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I used to travel for work, so I have endless stories. I had massage in every town I visited. I never wore underwear for a massage. I love being naked too much, and piriformis work is very important to me. Definitely no underwear for that. But many of the straight guys I visited across the country had interesting reactions to my desire to be naked and uncovered (a must in warmer climates). I loved when the masseur would voluntarily get naked with me. Loved when the masseur would say, "Do you mind if I join you?" I find many straight masseurs are open-minded about being naked. It's when the horny gay guys go grabby where things go south. Open-minded straight masseurs often have their boundaries. If you respect those boundaries, many guys will surprise you.

I can't believe how negative some of you guys are. I know it's miserable outside, but really. Owen is hot as hell, and I love his apology tour. It probably took 2 years to find this place. Apologies, no matter how old, are always welcome, IMO. Some people never have the guts to say they were ever wrong. Sounds divine to me. The open-minded straight guys I have known have always been a ton of fun. Sign me up!

Figure out a way to submit a fake I.D. to RM. It can't be that difficult. The person who pays for the ad does not have to be the person in the ad. If you think your future might include a background check, never use your legal name for anything suspicious.

There is another heat wave outside. Makes one cranky.

There are "insider" videos on YouTube claiming SJP had no clue the show was being canceled. I would not be surprised if people worked hard to keep the social media hate away from her, but there is no way the folks at or near the top weren't aware of it. They hire people now to track social media impact. Can't help but wonder what SJP will do with all the clothes now. She's spending a fortune on temperature controlled storage, maybe several college tuitions, and that's not a price tag burden an older actress wants as she enters her twilight years.

The poor mods. The entire thread is political, and any fool can see that. Colbert's firing can't get more political. Doesn't anybody read anymore? Or do they read what they want to read, and ignore the rest? How can any intelligent human being extract politics from life? Good luck with that, mods.

Your whole piece is well written and spot on. Creatives like to work and make a lot of money, if that rare chance is there. With Kim Cattrall out, where was this group supposed to go if they wanted to capture lighting in a bottle once again? There may have been a chance to do it, but probably not with Michael Patrick King, sadly. There are so many hate videos on YouTube praising the fail. I hear King hired writers who ruined the narrative and made silly choices. King has to take the blame though. I, too, am surprised it lasted 3 seasons. Goes to show how hungry HBO is for content. Competition is very serious these days.

I would love to see the results, and offer my feedback. Some men have beautiful ass crack hair. Hair also absorbs more scent, and the scent is a bit different when compared to fully shaved. In the end, all of it needs to be tested by a connoisseur to know for sure.

He's got a lot of visual excitement going on. I don't think I've ever heard him sing.

I used to be a news junkie. In recent years, I canceled everything. Life is too short to allow the click-bate manipulators to get to you. Except when researching recipes. The Comment section of many recipes on the internet can often be where the secrets are revealed.

An old gay friend who sold his $2 million dollar apt and left NYC after Covid recently telephoned to say, "You know what, I've decided I hate gay men. They're nothing but bitchy cunts." I had a bit of a chuckle. If you knew the gentle, loving gay guy who made this comment, you'd be as shocked as I was. I probably don't post here enough to know what others are talking about. It seems to me, Mods step in fairly regularly. The mere scent of political interpretation presents a disappearing act like no magician I've ever seen.

I don't own a smartphone. I either need to speak to him directly, or use email. Too bad he doesn't join here.

I don't know much about the law, but Elliot Spitzer was not only attorney general and governor, he got caught buying escorts, and I don't think he lost his law license. At least I never heard that he did. I read somewhere, to get disbarred, you need to be charged.

I've never been to that 14th St. location for a massage. What is that experience like? How do you locate the masseur once you get there? What are the massage rooms like? Alex now says "text preferred." If I call the phone number, is it possible to leave a voice message? My phone number will read "unknown," so I expect he may ignore me. Frustrating. I'll try to call him and see what happens. Also, anyone know if he'll do an outcall with a table? He seems to charge the same for both studio and outcall, unless I have that wrong.

There are so many smart people critiquing this film on YouTube, and seriously criticizing David Koepp for the lousy story. They were hoping he would save the franchise, and bring the film closer to its original impact. One wonders if he or any of the production people watch this stuff. Everybody got handily paid, so maybe the criticism does not matter. This franchise does seem to be critic proof. I imagine some artists do care about integrity, but maybe money has a way of canceling that.

I can't wait for Maureen Callahan's take on Episode 7. I still can't believe how bad Patti LuPone was. She has some nerve criticizing other actors, when she should be looking in the mirror. The in-and-out bad accent was so glaring. How did the director miss this and not say something? OMG, can you imagine her trying to sing with that bad Italian accent? They must have discussed singing with her. It was a total karaoke episode. I bet she turned them down. Since they had the mother character born in Buffalo, NY, why have her attempt to speak with a terrible accent, and then drop the accent for several of the scenes? It just doesn't make any sense. That karaoke birthday party was the ultimate dud. Carrie looked ridiculous, and her relationship with Miranda barely exists. They always seem like they are on the edge of hating each other. Not sure I could ever love a friend that long for being a pain in the ass.

OMG. The worst episode I think I've ever seen. Karaoke torture. Even worse, Patti LuPone's guest appearance. I can't believe her terrible attempt at an Italian accent, there one minute, and gone the next. Embarrassing. What are these people thinking?

Interesting little factoid that I did not know, the director/choreographer of Boop, Jerry Mitchell (age 65), is married to Ricky Schroeder (age 34), who plays Clarence in the show. Jerry is looking pretty good for 65, but 30 years difference in age, and working on the same project, has to make for an interesting relationship. I've been watching for tickets on July 13, the closing performance, and only 4-6 seats left, at $256 each. I'm sure the show is going to be an unforgettable theater experience. I so wish I could go.

Sorry, I somehow missed this. Greenwich Village has gone through incredible change since the 1970's. I don't know the actual numbers, but the gay scene left it long ago. Most gays were priced out. So many male residents died. On weekends in the 70's and 80's, Christopher Street would be packed, especially down by West St. Wall-to-wall gay men, and hundreds of them overweight, wearing jeans or chaps. Residents today are not going to see anything remotely resembling that. If Greenwich Village is your current life, I would argue you are not likely to see obese gay guys milling about. 1 or 2 may still be there, but I doubt even that. I used to be a member of a popular gay social events club, long before Covid. There were plenty of fellow members who would qualify as obese. New York City has everything, and that's one of the things I like about living here. I've had my share of overweight gay friends. I still have a few. Many of them were married before it was legal. One guy was perpetually horny. He was not much of a looker, but he had a great personality. He was never slender, but he had no problem finding a husband or finding sex with hot guys. Many of his lovers were Latin.

The court of public opinion ruled him guilty. Let's see if he can survive that sentence.

One guy says Supreme Court ruling, while the other guy says glitch. Does the truth lie somewhere in between? If ID verification is going to be a thing, then you can probably say goodbye to anything porn related. Maybe this is the only way to keep kids away, but I seriously doubt it. I can see it coming.

He's supposedly worth $400 million and was caught on tape dragging his girlfriend around by the hair. Plus he's ugly. Why wouldn't folks be biased?

Dude, you must be blind, or don't get out much, or wear blinders when large men appear. I have my share of overweight friends, most are married, as @KensingtonHomo described. I don't know if they still exist post-Covid, but there used to be chubby/daddy parties, packed with large gay men who live here. While the Pride parade does attract visitors, there are plenty of locals who participate year after year. To some guys, it's like the Halloween parade, not to be missed. This notion of only slender, healthy gay guys living in NYC is pure fantasy.

I'd give just about anything for half his hair.

I had a ball! I can't believe this amazing show is closing on July 13. I'd love to know what went wrong. I wish I could afford to see it again. If only it could have survived the summer. This has the makings of a cult musical. It needed more time for word-of-mouth buzz. Of all the stuff I saw at the Tony's, nothing compares to this. The audience was absolutely electric. The last time I felt that kind of energy coming from an audience was seeing the original cast of Rent. Even before the show started, the audience was loud and buzzing. I'm sure the actors heard the noise backstage. When the lights went down, the screams and applause were off the charts. You would have thought the show was done and about to do curtain calls. I purposely knew almost nothing about this show. I was quite surprised by how creative it is. I had no idea I'd be seeing Faith Prince. What a joy she was. I loved the music. Not a single song bored me. Not only the music, but the orchestrations and the vocal arrangements, all superior. It was really difficult to avoid getting swept away. David Foster is a master. Jasmine Amy Rogers is amazing. Not only is she perfect for the part, she had the audience in the palm of her hand. She got several standing ovations apart from the one at the show's end. It was really something to witness. I couldn't help but feel she was channeling a young Eartha Kitt. The ensemble performers are terrific. All the characters are played by serious talent. The dance numbers are so much fun. This show should do very well on the road. Also, it should become a favorite for high school drama clubs. It offers so many opportunities for cast members to shine. I'm sorry to see it leave Broadway. It deserved so much more.