't the elitist sales pitch dead? Look what's happening to the Glambot guy. Canceled. Most of the wealthy people I've encountered in my life are cheap as hell. They are all looking for bargains and freebies when they can get them. Saks and Neiman's just filed for bankruptcy protection. Money is so transactional these days. High prices are far more marketing tactics than any indication of quality, especially with all the luxury crap that is now being made in China. I don't know any billionaires, so maybe there's a discreet pool of guys who cater to these circles, but how many billionaires are looking for man-on-man sex-for-hire? Name one product that a billionaire might buy today that doesn't have a website.

It's a fantasy best left for an OF video. It's difficult enough to find one guy who has massage skill, and knows how to touch sensually.

I like Rose Byrne. I think she's very talented. I'm glad she's receiving accolades for her work. I'm surprised this movie got financed. I found it very depressing and a challenge to watch. Haven't seen Christian Slater in a very long time. Did not know he was in the film. I was also surprised to see Conan O'Brien in an acting role. He seemed perfectly cast.

I usually don't enjoy when people make assumptions about me, or take advantage without asking my permission, but horny sexual activity usually wins the moment. In this day and age, only a fool would cross or ignore unspoken sexual boundaries, but horny fools can be a lot of fun. I have experience with two licensed massage guys who decided to "jump" on me without knowing anything in legit spa environments. One guy was crazy horny (I assumed), and I was not attracted to his face or cock. At one point, he insisted I suck his cock, and I refused. He gave a great, strong massage, with major, helpful stretches. I think I saw him one or two more times, but he couldn't control his aggressive, horny state, so I stopped going to him. The other guy waited to the very end. Without saying a word, he shifted gears and worked to get me aroused. Not only was he a great masseur, I was attracted to him. I later thanked him for the surprise. I was traveling, so I knew I would not see him again. No matter what, I've never gotten on a massage table with clothing on. For me, that's a red flag for strange. I have asked to be draped, because I don't enjoy getting cold. I don't have modesty issues, and I'm mostly up for a sexual surprise. So contradictions exist. Way too many talented fish in the sea to prevent moving on. But minds change. If you get erect just thinking about the experience, then I would probably return for more. Sometimes, certain details can grow on you, and then no attraction becomes some attraction. If there is no chance of replacing his talent, and sex is a no for you, then you need to be honest with him. But given that strong erection, and that super quick orgasm, it sounds to me like johnny had fun, and wouldn't mind more.

Regarding Connor on upcoming SNL, another interesting take from PR professional Waylon Tate.

I have always assumed it meant they can get a strong erection at the smell of a vagina, and the taste, too. Women's armpit scent is not the same as a man's. That's the thing with pheromones, you can't force them to be gay or straight. Sexual excitement is very organic, and very individual. It can depend on many factors. Almost never a black and white situation.

Wow, that skin. Those nipples. He's got a great fade, too. He claims to have 6 years experience. Would love to know if he's had training. Anyone seen the private pics?

My former partner was a successful hairdresser. He would always say the customers who tipped the most received the best service. However, that didn't mean the biggest tippers stood among his favorite clients. It's a funny thing how that worked.

Pheremones have long been known to stimulate psychological and physiological arousal factors. Apparently, the apocrine glands in the pits and the groin, and the vomeronasal organ in the nose communicate with each other. Sometimes, they sing songs that cause erections, while other times someone vomits. It's a scented game of chance.

I think he's hot as hell. Does anyone know what those armpits smell like after a workout? I could use a nice warm pit smothering in this frigid cold we are currently enduring.

I'm the Good Samaritan. I can't chase a dog, but if I've seen that you've fallen and can't get up, I will try to offer help. Throughout my decades in NYC, I have helped many people in distress. No regrets. I have called 911 several times to report a possible death on the sidewalk. Sometimes you can't tell when a drug addict is breathing. I tend to believe in treating others as I wish to be treated. I fear one day being that person on the ground, and I hope and pray someone will come to my rescue when it happens.