I think he is a YMMV situation even upon meeting. He agreed to meet me after a picture and then when we met I got the sense he wasn't really too into it. Kind of a turn off for me when someone seems like they would rather be elsewhere. And I did use a recent photo (within the year) so its not like I used a pic when i was a different age, weight etc.
Even if he saw the late night last minute email he already traveled to the country to stay at the resort, and escalating the situation by calling the police was extreme.
met him last year, he's a super chill easy going nice guy. not a clock watcher and great vibe to be around. I met him in LA and i hosted (i don't think he does incalls when in his hometown of LA). Highly recommend.
If you want to explore LA, may I suggest welikela.com ? I subscribe to their mailing list and they mail fun things going on around the city you can check out, random events, etc.
In terms of strip clubs where men are fully nude. none that I know of. There was a one a month adonis event via email invite only but that is on pause at the moment (with no date I believe it re-starting).