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"sophisticated" if you have to say it, you ain't

First and most importantly, thank you for sharing and revealing how you handled not only the situation, but also how you handled your handling of the situation. Much to be learned here, even though your experience does not mirror mine. (It does not need to in order for me to learn from you.) I have taken a step back and more closely analyzed the dyamic between my friend and me. We do not live in the same city. He is not a good communmicator unless he needs something. He has shown very little ability to process what is going on with him. I have blocked him.

guess the two are not mutually exclusive too.... and thanks

Your points are well-taken: the only reason that he could have thought I would "be there" for him is that I did provide financial situation during (yet another) emergency that he had (I see a pattern here, Hmmmm.) His RM age is I think 27 - I believe he is following a vocational ed program but cannot be sure - and truth be told, I think this is siituation may be somewhat complicated by some poor choices he makes in his life - so i guess you are helping me answer my own questons and assuage my oown guilt. Thanks for that!

100% agree with you and were I perfect I would always do so.... call me fallible, i guess

Not harsh at all. I agree that pratically speaking I "owe" him nothing - and I agree with your prescribing help for him as well... just someting touched a deeply held sense of "right"

Hot profile,.,,, how can you be sure it's the same guy? Thanks

I anticipate push back already - "it's just a business thing..." etc., etc., but I'm sorry - when you have certain levels of intimacy with another human being, it goes beyond that So: escort, met once, had a good time, etc, etc. (Not revealing his identity here at this point - perhaps too sensitive an issue and do not want to be mean) Repeated requests for money, some of which I responded to, which I should have known better as he flaked on my several times afterwards Now texsts telling me he is starving on the streets, which I responded to which expressions of concern and empathy Now textst blaming me for his situation, etc., etc. Am I angry? Yes... Am I insuled? Yes?... Do I feel bad for the guy? Doubles YES Am I being manipulated? Should I be doing more? How would you respond is a fellow human, clearly going through a bad time, reached out to you this way? Thanks.

As far as I can tell, there is no mention here of: KenAsia Wondering if anyone here might have some information on him? Thaks!

sorry, man, but the way you were treated is just unkind.... people should not treat one another that way, no matter what

Yeahhhhh that was a real shocker for me as well.

i somehow get the feeling that the people most upset by the bathrooms at New York's Penn Station do not, unlike me, use them on a daily basis. Although they might not be gold-plated they are quite useful for a quick "pee and go" and I often treasure them!

great material there, man - thanks!

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In Thailand, it is illegal to step on the paper currency because the baht features an image of the King and stepping on it is considered disrespectful and a violation of the lese-majeste laws which protect the monarchy from insult -- violations can even include imprisonment.

actually in a culture full of over-the-top superlatives, i found this understatement a bit refreshing - if nothing else made me want to check him out and judge for myself!

You speak the truth (and I'm trying to bring this wonderful discussion back around to the original topic in some way without devaluing what we are talking about here...) The only thing I would add (and this additional is essential to my own mental health during these taxing times) is that there is always a strain of thought that seeks to unleash energies that are liberatory - in opposition to the mainstream - and therein we can find kernels of hope that change remains something we can fight for and, at the very least, hope for and envision. Maybe we call these energies "radical"? Well, being called a "radical", an "outsider", "marginal", hell, even "deviant" suits me just fine these days!

Can I just say that you are a lucky, lucky person - a wonderful city in a wonderful country!

@KensingtonHomo raises a hugely important point - the idea of "fetishization". A scholar (now sadly gone) named Edward Said wrote a lot about the tangled relationship between the "East" and the "West", and to risk oversimplifying his life's work, let me say that often the so-called "Orient: is loved on the basis of the West's idea of the Orient (whether or not the Orient matches that idea) and the West warps the Orient to match Western tastes and perceptions. This kind of "festishized love" is a love which is based on what the other is pereceived to be able to do for me. What does this look like in our quotidian lives? More than one Asian man has been called upon to fit a Westerner's expectations of what is an appropriate behavior is his eyes, regardless of how the Asian guy determines his own life. And there's the rub.

I stopped at "Alpha", haha - and I"m really sorry you had to endure all this - there are clearly bad apples out there who take advantage of our community - and he is the most rotten of this ilk it would seem Short sighted does not say it all

Not exactly - but kinda - and not to get too creepily academic here in this space, but the dominance of a ruling class's ideas and values (the "mainstream", the "dominant") over the rest of society is achieved not through force but through the subtle influence of culture ... it's the process where the worldview of the powerful becomes the accepted and normalized perspective for everyone, shaping beliefs, values, and behaviors.

First, thank you for speaking truth to power here. It is always peculiar to me when people who (despite their protestations to the contrary) buy into the narratives of the mainstream criticize others for living in an "echo chamber" when we from time to time seek comfort from voices who reflect our own values. We are confronted 24/7/365 by voices controlled by those who seek to replicate dominant narratives, so if i spend some time surrounded by those from whom I derive some comfort and reassurance, i plead happily guilty. Added to all that, I am indeed an activist who seeks to reduce human suffering on oou endangered planet. Hard to believe that provokes adversarial responses. So my echo chamber is not only a source of comfort, but it also a source of strength for me and my like-minded friends. Make good choices, be kind, be good, fight against those who seek to bully and intimidate.

That is inexcusable, and YES - you should!!