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I loved Gosford Park. I loved Downton Abbey. I was hoping for something close. Fellowes has had a few turkeys in his career, namely The Tourist. There isn't one character in Gilded Age I care about. The set design is more interesting than the characters.

I'm watching this, but mostly for a history lesson. I'm not enjoying the writing, directing or the acting. I think many of the characters are plastic, and some actors are mis-cast, like Blake Ritson. This show is a true Downton Abbey wannabe, but it comes nowhere close to that quality. Christine Baranski will never be Maggie Smith. Christine is too one-note for me. Award-winning Kristine Nielsen is completely waisted, with a ridiculous German accent. I guess you could say I hate watch. Of course spinster Ada's one chance at love dies 10 minutes after they get married, and his money saves Agnes. How contrived can Julian get? Blah.

I never knew Cher called Madonna the C-word until I saw the videos in this thread. Holy shit. That is outspoken, something you almost never see from Hollywood types. Also, for Cher to criticize Madonna's singing voice, that's a bit rich given how limited Cher's voice is. Still, hard not to love Cher. So many of us grew up with her.

It shouldn't be necessary, but I always appreciate when a translator is onboard.

A bed massage with no nudity? I don't think I could handle that torture.

Well, no wonder he's a dud. When you count the number of monthly customers you need to satisfy that number alone, that's a ton of stress. Even if you love what you do, stress will kill the love. No one can have a happy life if the fight for rent is a daily chore. I can't think of a better way to burn out.

He seems like a tight, compact kind of guy. I think he's sexy. Looks like he travels with a table and cares a lot about his health. A+. If his technique is as good as the reviews suggest, I might splurge on this one, if given the chance. The guys who travel with tables tend to be serious, and deserve more, IMO. I don't need a new best friend, just someone who knows and loves what he is doing. If he does it naked, even better.

Finally got around to seeing this recently. I had not heard of it until the Emmy's, where it swept many awards. I thought it was a terrific roller-coaster ride, but I also loved the movie Parasite. There are similar themes. Loved the sex scenes with Young Mazino who played Paul. OMG, what a body! I had to rewind that ass several times. I so wanted one of the characters to be gay, but the only gay reference was the homophobia that is quite prevalent in Asian culture. I thought the casting was perfect. Did not know that Ali Wong and Bill Hader are a couple. I'm looking forward to watching it again. There are quite a few details that are easy to miss, given how much is going on in the story.

Thank you for doing that and reporting back. Sounds absolutely dreadful. Sorry to hear your experience was so bad. On to the next.

I wish I could give up all tech, except I do love having a computer in my home. Sadly, I'm wedded to Mac OS. Made that switch decades ago. It's not just the cost of the phone, it's the cost of the monthly plan. Don't want it, don't need it, don't enjoy talking on cell phones. I live in a building that requires a landline for intercom service. I love the quality of my landline (voice quality and reception), although that may die one day soon. I can live with the folks who label me old, ancient, cheap, and curmudgeonly. I don't care. That's the beauty of being in my 60's. Sorry for the off-topic.

Yes, having a license, a table with an adjustable headrest, and an email address are now considered "rigid requirements." It's all a friggin joke. Didn't even mention the $1000 smartphone, which I refuse to purchase. I hate all cell phones. No texting from me. Ever.

Well that's the thing about "age" in our time. So many people are looking great at an older age, like never before. I once had a fabulous massage by a guy on MF. His ad said he was 38, and there was nothing about his appearance that would suggest otherwise. While I was on his table, enduring his painful but masterful work, he confessed to being 52. I applauded him, not only for his honest confession, but for his gene pool.

I never know where someone gets the money to afford some of Manhattan's newer buildings. The housing market here has gone completely insane. I wouldn't blame anyone for doing HE on the side, just to make ends meet. Amen to that.

I'm happy to settle for a license at this point. LOL. No young for me. I've never met a young masseur who exhibited strong talent. I also don't think young guys know very much about how to be sensual. I think it takes some years to develop technique and knowledge. I'm perfectly happy with 30+. As for cute, well that really depends on taste. I'll take sexy over cute any day.

Some people are like that. It can be tiring. Yep, at 40, by the youngins' in my life, I was declared "old." Now, in my 60's, I'm either ancient or dead.

Bed massage only. Tier priced, "deep" being the most expensive. LOL. Did not answer question about license. I'm assuming no serious massage here.

Some of the highest member prices in Manhattan. They are leveraged to the hilt.

IMO, there is nothing worse than a dead personality. I don't care how fabulous everything else is.

Always got to watch out for the Players. They are usually handsome and fit, they know it, and they use that as bate. The ad always reads like a dream come true. Maybe, if you happen to be their type, you may get a worthwhile experience. But mostly not. They are not in the business to please you, they just want easy money. As for Marks, "exploring what life brings me," from his OF page. Maybe a poor choice of words, but the quest seems very me-centric.

What are my chances that he'll take my call on first try? What are my chances that he'll call back? Or, call back at a convenient private time for me? Since I don't know his name, with whom do I address a message? I can only imagine what happens when I dial a wrong number, and leave a HE question on someone else's machine. LOL. Email is the only sane, friendly option, if you ask me, yet more and more guys insist on using text only. Whatever. Another guy knocked off my list. I doubt he's licensed anyway.

I can understand a little copy and paste here and there if you're not a writer. But lifting full sentences, especially these days, seems insane. AdonisX does look familiar. I think he's hot as hell. Incredibly sexy, with an amazing smile. I hate when these hot guys wear black underwear. White should be mandatory. I hope someone reports back on his massage talent. I also hate when they don't offer email. There is absolutely no way for me to contact him. How dumb is that? Good looks and no brain. Not like we haven't seen that before.

Those are my favorite finds. True gems. I don't shop for HE anymore, not for at least 8 years, but I sure love getting massaged by a naked man. I just love being naked with another guy. @Madman Your analysis sounds keen to me. I had forgotten about the massage guys who advertise on RentMen. Always assumed they had no license. I don't visit that site looking for massage.

I could be wrong, but many "older" massage therapists in NYC prefer to be self-employed, especially if they lean toward sensual work. Once you have a solid client base, why work on commission for someone else? Some older guys like the stability and ambience of a high-end spa, tips are great too, but those guys will not be doing HEs. There are some hot men doing massage at certain gyms, but I doubt they would last long if they got caught doing anything sensual. If you're looking for "sensual," there's only one place to find that, and it's online, at very specific places. There are a few over-40 guys who are well reviewed in this forum, and several of them are worth seeking. I know from experience.

Does someone's true age really matter? With 50 being the new 30, if you look good enough to pass, why be honest about age? I don't get the customer hung up on numbers, unless the provider is truly trying to snow somebody with grotesque falsehoods. We live in a culture that places a premium on youthful qualities. I prefer knowledge and experience, but so many prefer youth and the perception of endless energy. There seems to be something for everyone.

The abs look great, but they won't last unless you work at them, unless he's one of those gifted types. He seems to have a nice face, and his words suggest an eagerness to please. $180 for a bed massage, could certainly be a deal for those who get pleasure from the bed fantasy. I'm all ears.