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What part of tongue hanging out and one eye open suggest sincerity and commitment?

I saw Tommy this AM and thought he was awesome. I’ll definitely be back to see him.

Any experience with Daniel? Might book a massage with him and was curious if any one had tried him out before. 
 
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And that is why mestizo, not mulatto, is the correct descriptor.
(And no, you don’t get a pass for being a white Hispanic man. That’s just silly.) 
 

I have to disagree with some of the generalizations in your post. It's true that Latin America has a painful history tied to slavery and colonialism, but painting the entire region with a broad brush of "denial" overlooks the many ways countries actively embrace and celebrate their Afro-Latino heritage.
On the terms like "mulatto," "indio," or "moreno": These aren't just evasive labels to dodge "Black" or "African." In Latin America, race isn't the binary black-and-white it's a spectrum shaped by centuries of mestizaje. "Moreno" can affectionately describe someone with darker skin without the loaded connotations you imply, and "mulatto" while rooted in colonial degradation, has evolved in everyday use for some as a neutral descriptor of mixed heritage.
I have to specifically call out the part where you suggest that only BIPOC opinions should carry weight here, and that white or Caucasian folks should "take care" because we might lack knowledge on ethnicity, race, or colorism. Are you even serious?. Dismissing contributions based on skin color alone is its own form of prejudice; it implies that empathy, education, and direct immersion count for nothing if you're not a "minority." As a white Hispanic man who's spent nearly half my life living in various Latin American countries, how does my opinion measure in your validity scale?. Am I minority enough or the fact that I’m white sets the scale back to zero?.

I feel the same way about the word "queer", originating from "strange" or "not right" and clearly offensive.  Obviously this provider has taken ownership of the word and is proud of his heritage, similar to how some queers have taken ownership of the word and now proudly use it despite it still being highly offensive to many.  Exclamation point!

In the United States, the term ‘mulato’ is racist and offensive. Full stop.
Any cursory google search will confirm.

I respectfully disagree. In some Latin American countries, the term mulato is used descriptively without negative connotations, especially in historical or academic contexts. In places like the Dominican Republic, Brazil, or Cuba, where mixed-race identities are prevalent and often celebrated, the term is not viewed as offensive. Just like compulsive tipping, finding anything and everything to be offended by is more prominent in the US.

Got New Toy... 40 inch.... Posting Video to my Twitter soon.... 

i was curious about the same things. he sounds awesome and looks hot. might have to try him out.

I saw Tommy this AM and thought he was awesome. I’ll definitely be back to see him.

Hey All! 
Not sure if anybody knew… but you can rent a room at Thai Wellness. Say you find someone at RentMassuer and they only do outcalls and you don’t want to host… you can host at Thai Wellness. 

It’s like $30 an hour or something for a room.  

Usually these places are full of tiny, lanky, Asian men who just rub your back softly. Is this not the case for this place?

He needs money for this, he needs money for that. He claims he has compromising pictures (which is just barely possible--I'm convinced that he or his partner in crime drugged me). I've been just worried enough to give in, but he keeps coming back, despite the advice of my bankers not to. I'm giving in one more time. Then that has to be it.
Partly I'm asking for advice, but mostly I'm warning folks to stay away. He's very charming, and very clever, and very dangerous.

Chance is a picture of Thai actor Wasuthorn Chaijinda aka Peat
 
Did they all quit their lucrative careers to pursue a massage career in Sherman Oaks? 🤔 😆 

When I just texted I was told Jjay is available now. But Sherman Oaks at this hour is not in the realm of possibilities… 

I really don’t want to get into a back and forth, yet for the benefit of....
The comments are sometimes catty. There was an exchange a few months back about how much weight a masseur had gained. Poor guy actually entered the conversation and it seemed he was quite hurt and I believe mentioned he had a health concern. He’s actually an excellent masseur. All I’m saying is that these masseurs provide a fantasy for us. If that fantasy is not fulfilled, don’t take it out on the masseur. Their primary function is to do a massage.
By the way, I had a couple of nice DC massages this week and will share - DM me.

Looks like there won’t be a fifth time;)

“Preserving quality of life for New Yorkers is a priority for the city”
Wouldn’t making sex work legal and regulated contribute to quality of life? It seems that regulation could reduce sex trafficking, spread of STD’s, and underworld influence as well as adding a few dollars to the tax coffers.

There is a manner of making him disappear, stop coming to this site.  To chase someone away because you disagree with them is what is toxic.  You can walk away and not turn back and let those others who are getting something out of this back and forth continue their ping pong game.  So this is proibably my last post here, but tolerance for the right of others to express an opinion which is different from yours used to be a foundation of the United States and I hate to see that disappearing in and out of this forum. 

Please don't. I think I speak for 99% of the people here--sorry, i shouldn't presume to speak for 99%, so let's say 98% of the people here--when I say we're tired of your toxic narcissism and we wish you would just go away.

Heard from another that although not erotic he can get pretty handsy. Was that your experience?

arthur is awesome and hot. my experiences were therapeutic, but he isn’t weird/conservative about the draping. would love to hear if he does extras. 

come on dude, no reason to be mean

Disappointing to see him use “mulato,” which came from the word mula, or mule, the offspring of a horse and a donkey—clearly an offensive and outdated term for a mixed-race person. It’s sure not a slur of the magnitude of the n-word, but it would be good for it to disappear from ordinary use.