RickyDC

Before I become the next Steve Carrell and call myself another 40-year old virgin (no kiss, no sex - that I remember, with anybody), I decided in my tender age of 34 to just do it - jerking off to porn was no longer cutting it. Did my google search, stumbled upon RM and got an account during New Year's Eve in 2019. Once I saw some guys in DC, I nervously texted one of them, asking for the following:

Whether he is available for 2 hours between 1/2/2020 and 1/4/2020
What the rate is

Being the naive guy that I was, I also offered that if that weekend does not work, whether he had availability some time that month. The provider then mentioned his rate for an incall. Not knowing what an incall was, I offered to book a hotel (since I had what I thought was an irrational fear of meeting a stranger at his own place) outside of DC and would let him know where it is as soon as I booked it. Then the provider gave a different rate for an outcall, which then I had to google and figure out the difference from an incall and subsequently agreed to the outcall rate. He asked me for stats, to which I replied. And then he asked me what I wanted to do during our time together and I was taken aback. I thought I just had to reserve the appointment and the "thing" just happens. So I panicked for a good hour or so, then calmed down. I looked at the list of things he was into on RM and texted the things we had in common and what I was ready for (e.g., did not know what douching was back then so did not even bother mentioning that I might want to bottom). Confirmed the booking on 1/3/2020 for 2 hours. Man, was I relieved.
 
The day before the booking, I was already so worked up and nervous to the point of wanting to cancel the appointment. I had to reset and revisit why I made the booking to begin with. Realizing that I need to get this nervous energy out, I thought it was prudent that I probably start off with an erotic massage. So I got myself a RentMasseur account and booked one for that night. Still nervous but went through with it. Let's just say the experience was meh, but I was able to overcome my anxiety of being that close to a guy and having another man touch me. Success!
 
The night finally arrived, with wads of $20s on me (the ATM near me only dispensed cash by $20 denomination), I knocked on his door (he had issues getting to my hotel so my horny self just set aside my fear and offered to meet up at his place). He greeted me with a smile and a big hug. I felt a good chunk of my nervous energy starting to melt away. He played some soft EDM music in the background while talking and getting to know each other. I was still nervous, so I just ended up talking with him for a good hour and 15 minutes. Then he stood up and said, "I know you just did not come here to talk. I can talk through the rest of our time, but I know that is not what you came here for." Then panic started to come over me and slowly stood up and walked with him to the bedroom. He played some porn while he was undressing himself. He then started to undress me and started the rest of the time with a kiss. There were certainly lots of firsts for me during that session, and was relieved and happy I followed through with it.
 
A lot has happened in the last 10 months, experienced lots of other firsts with other providers and masseurs, and as I read one of my RM reviews that an "old timer" referenced in one of the posts in this forum, I realize that I have been pretty busy, having reviewed over 70 providers and masseurs since I started. Perhaps I am still fairly new in all of this, but I am glad I stepped out of my comfort zone and just did it.

Saw him a few months ago for less than the rate he advertises. Matches pics. Definitely very attractive face, great body, v well endowed. Probably wouldn't repeat mainly because there's guys I enjoyed more. But no complaints

I met up with him tonight and he's great looks like his pics, very hot but also a sweet young man. I had a great time - if you see him, be nice

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fZLeaSWY37I:12

Bumpity Bump . . . looks like his first stop in the USA is D.C., then Miami, followed by Chicago. Has anyone met this guy? Thanks much.
 
For some reason, I've had the best luck with Eastern European twunks

Generally speaking and assuming healthy tissues in the mouth and throat, the risk for HIV transmission is extremely low in oral sex without condoms. It is not zero, but it is very low. That is not true for many other STIs. Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Hepetitis, Herpes, HPV, and Syphilis are all readily transmitted via oral sex without condoms. Part of the reason we have record breaking numbers for these infections is probably all the oral sex without condoms and the people who think oral sex is safe. There's no such thing as safe sex. It is possible to make sex safer, but never 100% safe when one or more people are involved.
 
If you're going to engage in oral sex without a condom for cock sucking or a dental dam for eating ass or pussy, then educate yourself on the risks, learn what symptoms may feel and look like, understand that most infected men are asymptomatic, get tested regularly, and understand that some STIs are able to colonize the rectum or throat in such a way that they don't show on blood/urine tests. Only swab tests will catch them, so be honest with your doctor about the condomless sex you have so the correct tests can be performed and you can be treated. Also, talk to your doctor about your vaccinations. HPV is a must, (if you're under 45, to help protect against the record growth in oral cancers. Hepatitis A/B vaccines are strongly encouraged for MSM (Men who have Sex with Men). And depending on where you live or travel, the meningitis vaccine may be recommended. For example, LA has had an outbreak for about four years now and encourages every MSM be vaccinated. Finally, understand that antibiotic resistance is becoming urgently concerning for gonorrhea in the USA. I mention this because STIs are serious health issues. Don't trivialize them because they're treatable. The big three (gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis) are likely to become fully resistant to current treatments over the next few decades. Know the risks, make your choices, and be mature enough to be honest about them with your doctor and with your sexual partners.
 
The coronavirus impacted STD/STI testing and is expected to continue to impact it for the foreseeable future, since the USA was already seeing record highs for multiple STIs it's important to know we don't have good visibility into STI rates in the USA right now. Distancing has likely reduced sexual activity so perhaps it's a wash. Escorts and MSM are high risk categories so understand the risks you're taking. Get the relevant vaccines if you haven't already and be a responsible human being as you fulfill your sexual interests.
 
In the interests of full disclosure, I have all my shots and I'm tested regularly. I have one regular fuck buddy and an occasional professional who catches my eye. I like the taste of precum and cum. Over the past couple of decades, I've had oral chlamydia once. It was scary but fortunately I caught it early because I felt the sore throat and it was treatable. I am getting more careful about who I have sex with because LA county continues (6 years now) to set records for multiple STIs and syphilis among women is climbing rapidly, in part probably because of increasing MSM activity among sexually flexible men between 25 and 35, which means congenital syphilis is increasing too and no child should catch it.
 
General Resources:
https://www.cdc.gov/std/prevention/default.htm
https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htm
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/oral-sex-std-risk-chart

https://rent.men/PaddyObrian

https://rent.men/PaddyObrian

He's totally my type. But his ad says "My services are strictly limited" which leads me to believe that my meeting him would likely be an exercise in futility. Below is the previous chat. Pictures are from smart-bodybuilding.com
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/too-good-to-be-true-411-on-fitness-model-escort-stevel.150519/

https://rent.men/PaddyObrian

https://pornstarmugshots.blogspot.com/
 
That website makes me unhappy, I think it's less a "service" and more a place to feel schadenfreude.
 
Doling out compassion only to "good" people is lazy. Celebrating the suffering of others because "they deserve it" is pretty low.
 
That final mugshot of JW, him scruffed out in the Orange jumper is SUPER sexy. He reminds me of so many of the men around where I grew up in Minnesota.
 
None of the posters who had opinions about JW's looks or about his life as an escort and a person, outside of his crimes, should have needed to qualify it with "not that I'm condoning". That they have to be so afraid to say what shouldn't even need to be said shows how far communication has fallen away from common sense.

Yeah, we have to remember that some guys get into porn because they maybe have a hard time finding other types of work because of their criminal backgrounds or whatever.
 
Personally, we should have empathy for all of these guys. And in many cases, if it's related to drugs, it's totally understandable. Addiction is such a hard thing and I've seen family members and friends really struggle with it. So many of us struggle with hard times and let's hope that everyone on that web site was able to find some light and make necessary changes in their lives.

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

They all have the same look, same build, etc. I suspect it's the same person or group of persons using pictures of other people.
 
One ad appears to have pictures of three different guys . . . with similar features. They all appear to have positive rentmen reviews, which may or may not be authentic.
 
https://rent.men/NatesXL
 
https://rent.men/AntonioIL
 
https://rent.men/Alex_Till
 
https://rent.men/Victor_Jokers
 
https://rent.men/Danilverozzi

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

They all have the same look, same build, etc. I suspect it's the same person or group of persons using pictures of other people.
 
One ad appears to have pictures of three different guys . . . with similar features. They all appear to have positive rentmen reviews, which may or may not be authentic.
 
https://rent.men/NatesXL
 
https://rent.men/AntonioIL
 
https://rent.men/Alex_Till
 
https://rent.men/Victor_Jokers
 
https://rent.men/Danilverozzi

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .

They all have the same look, same build, etc. I suspect it's the same person or group of persons using pictures of other people.
 
One ad appears to have pictures of three different guys . . . with similar features. They all appear to have positive rentmen reviews, which may or may not be authentic.
 
https://rent.men/NatesXL
 
https://rent.men/AntonioIL
 
https://rent.men/Alex_Till
 
https://rent.men/Victor_Jokers
 
https://rent.men/Danilverozzi

They all have the same look, same build, etc. I suspect it's the same person or group of persons using pictures of other people.
 
One ad appears to have pictures of three different guys . . . with similar features. They all appear to have positive rentmen reviews, which may or may not be authentic.
 
https://rent.men/NatesXL
 
https://rent.men/AntonioIL
 
https://rent.men/Alex_Till
 
https://rent.men/Victor_Jokers
 
https://rent.men/Danilverozzi

"You gave me too much." The young man was visiting D.C. from the Czech Republic and his hourly rate was 300. I gave him 400 because the experience was exceptional. I guess he thought I had miscounted the bills. After I explained that it was a tip, he graciously thanked me and promised a discount on our next date, which he kept. It kind of renewed my faith in people . . .