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d.anders

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  1. I just saw it tonight. It's based on a book. I purposely worked hard to not read much about this film before seeing it. I did enjoy the film's craft. I could watch it again, and probably will. I thought the actors did a great job, especially Harry Melling. I found Harry very difficult to watch. I don't find him attractive, and his bad teeth really bothered me. So many close-ups. But he did a great job with the character. Alexander Skarsgård was wonderful. I'm happy with the amount of nudity, but I always wish he would do more. The prosthetic artist is credited at the end, so we know the cock is not his. But whoa that body. Nicely oiled and beautifully lit. The parents were well cast, too. It is a shocking film for our times. I'm so glad it got financed. America needs to see more, and learn more about how complicated sex really is.
  2. My former partner had a good friend who once worked for Leona Helmsley. She was notorious for being cheap, and telling everyone who would listen that this is how she got rich. Yet, in her will, she left $12 million to her dog, Trouble, which a NY judge later reduced to $2 million. Wealthy people can be crazy. My gut tells me that most of them are. Mixing sex and "work" may be a ruse of the past. Me-Too continues to have impact. All it takes is one participant to go rogue, and careers and reputations end. I won't even mention lawsuits. Wherever power exists, especially in show business, seduction won't be far behind. There will always be ambitious people, male and female, who will jump at the chance to get paid for sex in exchange for a career opportunity. Well written, with such a friendly tone. If I could afford it, I would take this handsome guy to Alan David, and treat him to a bespoke suit.
  3. I swear my computer is haunted. Shortly after I post to this thread this morning, this comes up in my Feed: Eric Roberts gets what I'm saying. "Dime store-ish." That's where we're at. I have no experience hiring escorts, except many people have told me that HE massage therapists are precisely that. Still, the notion that there is an exclusive club of Oxford graduates, perhaps those handsome characters in the movie Maurice, that cater to wealthy men via word-of-mouth, and charge a fortune for their elevated experience, is nothing more than a Merchant-Ivory romantic fantasy. "If you have to ask the price, then you can't afford the service." LOL. Sounds like some 1980's tag line created on Madison Avenue, from a sales agent who believed his shit didn't stink. When it comes to shopping for sex, do men really care about the college credits and the gene pool of the guys they hire? How much of an escort's background is actually knowable? Do their CVs also get passed along by underground word-of-mouth? I suspect most men hire based on looks first, including men like Geffen. Most men want what they normally can't have by simple mutual attraction. After that, it's usually a particular turn-on that facilitates a sale. Sure, if you're doing an overnight or an extended vacation, you want all of the above, and maybe some chemistry and humor mixed in. You definitely don't want to hire a homeless drug addict, although it wouldn't surprise me if that might be a fetish for some billionaires.
  4. LOL. Isn't the elitist sales pitch dead? Look what's happening to the Glambot guy. Canceled. Most of the wealthy people I've encountered in my life are cheap as hell. They are all looking for bargains and freebies when they can get them. Saks and Neiman's just filed for bankruptcy protection. Money is so transactional these days. High prices are far more marketing tactics than any indication of quality, especially with all the luxury crap that is now being made in China. I don't know any billionaires, so maybe there's a discreet pool of guys who cater to these circles, but how many billionaires are looking for man-on-man sex-for-hire? Name one product that a billionaire might buy today that doesn't have a website.
  5. It's a fantasy best left for an OF video. It's difficult enough to find one guy who has massage skill, and knows how to touch sensually.
  6. I like Rose Byrne. I think she's very talented. I'm glad she's receiving accolades for her work. I'm surprised this movie got financed. I found it very depressing and a challenge to watch. Haven't seen Christian Slater in a very long time. Did not know he was in the film. I was also surprised to see Conan O'Brien in an acting role. He seemed perfectly cast.
  7. I usually don't enjoy when people make assumptions about me, or take advantage without asking my permission, but horny sexual activity usually wins the moment. In this day and age, only a fool would cross or ignore unspoken sexual boundaries, but horny fools can be a lot of fun. I have experience with two licensed massage guys who decided to "jump" on me without knowing anything in legit spa environments. One guy was crazy horny (I assumed), and I was not attracted to his face or cock. At one point, he insisted I suck his cock, and I refused. He gave a great, strong massage, with major, helpful stretches. I think I saw him one or two more times, but he couldn't control his aggressive, horny state, so I stopped going to him. The other guy waited to the very end. Without saying a word, he shifted gears and worked to get me aroused. Not only was he a great masseur, I was attracted to him. I later thanked him for the surprise. I was traveling, so I knew I would not see him again. No matter what, I've never gotten on a massage table with clothing on. For me, that's a red flag for strange. I have asked to be draped, because I don't enjoy getting cold. I don't have modesty issues, and I'm mostly up for a sexual surprise. So contradictions exist. Way too many talented fish in the sea to prevent moving on. But minds change. If you get erect just thinking about the experience, then I would probably return for more. Sometimes, certain details can grow on you, and then no attraction becomes some attraction. If there is no chance of replacing his talent, and sex is a no for you, then you need to be honest with him. But given that strong erection, and that super quick orgasm, it sounds to me like johnny had fun, and wouldn't mind more.
  8. Regarding Connor on upcoming SNL, another interesting take from PR professional Waylon Tate.
  9. I have always assumed it meant they can get a strong erection at the smell of a vagina, and the taste, too. Women's armpit scent is not the same as a man's. That's the thing with pheromones, you can't force them to be gay or straight. Sexual excitement is very organic, and very individual. It can depend on many factors. Almost never a black and white situation.
  10. Wow, that skin. Those nipples. He's got a great fade, too. He claims to have 6 years experience. Would love to know if he's had training. Anyone seen the private pics?
  11. My former partner was a successful hairdresser. He would always say the customers who tipped the most received the best service. However, that didn't mean the biggest tippers stood among his favorite clients. It's a funny thing how that worked.
  12. Pheremones have long been known to stimulate psychological and physiological arousal factors. Apparently, the apocrine glands in the pits and the groin, and the vomeronasal organ in the nose communicate with each other. Sometimes, they sing songs that cause erections, while other times someone vomits. It's a scented game of chance.
  13. I think he's hot as hell. Does anyone know what those armpits smell like after a workout? I could use a nice warm pit smothering in this frigid cold we are currently enduring.
  14. I'm the Good Samaritan. I can't chase a dog, but if I've seen that you've fallen and can't get up, I will try to offer help. Throughout my decades in NYC, I have helped many people in distress. No regrets. I have called 911 several times to report a possible death on the sidewalk. Sometimes you can't tell when a drug addict is breathing. I tend to believe in treating others as I wish to be treated. I fear one day being that person on the ground, and I hope and pray someone will come to my rescue when it happens.
  15. The fantasy almost never matches the porn scene, unless the guy is bi, and he's into you. The truth is, there are a lot of sexually curious men among us. There are also many guys who dislike labels, and have no interest in being labeled. I have been sexual with men who identify as straight. I don't recall any of them who had the desire to kiss, but they enjoyed sucking, or at least licking my shaved cock. I've never experienced a "straight" guy who wanted to lick ass, but there are many bi guys who do. I can do without the gaping hole photo, but I sometimes wore a thong in the 70's, especially at a summer pool. I used to enjoy my fully tanned body, until I realized I enjoyed a tan line more. Also, if you don't have a drag persona, or at least a drag name gifted to you by a gay friend, it's highly likely we won't be close friends. I absolutely love masculine men who embrace their feminine self.
  16. It appears to be true. Hosting Feb 28. Amazing.
  17. Bonnie Bitter is in the house, and she just farted.
  18. I love June Squibb, but this movie is dreadful. It is so boring, I fell asleep four times while watching it. It is a terrible directing debut for Scarlett Johansson.
  19. I sure do treasure those memories. I saw a lot of bouncing cock in my gym classes. Visuals that still turn me on to this day.
  20. They are both hot, IMO. Very controversial, for sure. Controversy loves attention. There is no question that "daddy" fantasies in porn make a lot of money. Are there legal issues? This is the sort of controversy that will drive some people absolutely nuts. With the internet economy being what it is, was this not inevitable?
  21. She was a Hollywood treasure. She caught my attention on SCTV, and I never stopped watching her. A very versatile actress. Could do comedy and serious drama. Her comic timing was pure genius. Thankfully, the role of Moira Rose really let her shine at her best. She will be missed.
  22. I was far more selective in my stupid youth. Of course there are certain things that are a sexual turn off, but once I turned 30 and accepted that I was a horny dog, out the door went most of my hangups.
  23. Why would any escort in his or her right mind have anything to do with PayPal?
  24. Ever since I was a teenager, I always enjoyed seeing my dick swing in a mirror. I know it's silly and stupid, but I occasionally still do it to make myself chuckle. I love watching cock move, plain and simple.
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