DamizzonNYC

13 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Rape Fantasy

This has been a thing for some Dom clients I’ve connected with on Recon

Some clients I can’t tell either way if they care if I cum.  There have been plenty of times - primarily as a bottom - when I haven’t cum at all.  Not because I wasn’t enjoying myself, just because they didn't seem interested in me cumming.  Didn’t feel like that’s what it was about.   Though you’re making me wonder how many of those guys were disappointed!

I do have regulars who are clearly very invested in my orgasm and I always cum for them.  

Have you made it clear that it’s important to you?

I honestly don't think I've ever connected with a kinky client by way of any of the mainstream platforms.  They've literally all come from Recon!

13 hours ago, Gdrake said:

 

a perfect amuse-bouche before I make it to NYC to “hang” with @DamizzonNYC😉

 

😈😈😈

Can't wait!

I had a client ask me to show up in a pair of assless neoprene pants once.  
 

Turns out neoprene doesn’t breathe too well under jeans. 

Not gonna lie, big fantasy of mine being that server. 

More of an escort than a masseur here so maybe it’s different.  
 

But I love getting that kind of a direction from a client.  Especially on a first meeting.  Gives me a real sense of what he’s about and what gets him off. 

I feel super naive here, and I can probably guess from context.  But I’m gonna go out on a limb here - maybe look like an idiot - and just ask…

What does this actually mean? 

This is between a man and his own penis.  
 

Full stop.  

On 9/11/2023 at 5:09 PM, dbar123 said:

If the bottom provider is doing outcall, they may not want to be dripping cum afterwards. I think the courteous thing to do is ask.

Are you kidding?  This is a badge of honor!  This is how you know it was a job well done.  💦🏆💦

Here you go: 

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8 hours ago, Roger Smith said:

Can anyone recommend a good NYC bottom provider who's into breeding?

 

I’m back in January I promise!  🤣

I don't think there's anything I'd get from a profile that I wouldn't get from a direct conversation with a client.  If I'm meeting someone new, I do like to know his history with hiring and what he's considered to be successful and unsuccessful experiences.

I’d recommend sugaring as opposed to waxing.  Way gentler on your skin.  Way less irritation.  
 

Even as an experienced Brazilian sugar guy, I give myself 24 hours before any sexy plans. 

14 hours ago, BananaBagel said:

Does anyone give Christmas gifts to providers? I’m seeing a guy on Friday evening. We’ve had many appointments over many years and are friendly to a point. I’d like to give him something to  nod to how special he is - but I don’t want to make things weird. 

Honestly though, I love this sentiment.  Sounds like he’s a super lucky guy.  And I don’t think a thoughtful gift is going to make anyone feel weird!

I had a really lovely experience with a client of mine this holiday season.  

Long term regular.  He and I are very close.  Amazing beautiful man.  At the end of the session he expressed that he’d wanted to give me a Christmas present.  But he was conscious of the boundaries in our relationship.  And he was aware that I have a separate home life and was cautious of imposing himself on that.  He racked his brain on what to get, and in the end decided that cash was the way to go. 

It was about the most thoughtful explanation he could’ve given, and ultimately the most thoughtful gesture.  And honestly - exactly what I would’ve wanted. 

So I’m sorry if this sounds crass, but from a provider perspective?  Cash bonus is the best Christmas gift.  🙏🏻 

11 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

And a hell of a lot of fun too!!! 😁🤩

Back atcha, handsome!  😍🤤😈

I’m pretty nice.  😏🤷🏼‍♂️

Yeah, maybe I’m in the minority here, but this is crazy to me.  
 

One of the benefits of hiring is - or should be? - that you’re free of having to offer yourself up for evaluation and approval in order to have a sexually rewarding experience.  Isn’t that part of what you’re paying for?
 

And isn’t our #1 job skill an ability to find the actual sexiness in all men and reflect it back to them?  An escort asking for pics … I’d wonder if he has that skill at all.  

7 hours ago, Winterangel said:

Thanks for the replies. I’ve never thought about it before now but I guess I am rare in that I pre cum a lot.  A superpower perhaps, for a niche audience! I would never shoot a load without consent though (or accidentally)!  I get very turned on by precum in others and I love to eat cum.

I guess it's crazy to me that there's guys who find this to be an issue!  Though I guess it's also crazy to me that there are providers who don't perform oral. 

I'm also a huge precummer.  In fact, it's my body's first reaction to arousal.  I'll get wet before I get hard.  As a provider, I've only ever had clients love it.  Though I guess it's a telltale sign of sincere interest.  (i.e. A pill can get you hard, but it can't make you leak.)  So it would lever occur to me to react negatively!

18 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Grindr, gym, airport lounges, social media followers, the paper towel aisle at Target.

We have a wide variety of opportunity.

Private sex is as important as paid sex.  You have to keep a balance so you don't bork a healthy mindset.

I heartily agree with this.  I definitely get off on paid sex.  It's a very real part of my sexuality.  But there are other slices of the larger pie I can't live without.  I have a strong need to balance paid sex with other kinds as well.

I don't pay escorts, but I'm happy to walk in to a spa for a sensual massage.  No better way to just relax and let someone else take care of you.

I feel like that's just a not-so-subtle way to say: Don't be afraid to ask me for weird shit.

On 11/13/2023 at 6:59 PM, Axiom2001 said:

I like to spread "the cheeks" and encounter one smooth, tight to relatively tight, rather pleasant smelling hole then proceed with this wonderful deed!

I get mine sugared regularly.  I've found it's been the best way to keep smooth clear skin back there, free of any re-growth issues.

I've only ever gotten enthusiastically positive feedback at that spread-the-cheeks moment.

On 11/25/2023 at 3:55 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

He's sexy. 

He's smart. 

He's a great writer. 

Run, don't walk. 

His writing and his website for sure give me real fanboy moments.  I'm definitely inspired by how he talks about sex work as a vocation.  He's a great voice for elevating what we do.

And - not gonna lie - as a fellow long haired blond, I envy his braiding skills!  Wish I could channel those same Viking vibes. 

I wanna know how you get this nude party gig.  😏