I didn't say he was a stalker but he is uncomfortably too persistent in his texts and emails. My favorite would send me ONE quick email if was was going to be in town and available. That was proactive. More then two is not proactive but a sign of desperation.
Does Philadelphia have rent control? If so when you go look at apartments ask for all the prices of all the one bedrooms (or what size you want) in the building. If you find a unit someone has lived in for 30 years rent could be 400.00 less then the one next door to it which has turned over every year.
Sad how many people, usually married or closeted, will say they are HIV negative but have never had a HIV test. Kind of throws a kink in some of the questions people ask.
When the masseur sees you naked on the table he then decides how erotic it will be. You just have to either pay more or find a masseur who likes what you look like or likes what you do sexually.
Several of the pics, the hotter ones in my mind as far as his looks, were done by photographer Paul Freeman. I would ask him when he was a model for Freeman.