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Agree with all above. It would be a big F-off. There are so many quality providers that understand how to do things right. No need to put up with that crap.

I will also endorse this message. He is smoking hot and such a nice guy. Seeing him again next week!

Jay sounds wonderful and I have been lucky to find many like him. You sound like you are around my size. I have had so many wonderful experiences. Those providers are out there and you can generally get a good idea about them from how they write their profile and the reviews they get.

I am not sure if this is on topic or not, but my frustration with being outside a major city is when a provider lists my area as a "Near Travel" and when you reach out to book, they either tell you its too far and wont come or want you to Uber them both ways. Why bother listing the area then?

Nothing good can come from negotiating providers rates. How is either party going to feel good about the experience if they feel screwed (not in the good way)? There are so many good providers that have what I consider affordable rates and tend to be more down to earth and fun.

My motto... either pay what is asked or pick someone else. I will sometimes ask what a multi hour rate is because sometimes if you book 2, 3 or 4 hours it could be less. But if it's not, pay it or move on. Negotiating rates just puts a damper on the whole experience.

I recently had one of my rentmen regulars have a friend come into town and he messaged me if I was interested in getting together with the 2 of them which I quickly said yes as this is a provider I have great chemistry with. The only thing I wish he was more into was kissing. The way the session played out... when they arrived from the airport the friend showered to clean up, then my regular. During my regulars shower time it was quite apparent the friend was really into making out, so the spacing of things got me what I wanted with no one feeling out. In the middle of the session we took another shower break and that gave me some more one on one time!

Just met with Mateus today. He is sooo hot and really gets into the session! He is willing to travel to where I am located (which I did not realize before), so he will now be on my regulars list!

Im not sure what his deal is. As the guy above said, he is always changing locations. Several times he has Allentown PA in his list, I'll reach out and then the destination is gone or changed. And he has never responded to a message.

In fairness some do. When I first started hiring I had a few, but I have learned over time to read profiles more carefully as the providers that come off full of themselves have been less than stellar experiences. And when you find one you click with, stick with them as the sessions tend to get better as you get comfortable with each other.

I have 5 guys in Philly I have had great times with. I've also met with 3 porn stars in Vegas. DM me if you want more detail.

Being an older chub, thats really only one factor. If you are a clean, respectful and kind older chub, there are plenty of hot guys that are happy to meet with you and show you a great time. I speak from my own experiences.

If you need any recommendations for Philly, DM me. There are some great guys to sample.

I enjoyed it very much, such a great cast. Im addition to Doris and Peter, the casting of Amy's and Debras parents were also very well done.

Same here!

I have a regular whose Rent Masseur ad has pretty close to the same expiration date as mine, so I have renewed mine while gifting him at the same time. He travels almost 90 minutes to see me without any upcharge, so it is just a gift of appreciation for that.

They are out there which is great. Its hard for me to give great oral to bigger guys as I can't handle my throat being jammed and my jaw muscles tiring! The ones where I can take it all in heat things up because I love hearing them enjoying!

I am 6' and 250. Trust me, there are great times to be had. I tend to like to hire younger (22-30) and hot and have no problems having a great time 90% of the time. Duds will happen no matter what from time to time. Just move on and take advice from guys here.

I agree with everything above. The good ones dont care about that stuff. They care that you are nice, respectful and hygienic. Follow those rules and you will see how good of a time you will have!

I had a younger guy use the daddy term with me in a heated moment. I am 58 and he was 24. We talked about it and he told me that he was loving the fact that we were wrapped in each other's arms kissing and touching, etc. He felt warm and loved versus the quicky fuck. I have found lately that the younger guys i have met with like a session steered in that direction but wont just do it on their own.

I think it depends on the provider. I have one where we both use the emojis and terms of endearment. Hes a naturally sweet person and I love being around him and he does things to me that rock my world, so it may be a little over the top, but I like it. Then I have others that are more businesslike. And thats Ok too. Its just their style.

100% true. The guys I hire over again treat me like a VIP. Better every session! Treat them well and you get it back 10 fold.

Same here. I have two regulars from Philly that drive almost 90 minutes to my location and never ask for extra, but I always compensate as I appreciate them taking away a drive to Philly for me!

Unfortunately thats probably the case. Before he got wrapped up in the OnlyFans stuff, he was very accessible. Now that he's in Vegas I have to imagine that takes up even more time.

I used to see Miles when he was in Philly. Really nice guy, fun times and very hot. As time went on he became more difficult to reach as I think he became more involved with his Only Fans and other activities.