jmichaeliii

Just PMd you. Thank you.

Is there an easy way for me to check my Mr Number reputation? It is mainly for curiosity to see if anyone I met actually left something about me. I don't want to go through a painful sign up process for anything, so if that is needed, I'll pass then.

I met with Ty again today. Beforehand I talked with him about options for extras as I had only hired him for massage in the past. As luck would have it he does offer extras if you ask him so I went with a BFE and massage. Ty does not disappoint. It was a very warm and cozy session with an amazing massage. Ty is really a very warm person to be around, great body and very giving in his sessions. Was a really nice time.

Hes a scammer. He hangs out a lot in Allentown PA. This is at least his 5th name and profile change.

Hes a scammer. I admit my curiosity got the best of me and I reached out to him. The rates mentioned in this thread are what he gave me too. Knowing it was 90% I would lose the deposit, I sent him $50 to see where things would go. Once I told him the hotel I would host in, he backed off and said he couldn't meet in a hotel because he was recently robbed. He says he thought we were meeting at my house. So to get him to come he wanted a deposit of half the fee for the session upfront with me being a first timer. That's pretty much where I ended it and blocked him on RM, CashApp and WhatsApp. So accept my gift of checking it out and cross him off any lists.

I got an apology from mine also for even asking. There were several factors I considered when I lent him the money. One, every session he goes above and beyond, second he travels an hour and a half everytime we meet (its been almost 2 years since we first met and he was my first ever hire) and finally he is just a nice person... not an ounce of ego even though he is smoking hot. Not for a minute did I believe he would not be good for it, and if I was wrong then a hard lesson learned. He is still my number one guy.

Philadelphia

I completely agree. I mentioned above I have a guy I met when I first started hiring and we see each other regularly. He had a personal situation come up and he needed a rather large sum of money. We talked, he did not really want to take it, but I lent it to him. Our agreement at that time was my next 3 sessions are paid for and he was good with it. It was a risk no doubt, but we had known each other well over a year and are very friendly with each other, so I rolled the dice. It all turned out fine and we continue to see each other. But for someone you never met to ask you for anything is just crazy. Again, just glad this came up before we met.

I have not been hiring that long (about a year and a half) but it has always been my personal policy to be kind and pleasant with the guys I hire and for the majority, that has been reciprocated by great times, providers willing to travel to me (I am a good hour and a half away from a major city) and repeat encounters. I consider myself very fortunate to have found 4 guys fairly local to me that are wonderful people, so there is no need to let a bad apple here and there spoil the party. I am just glad this incident happened prior to us meeting so I can just cross him off my list.

Funny you say the nice part. I am very nice with my providers... until someone pulls a stunt like this. I'll say I am nice, but not naive.

Rentmen

All blocked. Doesn't sound like this is a common occurrence...maybe it's just me! 😀

Yes to your first question, yes to your second question and yes to your third. This time it was to cover getting some food because he was tapped out moving to a new place. The one before was because he couldn't afford his hotel bill. This one irked me in particular because up to this point everything was very professional. I thought it took a lot of nerve. Specifically he asked for $35. I lent money to my best regular once because he had a car accident and was in a pinch to get a car. I trusted him since I knew him for a year and a half and it worked out fine. This guy has never even met me in person.

How often do you have providers hitting you up for money? Today was the third time I had a provider I have not yet met hit me up for money for general expenses. To me it is awfully ballsy to do this and earns them an instant block going forward. The part that gets me this time is this is an established local provider that has good reviews. I was having good dialogue with this guy and had a day to meet setup then I get a text today to confirm that meeting and ask for money. Am I overreacting about this?

It's getting near a year and his profile only shows 205 visits. That seems way off base too.

Wow, he is smoking. I'd love some time with him but he's more than I think I can handle! 😀

Anyone with recent experience? He is in my area and am thinking of contacting him.

When meeting a new provider, I think it is so great to not know the possibilities ahead of time. You can kind of figure some things out from pictures and how a profile is written. I never ask ahead of time, but if I think there is a possibility, maybe its a gentle touch when they are in front of you or how you react to something they did to you. For me, I really like the surprise and where things go. My favorite is when the masseur asks me if anything is off limits before they start. Then you know a good time is gonna happen!

I should have been clearer with that, sorry.

Minimal. He's ok with you touching him mainly on the latter part of the massage when you are on your back. He has this in his profile---I am a healer first. If ur just looking for ur routine ****** please do not contact me--- And he is serious about that. He is smoking hot and I'd love to do more with him and he is very nice. He does give a HE. Honestly he is very much worth it if you are looking for a massage...it is very good. I certainly don't want to give the impression that he is not worth hiring because that is not the case. I would definitely hire him again.

I met him once. Nice guy and fantastic massage skills. Very sexy. He allows mutual touch but there were no xtras in my session. He seems very serious about his craft as he indicates in his profile.

Interesting one. I as a client was sick...not terribly...but a decent cold and cough. Felt good though and was Covid negative. I texted my provider and shared this and left it up to him what he wanted to do. He opted for us to meet. If you were at the end of an illness and mostly feeling better I would probably opt to move forward.

Yep, it happens. I'm just an average looking guy in his 50s that could use to lose about 20 pounds and even with that I have had many massage sessions turn into amazing times... and with younger providers that would be way out of my league. I have had a couple others that took a session or two for the heat to turn up, but when it did, what a great time. Whatever the reason this may be, I always operate under the principles of don't waste the providers time or flake on them and just be pleasant. I think when you already feel good about a person before you meet face to face goes a long way. Oh.... and one more thing... show up to the session cleaned up!

So much truth spoken here. It's all great when you fantasize about it in your head, but carry it out and wreck something great, then what are you left with?

I am newer at this, but I still see the guy I hired the first time almost 3 years ago. I feel lucky that I selected a good guy considering I came at this with no saavy when it came to selection. We see each other at least once, if not twice a month. I honestly never tire of him. Sweet guy, very sexy and kind of wild and gentle at the same time in bed. There is a friendly bond between us where we talk about family, life events, etc. When it is all said and done, I feel very comfortable when we are together.