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38 minutes ago, JamesB said:

Recently I had a massage with a provider that I had hired a couple of times before. He did not let me know that there was someone else home. During the massage I could hear someone talking on the phone which of course was not great for the mood. At the end of the session on the way to the bathroom, I came face to face with his roommate/husband/partner/boyfriend. I think he was completely wrong not to give me a heads up about the situation and of course I will not be hiring him again.

Indeed.  That was totally wrong.  

I did thank the massseur for being thoughtful about my feelings.  Although we only met a few times, I felt he was genuine about making a connection.  We are re-scheduling for next week,

I would like to thank all of you on this thread for sharing your thoughts.  You guys are amazing.  

Appreciate it very much.

8 minutes ago, dutchal said:

I know from reading posts here that others have had the experience, most or all undisclosed before arrival for the appointment, or even they didn't realize it until after the session was over.

I did tell the masseur that I appreciated his thoughtfulness in disclosing it before my arrival.  

A forum member, via personal message, mentioned to me that having the room mate hanging around might also impact the masseur.  What if it causes him to hold back?  What if the room mate needs something from the kitchen while we are hanging around naked, in the living room, post coitus?  It is an unnecessary complication.

I live in NYC.  Cost of living here is high.  I understand that young people starting out in any field need to live with room mates to make it work for them.

Here is what happened.  I had an appointment booked with a masseur that I had a few previous appointments with - all incall, erotic massage.  I did not know he had a room mate.  A few hours before another scheduled appointment today, he calls me and asks whether it would bother me if the room mate would be at the apartment during my planned visit.  The room mate returned earlier than expected from a business trip,  The masseur clarified that the room mate has his own room and I would probably not see him.  The masseur was professional about it and offered to reschedule.

I was a bit concerned because we do usually fuck and hang out naked in the living room for a while when the deed is done.

I did thank the masseur for his honesty up front and said that I would not be comfortable with this arrangement.  We are tentatively rescheduling for next week.

My question is - am I too squeamish?  Am I a prude?  Has anybody else been in an appointment while a room mate could be lurking in the background?  I would greatly appreciate your advice.

On 1/30/2024 at 11:32 AM, dutchal said:

Most welcome.

Per RMAsseur email, asking 220/60 and 300/90.

Accurate,  But those are the massage rates.  If any 'play time' is involved, escort rates apply.  In his case, very reasonable ones for the NYC market.  Just ask him.

After a 60 and a 90 minute session during the last 2 weeks, I am now booking a 120 minute session with him.  We are comfortable with each other and decided to take the experience to the next level.

I find it exciting when a guy has ads both on rentmasseur and on rentmen.  It shows he is willing to go all the way.  The difference is in the fees you are willing to pay.  I do not expect escort service at a massage rate.

On 1/28/2024 at 1:34 AM, newdad said:

When you said "boy next door", was he more of a college-looking boy next door? His profile on RM seems to be more of a "man" next door living on Wisteria Lane.

You are right.  Defintely more of hunk next door.  

Thank you @dutchal for discovering TuckerNYC and mentioning him initially on this board.  I think I wll keep seeing him more often than just a few times.

I am pleased to report that I did have a session with TuckerNYC this afternoon.

Finding new talent in NYC, from a client perspective, can be daunting task.  Competition among providers is exceptionally intense.  There are hundreds of profiles to look at.  I did decide to move forward with Tucker because the pictures on his profile are exciting - the muscular but cute boy next door I could have a crush on.  The carefully written description of himself - he is a professional writer.  The ease of interaction with him prior to the first meeting - thoughtful, informative, patient.  My appreciation to two forum members who kindly gave me their thoughts based on their meeting - I know who you are and thank you.

The setting - an incall at his upperwestside apartment,

I can be a bit shy meeting someone for the first time and therefore requested a combo of erotic massage, just to warm up, followed by play time.  As he opened the door, I was struck by his athletic, muscular appearance.  No signs of exaggeration anywhere.  A warm, yet inquisitive smile,  Dressed in a form fitting t-shirt and jeans.  Naked, he showed perfect proportions front and back.  He understood my shyness and took his time to massage me,  As I relaxed, he sensed it was time to turn up the heat.  And he did!  While the details do not need to be revealed in a public forum, I did absolutely love being in the presence of hot and intuitive lover.

I am already looking forward to our next meeting.

I have no hesitation to recommend him. 

Also available as masseur:

Gay Massage & Male Masseur TuckerNYC in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com)

3 hours ago, liubit said:

I couldn’t have said it better, @RyanDean  

Agreed!

Show Palace had a more diverse group of dancers. white, latino and black.  Gaiety was more vanilla.  It was rare to see a black dancer at Gaiety.  

Show Palace was raunchier.  Not unusual for dancers to have sex with the clients sitting next to the stage.  Or at the very least, jerk them off.  I don't recall seeing that at the Gaiety.

Having said that, I always had a good time at the Gaiety.  But I did hire more often at Show Palace, Cats and Stella's.  

Never went to Rounds, but I was a frequent visitor to Gaiety. Cats, Stella's and of course Show Palace at that time.  Memories!

I would probably remember you if you were there late 1980s.

What was your stage name?

3 hours ago, Pensant said:

First time I’ve seen a provider wearing a leather hood and collar!

I did notice that too.  With pleasure.  

Although he describes himself as dominant in the narrative, he must have a submissive streak.  Would love to see him naked, except for that dog collar, on all 4s, begging for my cock.

The pictures look very familiar.  I doubt that he is 'new to this'.  Not that it is a problem, it is just an observation.

https://rentmen.eu/Indian_indulgnce

A bit younger than what I normally go for, but his exotic looks intrigue me.  Is there any intel out there on this new talent entering the scene?

1 minute ago, dutchal said:

I was referring to Tucker Carlson.

Ah ....

I will have to Google him

On 1/8/2024 at 9:37 AM, Whitman said:

A nice scene and a very hot model.  Is this a scene from a movie?  Which one would it be?

On 3/1/2023 at 10:03 PM, dutchal said:

He's not bald.  Unless he wears a piece.

He IS bald.  I believe more shaved than bald but it looks bald regardless.  Sent me his face pictures.

@thelovebroadcast you need to decide for yourself what is most important to you - the mature masseur experience or the massage parlor experience,  It is not likely that you will find both at the same time in NYC.  Clients are used to have access to the finest masseurs at all times  and competition among providers is exceptionally keen.  An aging provider, I am sorry to say, is not likely to last long at a commercial parlor.  Demand for them is very limited indeed.

From what you write here, you are into mature masseurs.  Rentmasseur IS your friend.  Although I have never looked for it, I believe there are choices in the 35 year+ segment,  A few masseurs, while solo practitioners at their own place, sometimes offer sessions at a parlor.   Is this guy too immature for you? I know he works out of a massage parlor:

Gay Massage & Male Masseur vipmomentsnyc in New York City, NY (rentmasseur.com)

I hope you will have a good time participating on this forum and wish you much success finding the masseur of your dreams!

A severe anal fissure last year prevented him from bottoming and, for that reason, from escorting.  He seems to have nicely healed up.  Dildo shows on his OnlyFans page leave little to the imagination.  

I have used the grooming services of Blessings as a prelude to a very satisfying deep tissue massage with him.  He may offer grooming without massage - just ask him,

Warmly recommended!

https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings

Very much appreciate the glowing comments from trusted forum members.  The pictures in his ad are impressive.  I just have a hard time convincing myself hiring a headless wonder.  

Nice find,  I have had very good experiences with Turkish masseurs.  I find them sexy and really good at what they do.  Massages and bath houses are a big part of Turkish culture ...

I am tempted to check him out,

He looks interesting.  I wish he had some reviews.  The ad states he has been doing this for 5 years.  At a spa maybe? Or under a different name?

1 hour ago, samhexum said:

Additionally, I provide party favors/PNP to take you to the wilderness realm. 

The Jack London of providers!

A one-stop shop!  It is not my thing, but I can see how it would be convenient for some of the clients.

16 hours ago, Lewis H said:

He's been on my list and I plan to try him out asap. On your other note, does Jay Anthony have a current ad up somewhere?

He did have a profile on rentmasseur very recently but when I checked today it was no longer available.  He may be seeing his regulars only at this time.

On 9/1/2023 at 5:59 PM, cj2001 said:

SamGL is my fav for deep tissue. Also very sensual/ erotic. (And just really handsome and se*y.) But I need to figure out how to better balance the two. Sometimes it's 50m of massage and not quite enough of the rest and sometimes more like half and half. I assume depending on his mood as my signals are usually consistent.

I would concur.  Samer / SamGL is by far my favorite provider for deep tissue massage.  I have been seeing him for about 2 years now.  His ratio of massage to playtime can vary wildly.  I find it exciting not knowing how the experience with him will unfold - anything can happen anytime.  In that aspect, he reminds me of the former Anthony Breioc aka Jay Anthony, who is now making a come back of sorts.  He was entirely unpredictable.  To me, as a repeat client, it is more fun that way.  The same scenario over and over again could get boring - no matter how well the service is delivered.