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MasseurFinder has been around for decades. I think they were the first to offer the category of Therapeutic, which gave permission to licensed masseurs to advertise there. Even when explicit images were allowed, quite a few legit guys used the service. Using the word rent in RentMasseur can be interpreted as wordplay, which can suggest the promotion of escort type services. But these days, with everyone offering the same categories, it seems anything and everything goes, you just have to read between the lines and pay attention to honest feedback, if you can find it. I remember the days when certain guys would post explicit photos in their ads, and then, when you're on their table, nothing. At least that practice is gone now. There are a tons of guys who will play depending on certain factors. Good luck finding those details in an ad. It's the luck of the draw, and I don't think that practice will ever go away.

By Asian, I mean owned and operated. It does not refer to the employees. Thank you for the lair education. I contacted Eason. Outcalls only, no table. Bummer.

Can someone describe his talent? Does he have the gift of firm-touch-technique? Is he totally into muscle healing? What exactly is this W Spa lair? I've never been to a NYC Asian spa, but I'm not opposed to going if the place is clean and legit. Thank you.

I haven't seen him in decades, but I assume all the photos are accurate. He knows photography. However, the photos come from very different years, and some are very old. You can tell. He very well may be in his 50's now, but you know how these guys are about revealing their truthful age. Until you see him in person, you can't really know for sure. His ad suggests he's grown quite a bit, far more open than he used to be. He's been doing this tantric massage business for at least 20 years, if not much longer, so I expect he's found a way to bring pleasure, and possibly enjoy the process.

I think this is the guy: tantrictouchnyc on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com I remember him from long ago. He was quite handsome in his youth, and he had a pretty ass. He wanted to be a filmmaker. I think he actually did make a small, independent film. It looks like he got out of NYC, but he still uses the word tantric in his ad.

It seems to be a feature of the software, consolidation. If you want to see all of it clearly, click on Expand. In the massage room of my former gym, they had a small, oscillating fan. I had always assumed it was there for the extra-warm room, since they kept that room pretty warm for the naked customer. Maybe the fan helps in the presence of a small gas burst. Many spas have these aromatherapy machines, and some of those scents are quite powerful. I imagine pro masseurs are equipped with plenty of information on how best to mitigate a gassy customer. I know plenty of straight guys who are damn proud of their destructive gas releases, and I doubt they hold back when on a massage table.

I was not referring to that. I do not support personal attacks.

Love his photo gallery. He shows us a lot of what we want to see, given the newer restrictions. The name changes aren't a good sign, but he looks like the kind of guy I would take a chance on.

The thread is titled Massages: Keepin' It Real. Lots of room for varied stories and nuance, IMO.

I did reach out to him, thank you. He says he is not licensed. He may be very talented and sweet, but, since I have experience with in-grown hair surgery, I'm reluctant to use the services of a non-professional. If something ever went wrong, I would feel like a fool, explaining how I went to an unlicensed practitioner.

Metformin is just one drug of many that I take, but I must never take it with another drug. Sadly, my body tends to reject metformin, but only on some days of the month. I can never plan or predict the awful side effects. Diabetes has killed my muscle tone. My ass is nothing of what it once was. When I think about all the years I spent in a gym working out, I want to cry. The last time I had a massage, the masseur got on top of me, not only to create body-to-body contact, but also to slide his erection between my oiled butt cheeks. As he glided back and forth, his hard cock entered my butt hole without any resistance or pain. That was a shock to me, and to him, since it wasn't his intention. Normally, I'm not a bottom, and I certainly don't want to have unprotected sex. No matter what I do, I can no longer clench my butt and expect it to be reliable. I don't expect all others to share my exact woes, but I do want to speak out about my worries, especially to the ears of the therapists. I know I'm not alone. Farting on the massage table is a horror thought for me, and I want to figure out a way to avoid it, if possible. My doctors tell me to take Beeno, which I have tried. It's not fool proof. I'm scared I may never be able to get on the massage table again.

I don't act as though I have no control. I do my best to project normalcy. But I know the truth. I am diabetic, and Metformin fucks with your digestive system in a horrendous way. For awhile I was in denial, but those years are behind me. I would love to reject my truth, but life doesn't work that way.

(I wish I knew how to edit.) I should also add, I've never farted on the massage table, because I was able to clench my buttocks tight enough. The experience of having to fart was not enjoyable, and I'm sure the masseur could tell I was trying to avoid a release. He could feel my body tense up. I haven't had a massage since before Covid, so I'm dreadfully afraid to get on the table now. My clenching is no longer possible, so if my body wants to release gas, I won't be able to say no. What are we aging customers supposed to do? End our love of massage? Keep our money to ourselves? One fart is not the end of the world. I imagine farting is discussed in the massage training classes. Yes, serious massage therapists do sign up for this. No reasonable human being can control all aspects of the human body, especially when you are naked and lying down, and someone is applying deep pressure all over your body. Give me a break.

I totally disagree. The mere act of "getting up" from the table could cause a sudden release, making the trip to the bathroom a precious waste of time. Furthermore, who on earth wants to jump off his table once his body is in the massage zone to take a bathroom break simply to release gas? I'm sorry, but after I turned 50, my body does things I never imagined it could. I'm sure the medications I now take are partly to blame, since I consider myself to be a healthy eater. The bottom line is I have control over almost nothing. Some days are great, while others are awful. If only I could schedule a no-fart day. Ridiculous to call this inconsiderate and nasty.

I can't believe anyone looking for hair removal services is interested in sex at the same time. I know electric clippers is a sexual fetish for some, but I've never heard of a professional hair business in nyc (or anywhere), which requires a State-issued operating license, to offer sexual services on the side or DL. Everyone knows such an offer is illegal, so what American owner would risk losing his business over some horny customer? Odd and dangerous request. That said, I am interested in some hair removal, the no-sex kind. I think I would like to have electrolysis on my butt crack. I don't have a lot of body hair, but for some reason, I'm prone to ingrown hairs around my backside, and they usually occur if I let my body hair grow out long, like months after I have shaved. I used to shave myself, but I can no longer do a great job on my butt. I might love someone doing that for me. I've had ingrown hairs before that required surgery, which is not fun. It's always a danger, whether you shave or not. Thankfully, none were near my groin. So shaving and other forms of removal do concern me. That's why I've been researching permanent hair removal. Years ago, I had an escort who had electrolysis on his balls and ass, and I thought the results were amazing. I know the service is time consuming and expensive. Has anyone on this board experienced this service? Any recommendations for the nyc area? Thanks. Maybe I need to start a new thread.

Fart shaming among gay men? Seriously? Show me a man who says he doesn't fart, and I'll show you a liar. Does anyone truly believe all their farts can be controlled? Delusional. Passing gas during a massage is about as natural as your nose stuffing up or running, or something unknown dripping from your cock. A good massage forces your body to release things. I have to believe 99.9% of men who actually get massage know the pain of trying to hold one in during a massage. I'm not suggesting anyone should have a Mexican lunch before their massage appointment. There are some things you can do to limit excessive gas, but there are no 100% guarantees. If there is a masseur who can't tolerate gas release during a massage, then I would suggest he find another career. Such ridiculousness is like entering a hospital and forbiding the smell of alcohol, or feces. Get real.

I would take that to mean no over-weight men.

I'm surprised no reviews. Ad says he's been doing massage for 10 years. I could do without the tattoos, but I like his laid back sexy natural body look. Can anyone speak about his massage talent?

I certainly wasn't advocating for Ken to fail. Just expressing my opinion about sensual massage for the gay male customer. If others are happy with Ken's clothed service, by all means he should be praised and supported for a great massage.

Well, if he didn't get naked for an old-timer regular, what are the chances he'll get naked with any one of us? I just don't get it. Most gay men want to be naked with another man during massage, and they will pay a premium for that fantasy wish. I get the disdain for the serial gropers, but I never touch unless invited. Am I alone in this? The visual of naked by itself is worth a higher price for me. If he smothers my face with his groin and butt, then we hit a home-run. But to keep your clothes on while you service a golden unicorn? What a bummer. Thanks EV for the update. Very helpful.

No easy way to get there by public transportation. I wonder how a business like this can survive?

Looks like prices have changed on the M&J website. $100 for 90 minute massage is a bargain, especially if the massage is good. Can't say much about the stock photos. Has anyone had their pubic hair shaved at one of these places? I should probably start a new topic?

He'll be in NYC soon. He lives in London but is traveling. He is not traveling with a table. Has anyone experienced his bed massage?

Lovely. But what is his background? Is he Asian? Latino? Mexican? Texan? Cut or uncut? Flirtatious? Generous with his assets? Thank you. (Clean shaven and polite does nothing for my richter. 😄)

No, I didn't mean that. What a wonderful world it could be if we could visit a gay men's spa website and choose our masseur with the help of a photo. Not in my lifetime. However, if you're trying to attract gay men (or any man) to a spa experience, you can certainly do better than what Shangrila offers. The website is little more than a Yellow pages listing. LOL. (PS I guess it could be worse. The pages could offer naked women in the photos, the generic kind.)