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Also remember that there are providers that will look for opportunities to take advantage of you. Relax and enjoy yourself, but don’t be a push over.
Make sure you are clear about what you want, for how long and the fee. Some providers will try and cut time short or charge extra for staying longer without explaining that to you … others will do the minimum (which may or may not be what your agreed to) and expect full fee.
I don’t know your provider so my advice is more general. There are some good ones out there for sure, just don’t allow yourself to be taken advantage of. Providers are providing a service for a fee, so don’t feel like they are doing you a favour.
 

Also remember that there are providers that will look for opportunities to take advantage of you. Relax and enjoy yourself, but don’t be a push over.
Make sure you are clear about what you want, for how long and the fee. Some providers will try and cut time short or charge extra for staying longer without explaining that to you … others will do the minimum (which may or may not be what your agreed to) and expect full fee.
I don’t know your provider so my advice is more general. There are some good ones out there for sure, just don’t allow yourself to be taken advantage of. Providers are providing a service for a fee, so don’t feel like they are doing you a favour.
 

Hello all -
Just some updates on my trip to South America.
Brazil 
São Paulo
Espaco Lagoa Sauna - Good amount of hot guys.  Roughly 4pm-8pm each night.  Really dies out right after.  No ATM on site but reception takes cards.  Cash for entertainers most wanted R$250 could get to R$200.  Had a mix of guys, probably about 15-20 and very diverse model type to average Joe.  Entry was $15us and chargeable.  Fun venue and probably slightly cleaner and nicer than 117.   
Inhouse Agencia - Massagem Masculina - Fun Massage spa with multiple guy masseurs ready to cater to you.  Website features what masseurs are working that day.  Has tables or mattress options with shower in room.  Full service experience R$250 
Rio De Janiero 
Club 117 - Still awesome so many years later.  Again early crowd of 4pm-9pm.  There are guys that stay till 11pm but a lot are gone by 8pm.  Closed Mondays.  Prices did increase. Entrance via card is R$96,00, (R$88,00 cash) Suite is R$77,00 regaudless of payment method. Massage 1 hr R$220,00 card/$198,00 cash or 30min R$130,00 card or R$117,00 cash. Entertainers all start wanting R$300.  Average is R$200, they are hard to get any lower than R$150 now.  Rooms - some are renovated and updated which was nice, others were not. Security and cameras now all over locker area.  Staff was friendly, outdoor bar got a lot of improvements and lot of guys hang there.  Not as many used the inside bar.  Still has shows some nights.  

Point 202 - Apparently Wednesdays are good.  Dead by 9pm. Easiest club with entertainers to get to in Copacabana.  Boys were mixed and only a few but I went late at 8:30pm on a Friday when the subway was down and it was raining.  Otherwise would have went to 117.  Has drag shows.  Venue needs a lot of work but has a good vibe and guys were fun.  Just smelled a lot.  
New Meio Mundo - Very run down venue.  No good looking guys in my opinion.  Nothing like their social media looks like.  Club is very run down and in a run down area of downtown.  Safety is a risk here. I would avoid.  Was in and out in 10 minutes.  
Rio G Spa - Directly across from the beach and was great.  No Entertainers but plenty of guys on a Tuesday afternoon after the beach 6pm-9pm.  Small but does the job. 
Argentina
Buenos Aires 

A-Full Buenos Aires -  This was an odd one that was not well advertised but all locals mentioned it.  It's an an inconspicuous building with no signage but you will see a line outside forming everyday.  This is a cash only sauna and there are a few entertainers working with a lot of of young locals.  Was $5usd to get in. 
Colombia
Bogota 
Gigolo Erotic Club - fun starter club.  Open Fri/Sat nights only.  gets pretty packed. 10pm-1am.  About 15 guys, some of which work the sauna underneath as masseurs earlier in the day.  Lap dances are fun but in a curtained booth, but really anything can go.
Saint Moritz Sauna - in the same building as Gigolo Erotic Club/directly under neath.  Multiple "masseurs" working 4pm-8pm.  Sauna is closed by 9pm.  Takes card for the sauna.  Masseurs take cash and have private massage rooms.  $120-150 COP for the full service massage.  
Club Boys House - Facility with rooms to use to spend time with entertainers.  Multiple options on website. You can request ahead of time. There is a meeting fee if you don't choose to proceed after meeting the entertainers which was like $5usd. 
Hope this helps.
-Dakota

It’s about the same as RJ.

Any insights to share, please ?
Thanks.
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Yes I have met him. Nice guy. Sexy. Well dressed and polite. Average sized, staying hard was a problem.

Nothing.  I tip for exceeding MY expectations.   

I recently had a similar experience. The provider was out of shape and body did not look like the pics at all.
As a bottom, it makes it harder to just walk away…. especially if you have not eaten all day + douched. I went ahead, however the next problem was that he was not getting completely hard. The worst is a top trying to shove it in and fuck you with a semi hard dick.
Anyway, I ended the session at that point. Asked what was the rate, he gave me price for full rate. I paid and left. Did not have the energy to discuss or debate - but I certainly won’t be seeing this provider again.

I recently had a similar experience. The provider was out of shape and body did not look like the pics at all.
As a bottom, it makes it harder to just walk away…. especially if you have not eaten all day + douched. I went ahead, however the next problem was that he was not getting completely hard. The worst is a top trying to shove it in and fuck you with a semi hard dick.
Anyway, I ended the session at that point. Asked what was the rate, he gave me price for full rate. I paid and left. Did not have the energy to discuss or debate - but I certainly won’t be seeing this provider again.

I recently had a similar experience. The provider was out of shape and body did not look like the pics at all.
As a bottom, it makes it harder to just walk away…. especially if you have not eaten all day + douched. I went ahead, however the next problem was that he was not getting completely hard. The worst is a top trying to shove it in and fuck you with a semi hard dick.
Anyway, I ended the session at that point. Asked what was the rate, he gave me price for full rate. I paid and left. Did not have the energy to discuss or debate - but I certainly won’t be seeing this provider again.

I recently had a similar experience. The provider was out of shape and body did not look like the pics at all.
As a bottom, it makes it harder to just walk away…. especially if you have not eaten all day + douched. I went ahead, however the next problem was that he was not getting completely hard. The worst is a top trying to shove it in and fuck you with a semi hard dick.
Anyway, I ended the session at that point. Asked what was the rate, he gave me price for full rate. I paid and left. Did not have the energy to discuss or debate - but I certainly won’t be seeing this provider again.

I recently had a similar experience. The provider was out of shape and body did not look like the pics at all.
As a bottom, it makes it harder to just walk away…. especially if you have not eaten all day + douched. I went ahead, however the next problem was that he was not getting completely hard. The worst is a top trying to shove it in and fuck you with a semi hard dick.
Anyway, I ended the session at that point. Asked what was the rate, he gave me price for full rate. I paid and left. Did not have the energy to discuss or debate - but I certainly won’t be seeing this provider again.

I recently had a similar experience. The provider was out of shape and body did not look like the pics at all.
As a bottom, it makes it harder to just walk away…. especially if you have not eaten all day + douched. I went ahead, however the next problem was that he was not getting completely hard. The worst is a top trying to shove it in and fuck you with a semi hard dick.
Anyway, I ended the session at that point. Asked what was the rate, he gave me price for full rate. I paid and left. Did not have the energy to discuss or debate - but I certainly won’t be seeing this provider again.

So many glowing reviews on RM, I decided to take the plunge….
Would not recommend. 
Not in shape, not nearly as good looking as the obscure pics on RM make him out to be. Pics should have been a red flag …
He was on time and planning was easy.
Rushed through our session, finished off in about 30 minutes and was then ready to leave. I did not complain though… was happy to see him leave.

Not sure where to post this…. started following Zayn on TikTok. He is hot, his posts are intriguing and very suggestive. He also posts on other platforms (Instagram etc.)
The guys that he posts / collaborates with also have their own social media accounts - all posting very similar style of content.
I eventually took the plunge and signed up to his Only Fans. He has pics and videos, no real nudes at all, any x-rated content needs to be purchased at additional cost. 
After several direct messages from him to my OnlyFans inbox (not sure if it was really him or a bot or someone that just poses as him and hounds subscribers), I decided to buy some content for about $30.
There was some content of him half-heartedly jerking off, a video of a male body fucking a woman in reverse cowgirl style (assume it was him - no faces shown), and a video of a male body “fucking” another male body (assume it was meant to be him and another one of his collaborators - no faces shown).
To me, the 2 guys in the video were not really fucking. It was more of a show. Did not see any dick at all in the fucking video, let alone any shots of a dick going into a hole ….
Was interested if anyone else has had any experience with these kinds of social media performers? I am wondering if these guys are even gay / bi at all or just become really good at enticing gay men to spend money on them? Which to me seems a bit deceitful and wrong. In addition, advertising male-on-male action and delivering something else is also not appropriate. Seems like somewhat of a “bait and switch” strategy.
Anyways, I have learnt my lesson and decided to unsubscribe and block. Was just curious about other experiences or thoughts.
 

I find sexy men’s lingerie extremely hot…. I love wearing them and doing a slow and sensual reveal.

Wearing it myself turns me on, and a man that really appreciates the lingerie takes the encounter to another level for me.
Note - not talking about men wearing women’s lingerie here. Specifically referring to men wearing lingerie designed for men.
 

Given the ease that apps provide for identifying oneself and connecting, the terms "daddy" and "zaddy" (a youngish, especially attractive daddy) have taken on a new meaning for gay millennials and zillennials, and that meaning has pretty much nothing to do with the age-old idea of a "sugar daddy." If a 30-so,ething hooks up with a 40-something, a 50-something or even a 60-something online, very rarely is money involved, unless of course the app is something like RentMen, where every connection is transactional.
Of course, within the idea of "being into daddies" there are as many variations as there are individuals. As others have mentioned, some younger guys are attracted to the stability or confidence that comes with age (or seems to come with age) or a perceived psychological maturity or an ability to provide comfort or nurturing. Some younger guys want to be topped by a daddy figure, perhaps as a way of getting affection that was denied them by their actual father--even if the last thing in the world they want is to sexualize their own father. Others may be turned on by the idea of topping the daddy, perhaps as a way of getting revenge on an overly strict or withholding father. But others still may simply find it hot and not bearing any "dick-deflating" psychological scrutiny.
The biggest difference between then and now can be attributed to the apps themselves and the remarkable ease and visibility they give to every possible desire, kink, or predilection: Thirty-five years ago, if you were young and into older men, you probably kept it to yourself and only acted on it when you went to a bar that was frequented by older men. Today, you put it right out there in your profile.
For those of us old enough to have come out before AIDS and gay marriage, the visibility continues to shock. 
 

The term “Daddy” can mean different things depending on the context and the person using it, but it generally refers to an older, more mature individual who exudes confidence, stability, and a nurturing or protective demeanor. For some, it’s about physical attraction to someone older and more experienced, often tied to a sense of security or wisdom. For others, it may carry a financial undertone, where the dynamic involves a desire for support or being taken care of materially.
When younger people say they prefer “Daddy types,” it could be purely complimentary, signaling admiration for qualities like maturity, charisma, or life experience. On the other hand, it might hint at a relationship dynamic they’re seeking, whether emotional, psychological, or financial.
The term “Daddy Issues” usually refers to unresolved feelings or patterns stemming from someone’s relationship with their father, which might influence their preferences or attachments in adulthood. But it’s important to remember that not everyone attracted to “Daddy types” fits this stereotype—sometimes, it’s just a genuine preference!
Ultimately, it’s a spectrum, as you said, and context matters. If someone seems sincere, they probably are. And if their interest feels transactional, well, at least they’re being clear about it! Nothing wrong with cutting through the posturing and having an honest conversation to figure out where you both stand.