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Not sure how many would take my position on this, but practice with a dildo with your false teeth to increase your ability to open your mouth wider with patience and time. Taking teeth out before performing oral (or having none for starters) is a story a provider would share for the ages. As good as that may feel, my concentration if I was a provider would be on your teeth you just took out from your face rather than the oral pleasure you're giving.

Having non-real teeth is NOT something most other people would largely notice. Sure, the other wearers of them may know, but don't let substitute teeth get in the way of your fun. You pointed out that the guy enjoyed it. So long as your tongue is still in there, it's all good to keep your teeth where they are. 

I saw him for the first time two nights ago and was so pleased with his work. He came to where I was on short notice, was the rate he advertised, and looked terrific. It was fun watching him in the shower cleaning off the basting I gave him. As Capitano points out, he doesn't advertise on rent men for a reason - he can be up to an erotic masseur, and a successful one at that. Thank goodness he had a cancellation to enable me to finally meet (and eat) him.

13 hours ago, soloyo215 said:

No, first, I earned my penis breath, so I am proud of it. Second, WTH do you do that your penis breath is noticeable in an entire restaurant? Third, I can get that myself, why does it have to be the provider?

When I read that you can get that yourself, my immediate thought was that you're one of the flexible ones. 😂

Talk about tearing down limitations. Masseur finder now allows shirtless pics, and that is really important when it comes to being on the fence with choosing someone for a lot of guys, preferring a toned frame or man tits or in-between.

I don't think it'll be there beyond the moments after I send this out, but an entirely naked Jake Cole taking a shower is NOT being blurred for non-paying rent masseur viewers. Perhaps this is intentional as a tease to get people to cough up $10 a month to access photos like that of every blurred guy. 

I see that he's changed his moniker to JRNOFEXPRS, which is about as un-catchy a massage name I've ever seen. Just Relax Now Okay Feel Every Xylophone Pulsating Rigid Somehow - just a guess.

This past January I had by far the most fun day of my life, introducing guys from different cities who offered 4-hand where they resided to massage me together while they each were on vacation in a common city for a first time. They agreed, and all (I hope) had a great experience.

I was in the Midwest this past weekend for the first time in nearly two decades on family business. I reached out to one of the guys I saw from the 4-hand to be seen alone. Crickets. I tried two more times over the weekend but never got a response. 

Had the opportunity have been there for a repeat with the other man, I'm almost sure he wouldn't have avoided my attempts. They had so much in common, it wouldn't at all surprise me if they fly to see one another for massage exchanges since both of them do quite well for themselves. 

All great points made so far. If you're wealthy, you don't need to worry what this kind of entertainment will run you.

On the opposite end, if you want someone who is average-looking at best, backpage listings have men in the "under one Franklin" range to please you, but for me I'd rather save up both financially and "in my tank" to have an explosive time with someone I'm attracted to that's worth their donation in Gold (or at least pricey bronze).

There are couples who do massage to an erotic level, like the traveling porn stars Tyler Saint with Ace Banner, or TwoBoyz in L.A.. They are only available together, but don't hold back on being pleasing. The donation is high, but it's justified. 

Then there are those who advertise separately from their boyfriend, but mention in their ad that a 4-hand is available with their partner, like body poet in Chicago, or Strong Hands On You in Palm Springs.

From my personal experience, when I see a guy alone without his partner, the session tends to be lackluster. This could be because I saw the less energetic of the two, or because they dial it back due to having a committed relationship. 

There are times that my experience takes an "erotic nose dive", which of course is disappointing, only to learn that he is in a private committed relationship, which would be why certain elements weren't included anymore when they used to be.

The curious sessions are the ones with men who are a couple, but book separate rooms and ONLY massage men individually. The only way I could tell is because their travel itineraries match. Interestingly, all guys I've seen who did this are no longer together!

Do you only try a 4-hand with couples when you saw one of the men alone before he "settled down"?

Jake in Chicago been a fantasy hire of mine for years. He visited near me in Nevada almost a decade ago, but crazily wouldn't show a face pic, which is for me a hiring no-no. He did an artsy photo shoot last month, and I think this is the best I've ever seen it.

https://www.rentmasseur.com/muscleJake

https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/48840755

No, and unless a rare case where their first and last name is in their ad, we don't need to know theirs, either. That's invasiveness enough to not bother.

On 4/17/2026 at 12:48 PM, samhexum said:

José Feliciano is about to complete a deal to buy the Padres. I'm sure he'll want to light a fire under the Padres (not that it's currently necessary since they're on a winning streak) but it's not THAT José Feliciano.

If the sale goes through, even though it's not the same person, perhaps they can blare the theme to "Chico & The Man" at the same point in the game that Boston blares "Sweet Caroline". The owner can dub himself Chico, the fans can be "El Hombre", and slumping gift shop sales can skyrocket. 

After a lengthy absence (and a relocation within SF), he's back! Both the offer of an after-massage bubble bath and the two-and-a-half-hour session options are gone, but I'm happy to see his grand return.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/48826/

Something that was a firm no on their site was to be shirtless. There's a handsome buff guy who advertises in Phoenix that wears a see-through shirt which showed off his upper body, but the nips must be under clothing - until now? (This is someone else).

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32471/

I for one am all for exposed torsos. I recently bared mine for a before/after at a waxing salon. Nude chests are great!

When shopping for attire for the annual Company of Men pool party on the Glute God website, I was entranced by a man who wears their goods to perfection, Gustavo Davis. He just so happens to run a private, fully-equipped gym in Las Vegas, which is where I'll be next weekend.

Instead of seeing a sensual masseur, I noticed that his workouts with his clients are light-hearted and fun, knowing many men are there just to see him, and the exercise is just a bonus. Interestingly, he apparently was in Palm Springs last weekend just like many of us were, only he was there to do a nude photo shoot in the desert, which he shares tantalizing pictures of. Instagram links are a violation of the rules here, butt (spelled wrong, and you'll understand why) he is fitnessbygustavo on Instagram. 

I hope it goes fun, and I let him know I'm holding myself accountable, and will see him in about 6 months so he can see progress I've made, and then it's my hope that my body can turn heads in addition or instead of the attire I'm barely in.

He didn't respond when I sent him a private message on rent masseur, so texting must be the best way to attempt to reach him. $70 is a pretty big leap from therapeutic. It would be in his best interest to bump that rate closer together to not short-change himself. 

On 2/11/2024 at 11:20 PM, viewing ownly said:

No, he is not available for donations of your time. He also no longer works at the service station he so blatantly promoted in his earliest work.

It took immense detective work, but the talented, non-credited man who took his huge unit to the base in a backyard scene with him in the past is Masyn Thorne.

Like Jett Wayne, Masyn is also not available, but appears to be "available". He and Mateo Muscle, former forum member here, appear to be no longer together.

I am a fan of all 3 of these gentlemen, but have never had the pleasure of their company, although others have, and liked it.

I stand corrected (or at least see that he's now available when he wasn't in the past). https://www.rent.men/JettWayne

Since in 2026 seeing an escort on a low end runs [redacted amount], I was thinking of something that would be a nice touch on the part of the escort to do. Nearly always, I'm going somewhere in public after an appointment, and what I hate is having an accusation Drew Barrymore could make at her family dinner table directed at me and be true. For those who aren't familiar, in the movie E.T. she insults her brother by saying he has "penis breath". 99% of the time, I have that (unless their cock is so pumped beyond recognition that blowing them was like sucking on a shoulder or calf). 

Wouldn't it be great if an escort provided a travel kit toothbrush with toothpaste, and / or mini mouthwash to give to the client as a helpful gesture? I've never experienced this, but personally I think that would be an awesome thing for him to do, unless oral wasn't involved on our end, which would just then make it awkward. 

I'm always wanting to clean my mouth right after a session is over but frequently forget to put those things in my pocket due to being so excited to reach their destination. Not that having "P.B." is a bad thing, but fresh breath is better.

Great party as always. So fun to see familiar faces and chit-chat with guys I've been too shy to have talked to in past events. I look forward to next year (and I'll bring back the wrestling singlet, ha ha).

Phil

4 hours ago, Nightowl said:

If you managed to find his erotic massage service via some kind of ad, you could just reach out to him and say you found that ad and would like to book him for those services.  Sometimes guys will use different phone numbers for each place they advertise.  If there’s a different number on his erotic massage ad, reach out to him on that one so he knows how you found him.

I think having a different number isn't common, but you bring up something that IS common - a different massage name from an escort name. 

Look for someone that advertises on both rent masseur and rent men. Unless on rent men it's made clear that it's only going to be a massage, gently reach to touch them and discover where your hand ends up. If it gets deliberately placed by him in a more special place, you'll likely get more. If your hand if violently slammed away from him back next to your body on the table, take the hint. 

Also look at what the reviews indicate. If EVERY review indicates a sensual experience, the odds are in your favor that getting more will materialize. If no reviews indicate that, avoid. 

Something I absolutely adore about Steevn is his unit. I consider myself to be about as tiny as humanly possible, so it's refreshing to see someone who is out and proud with one somehow less endowed than myself. I'm sorry I missed his Palm Springs trip, hoping to connect in the future with him sometime.

While on Rent Masseur "erotic" is no longer a listing option, the masseurs can freely use that word in their description of their services if they choose. So, THAT is what I look for when I want to see someone. 

It can be tricky though for a very select few. I know of a guy in Atlanta who either did a professional massage, or was naked and would fuck you with no in-between! Since he couldn't list erotic any longer, he ONLY lists therapeutic (and is now partnered, so good for him but boo hoo for us)!

Today was the first day I saw this, which I found to be rather alarming. How can one advertise as HIV +, undetectable and on ART, to then listing HIV - with a laundry list of exact dates of all kinds of shots received?

Am I behind the times and it's now possible to no longer be HIV + permanently? I find the man attractive, and his health status, while appreciating (initially) being forward with his status to be a nice piece of information to learn, he only goes one way position-wise, which is my reason for looking elsewhere more so than his changing HIV information.

I did not take a snapshot of the older ad, but I make a mental note of those who attract me physically who share their HIV + status, so while I'm not perfect, I'm sure that this was a status change on this guy and not imagination running wild. 

Albeit seldom experiencing them (not with Michael yet), I've no objection to an appointment that's 1% massage, 99% other. 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/779014/michael-privius-pounds-me-into-the-mattress/

For an experience that doesn't go quite as far, he's available for sensual massage, too.

https://www.rentmasseur.com/Muscmass