Oakman

We agreed on a time and place, seemed like a good match. I recalled the comments here about hygiene.
me: please take a shower 😋
him: sorry, what do you mean?!
me: I meant please take a shower before you come over here. Please be clean. 

him: well, I am a very clean guy here, but don’t like to be asked. To be honest, it’s kind of offending. Sorry I’m going to pass. 
 
Me: ok. 

C’mon Charlie, these threads get so cluttered with this kid of ridiculous speculation they become un-useful for gathering legit info. Please stick to providing credible insights. 

From what you recall? That sounds more like slander than an actual recollection of a personal experience. He was most certainly hard for me and I loved it. 

He gives off mature Alpha Male energy Charlie. His body is powerful, his face looks like it was drawn by a comic book artist (chiseled!), he has a sexy voice, and his muscles are huge. Make you want about his bizarre photo choices (I agree, he’s got old photos displayed), he’s a legit provider who gives subs what they need. Strong recommendation 🤩

I will only book a provider (talking escort, not massage) if he agrees to cum. That’s a big part of what I want out of the experience. 

We agreed on a time and place, seemed like a good match. I recalled the comments here about hygiene.
me: please take a shower 😋
him: sorry, what do you mean?!
me: I meant please take a shower before you come over here. Please be clean. 

him: well, I am a very clean guy here, but don’t like to be asked. To be honest, it’s kind of offending. Sorry I’m going to pass. 
 
Me: ok. 

We agreed on a time and place, seemed like a good match. I recalled the comments here about hygiene.
me: please take a shower 😋
him: sorry, what do you mean?!
me: I meant please take a shower before you come over here. Please be clean. 

him: well, I am a very clean guy here, but don’t like to be asked. To be honest, it’s kind of offending. Sorry I’m going to pass. 
 
Me: ok. 

He leaves behind a trail of gaping holes. 

https://rent.men/Carlos_Miami
Carlos_Miami was a good recent hole stretcher. The experience was shocking. It felt like taking the business end of a baseball bat. So thick and hard. (though I do enjoy screaming into a pillow). The photos don’t do it justice. 
 
Sounds like Malik would be a fun ride. Lots of great suggestions here 😛

I will only book a provider (talking escort, not massage) if he agrees to cum. That’s a big part of what I want out of the experience. 

I will only book a provider (talking escort, not massage) if he agrees to cum. That’s a big part of what I want out of the experience. 

$4,200 last year. Roughly once a month. It’s good to know what you actually spent so you can plan ahead and be sure that you can still have this hobby and also meet your other financial obligations in the year ahead. If you aren’t harming yourself or others, I suggest dropping the notion of being a “desperate perv.” You’re just a man getting what he needs to be happy. Hope you made some good memories in ‘24. 

$4,200 last year. Roughly once a month. It’s good to know what you actually spent so you can plan ahead and be sure that you can still have this hobby and also meet your other financial obligations in the year ahead. If you aren’t harming yourself or others, I suggest dropping the notion of being a “desperate perv.” You’re just a man getting what he needs to be happy. Hope you made some good memories in ‘24. 

You are making yourself miserable. You could live a life with freedom and authenticity and you are choosing to behave like a tragic character in a melodrama. Start acting like an adult, stop stalking this man. You’re “in love” with him because you need love but you aren’t making yourself available to receive it from sources where it is truly available. Escorts are not a source of love. Period. 

$500 for an hour, $800 to include his very hot friend Nick_William. Quick and polite response to my inquiry, but more than I’m willing to pay. I’ll just have to daydream about being sandwiched between those two 😝

Clearly you DID give a fuck. This guy pissed you off several times and you never pushed back or asserted yourself until AFTER you were done with him. This sounds like an unprofessional provider meeting up with a nightmare client. 

Clearly you DID give a fuck. This guy pissed you off several times and you never pushed back or asserted yourself until AFTER you were done with him. This sounds like an unprofessional provider meeting up with a nightmare client. 

Clearly you DID give a fuck. This guy pissed you off several times and you never pushed back or asserted yourself until AFTER you were done with him. This sounds like an unprofessional provider meeting up with a nightmare client. 

Clearly you DID give a fuck. This guy pissed you off several times and you never pushed back or asserted yourself until AFTER you were done with him. This sounds like an unprofessional provider meeting up with a nightmare client. 

You are making yourself miserable. You could live a life with freedom and authenticity and you are choosing to behave like a tragic character in a melodrama. Start acting like an adult, stop stalking this man. You’re “in love” with him because you need love but you aren’t making yourself available to receive it from sources where it is truly available. Escorts are not a source of love. Period. 

I typically hire when I want extreme fantasy experiences that I just can’t get from my relationships or hook ups. It sounds like you are hiring for just a run of the mill hook up or date experience.
 
Given the anxiety you have in going after what many of us would consider a commonplace experience (a blowjob with a fuckbuddy or boyfriend), I wonder if you have ever considered therapy? Therapy exists so that we gain self-awareness and mastery of our own lives. 
 
I am glad you finally broke through and had a sexual experience, and I’m also glad you shared it with a good provider who took care of you. In the future, it is certainly possible to have more of that without having to pay for it. If that is what you want.

It’s a fair bet that every man over 35 who still manages to pull off looking like a comic book super hero is supplementing his testosterone, which is very easy to acquire these days. 😉

Agree. Hard pass. Fuck you too, bro. Next. 

I also avoid guys sticking their tongues out in photos. It’s a pose that says “I am trash.” 

This entire thread: “Why doesn’t my Victrola gramophone play podcasts when I wind it up?” 

My suggestion to learn to adapt and not complain was given in earnest. The world has changed around all of us, it has always done this. Adaptability is key not just to a key happiness, but to survival. 
 
You are obviously an adroit writer. Embrace the sending of text messages. Learn how to use the “voice to text command.” Learn how to create a photo album on your phone. Be a part of the culture as it is. It never goes backwards.