Try to file as early as possible in the future. A friend of mine had his identity stolen for a fradulent tax return. He still hasn't gotten it all straightened out.
If anal sex is to be involved you should clarify before EVERY session that protection HAS to be used even if you've seen the escort 200 times. Some people get caught up in the heat of the moment and do stupid things.
For many men their ego is attached to some part of their body. Whether it is their cock, biceps, ass, face or all the above is their decision. I have known some who go into a depressed state if compliments aren't paid. Their egos need constant stroking.