"Hey" is not to be used in polite society. I would suggest "Excuse me Budd" or "Please Budd". Especially at these times we must show that we Americans have some sense of civility!!!!!:(
We are now being invaded by people on rentable scooters. They are supposed to be in the street but most go on the sidewalk. Have not seen them use any signals.
At one time we had a dog in the building who hated being left alone. He learned how to open the front door and he would sit in the hallway and wait for people to come by and pet him or get in the elevator and ride to other floors. Very sweet and lovable.
Is the cat a stray or belong to a neighbor? I was taking care of a friend's cat. Let it out on the balcony and it crawled under the partition to the neighbor's balcony. freaked the guy out who lived there to look out his window and see a cat on the 8th floor balcony!!!!:D
Any social interaction is a good thing. Do you look out the windows? With climate change you might have beachfront property now. If so make your beach a nude only beach and order a pair of binoculars from Amazon. Maybe some Belami guys will frequent your beach.:)
As @MikeBiDude said just giving city/state really doesn't compromise your privacy. We are not asking for your home address unless you want a Christmas card.:)
Tell them before the massage how you would like it to play out. Legit massage x minutes and then proceed to sensual/erotic. They can't read your mind. Maybe his other clients go right for the erotic part and he thinks everyone wants that. Communication might sound clinical but it might make you happier at the end.