niceandthick

I concur. Great massage by really nice guy who just also happens to be hot!

I saw Ken when he was in DC. I had no trouble booking. Looks like his pics, and a good massage. Session was on a bed (he was travelling). Upsell at the end.
 
PM for details.

Welcome Newbie to the forum.
 

 
The search function here can be most helpful. He has been discussed in other threads here
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/dc-recommendations.151693/#post-2079378
 
 

 
There have been many discussions here on that matter with various answers. For some, asking upfront while booking works...for others, they may want to talk about such things face-to-face.
 
Here is a recent discussion that addresses the matter. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/potential-client-tip.163401/

These sites aren't necessarily for M4M. However, they can provide leads to guys not on the M4M sites or can be used to cross reference guys in your research.
 
Massagebook.com - Does not have the ability to filter for males. I have seen guys on this site that have advertised at one time or another on the M4M sites or CL.
 
Massageanywhere.com - Does not have the ability to filter for males. They are not good at keeping the information up, so a lot of the information may be dated. However, can be good to get a lead on someone...or see an older ad of someone advertising elsewhere now. The site is also a little quirky to use. Your search only brings back a subset of the matches unless you are a "financial contributor" to the site. However, if you re-execute the search, you may get a different subset with additional matches.
 
MassageFinder.com - This is the "legitimate" companion website to MasseurFinder. Some masseurs advertise on both. You may also find a [missing] masseur that used to advertise on MasseurFinder now only advertises on MassageFinder.
 
Healthgrades.com - Looks to be a strictly legitimate site. It does allow you to filter buy gender and location (within miles). It could be used to identify some new potentials or as a cross reference in your research.

I took the plunge and saw him last night....
The name “Tito” in itself is a bit off putting. He’s more like a Vlad, an Igor, or a Mikhail. He’s either Russian, or Eastern European, But NOTHING like these Eastern European “models”, “Instagram guys”, or “rent men twinks or twunks”, who are usually discussed here.
 
Very nice guy, and very focused. Travelled with his table, very clean and sanitized setup as well. There was no draping, but his reasoning for you being naked is not for any reason but for him to thoroughly massage and stretch everything with ease. I truly believe that he’s a heterosexual (but not in a negative way).
 
He has extensive massage skills that are proven on the table. His massage isn’t sensual, erotic, or even therapeutic. This is a strictly intense athlete’s massage. Like post-Russian-Professional- gymnastic-athlete-massage. Like a Muy-Thai-Boxer’s recovery treatment. It’s like getting a massage in a Turkish or Russian bath.
 
He massaged everything from head to toe... and there was no inkling or hint of any possibility of “fun” happening.
 
This is the type of guy you see after an intense sporting event, or after continuous athletic training. This is not a massage you get to “feel good”, or be aroused, or have your “root chakras titillated”...
 
From the intense trigger point work, and stretching, I feel like a new man. Released the pressure from every knot I had.
 
If he lived in my town, I’d definitely see him once a quarter. If you workout, or are an avid runner or cyclist.... get on his table.

In the search, type in “Ivo at Rev*ve”, and a thread about him, and similar DC masseurs will come up.
From what I’ve gathered:
 
1.) excellent therapeutic massage
2.) no sensual elements or extras.
3.) You’ll always anticipate more but never get it
 
Traditional “blue-ball” special.

Sorry to highjack your thread again...but i thought that I would add a story to the mix.
 
The Straight Young Businessman
 
It was a day that I was working from home and the workload was light. I posted my usual ads on Craigslist and Doublist. I like those platforms because they have a wider reach since they are not proximity based. You also tend to get more "str8" type guys since they can't have an app like Grindr on their phone.
 
The responses started coming in. The first responses were from the same guys that respond whenever I post. I shuffled those off to the "bad" folder. I try to keep as much historical correspondence as possible so that I have a communication trail to know who I have encountered (for better or worse). Then...the response that I have been looking for comes in:
 
"i love erotic massage and being touched. gl 29yo 5’11” 150 str8 mwm available today to be relaxed. i like worship and some other stuff, but am cool with just sensual massage if that’s what you want. hit me back with a face/body pic if interested. I hope to hear from you. I can really use some stress relief before the weekend with the family"
 
We exchange a couple more emails and G rated pics. Through the conversation I learned:

He has gotten a few massages before, but is not interested in giving them. He enjoys the attention and spaces out for complete relaxation it affords.
He is unclear unclear if it will be sexual in nature or not (I want it to remain a mystery). He likes moderate firmness but leaning toward gentle. He likes the muscles to be worked out but has a low pain tolerance.
He doesn't want to touch my dick but would like to grab my ass if I am cool with it.

 
We set up for him to come over at lunchtime and he arrives right on time. After brief greetings, I lead him to my massage space. I point to where he can put his clothes and I depart to wash my hands. When I return, he on the table face down still wearing his underwear. I ask him if I can remove those and he raises his hips. As I slid them off, I am greeted with the most magnificent little bubble ass that perfectly complements his lean/tone body. Wow.
 
As I started the massage, I realize how thin this guy is. I have to change up my technique some as to not be to firm on him. I do check in with him and he said the pressure is fine. I could go a little harder if I want. I am working through my normal routine...but counting the minutes until I get to touch that bubble as. I am already hard just from looking at it...but I am a little cautious with the body contact as he had stated that he did not want to touch my dick. I don't want to scare him away.
 
As I start to work up his legs towards the prize, he starts to get a little antsy and moves around some. I think my sensual storked are working as intended. As I reach to top of his thighs and his groin area...that bubble ass begins to rise off the table. I began to work around the naughty bits. A graze here and a rub there...but nothing to aggressive. His ass was now propped straight up in the air. I grazed his hole a couple of times but that was it. I could see a stream of precum hanging from his dick. I grabbed his legs to straighten them out...and pull that bubble ass back down onto the table. I start again on the other leg. Bottom to top.
 
Similarly, he started to squirm and that bubble popped straight up again. This time I stepped it up and went for it. First fingers and then my tongue. I was in heaven...and judging by him moans and movement he was too. After a few minutes, I backed off and continued the massage. He asked if it was time to turn over. I told him...not just yet. relax and enjoy. Truth was...I still wanted to be able to see that bubble for a little bit more and get another taste...and certainly I did. Then it was time to flip.
 
His dick was sticking straight up. Avg size, but it fit his small frame. I went to work his pecs. He was so thin...there was little there to work, so I was done rather quickly. Then down to work him legs...along with some stretches that would give me access to his hole again. No objections from him. So now, the only part left that hadn't really been worked was his dick.
 
When I touched it, he let out a deep moan. I began my hand work on his dick and balls. He then asked if I liked feedback. I said sure. He said...I mean "sex talk". I told him to go for it. So he starts saying things like "Oh that feels so good", "yeah, play with my balls", and stuff like that. As I am working him, I can feel his dick getting harder and I can see his balls pulling up tight. He reaches and and grabs my ass and squeezes. He is bucking his hips and I know that he is about to blow. Then suddenly he stops cold and just lays flat on the table. I ask what's wrong. He said that it was his medication...and it was preventing him from coming. He got close...but just couldn't get there. I said...no problem. Just relax and I will molest you a little if you don't mind. No response...so I started playing with him for my enjoyment. He seemed to like that I was taking control and "using" him. I spread his legs and started rubbing his hole. Very gently at first and then I started poking at it a little bit and started the sex talk . I asked him if he like me playing with his hole. He said yeah...but would prefer a tongue as a finger tends to irritate him. Bingo!
 
I told him to slide down to the edge of the table. I pulled up my rolling stool to the edge of the table as well. He raised his hips and put them on my shoulders. I grabbed him by the hips and pulled him closer. I pushed his legs back which gave me perfect access to his hole. Wow. Thanks for lunch. I dig in and go to town with my tongue action. I noticed that his dick seems to be responding, so I reached up and start playing with it too. I then start licking up his perineum and then his balls. Very good response. So I continued to move between working his hole, and balls. Again...I saw his balls begin to rise and get tight...and bam! Rope after rope after rope of cum went flying across his belly up to his chest. From my position, I could see his chest rising and falling as he tried to catch his breath. So hot.
 
He showered before he got dressed. I nice warm hug...and he was on his way. Relaxed for the weekend with the family.

I replied in that other thread, but I think that the reply is more appropriate here.
 
As THE person that @big dale directed his first comment to on March 20th ("So are you still spreading COVID-19 all over the place giving "free massages"? "), I can tell you what impact it had on me. At first his comment hit me like a Mack Truck. I was like...Woah...where did that come from? Who does this guy think that he is?
 
At the time, I was not as "COVID aware" as to how it was affecting other areas (I think it was hitting NYC really hard at the time). I had already begun backing off on my massage activities. I had cancelled a 9 guy massage exchange the week prior and was limiting the # and frequency of my massages. His message ultimately was a wake-up call to me. He could have been more tactful in his approach...but the message was received. I guess that he speaks with that BIG DICK ENERGY. At that point, I stopped doing massage....for a while.
 
I do have to admit that I did slowly start back to giving massages towards the end of summer. I changed up many things that worked for my comfort level. Yes, I know that I am potentially putting myself and others at risk. We each have a frank conversation about COVID before we agree to a session.
 
So although, I may not agree/follow all of what @big dale is putting out there...I appreciate his message. We just need to curtail some of that BIG DICK ENERGY.

I replied in that other thread, but I think that the reply is more appropriate here.
 
As THE person that @big dale directed his first comment to on March 20th ("So are you still spreading COVID-19 all over the place giving "free massages"? "), I can tell you what impact it had on me. At first his comment hit me like a Mack Truck. I was like...Woah...where did that come from? Who does this guy think that he is?
 
At the time, I was not as "COVID aware" as to how it was affecting other areas (I think it was hitting NYC really hard at the time). I had already begun backing off on my massage activities. I had cancelled a 9 guy massage exchange the week prior and was limiting the # and frequency of my massages. His message ultimately was a wake-up call to me. He could have been more tactful in his approach...but the message was received. I guess that he speaks with that BIG DICK ENERGY. At that point, I stopped doing massage....for a while.
 
I do have to admit that I did slowly start back to giving massages towards the end of summer. I changed up many things that worked for my comfort level. Yes, I know that I am potentially putting myself and others at risk. We each have a frank conversation about COVID before we agree to a session.
 
So although, I may not agree/follow all of what @big dale is putting out there...I appreciate his message. We just need to curtail some of that BIG DICK ENERGY.

I replied in that other thread, but I think that the reply is more appropriate here.
 
As THE person that @big dale directed his first comment to on March 20th ("So are you still spreading COVID-19 all over the place giving "free massages"? "), I can tell you what impact it had on me. At first his comment hit me like a Mack Truck. I was like...Woah...where did that come from? Who does this guy think that he is?
 
At the time, I was not as "COVID aware" as to how it was affecting other areas (I think it was hitting NYC really hard at the time). I had already begun backing off on my massage activities. I had cancelled a 9 guy massage exchange the week prior and was limiting the # and frequency of my massages. His message ultimately was a wake-up call to me. He could have been more tactful in his approach...but the message was received. I guess that he speaks with that BIG DICK ENERGY. At that point, I stopped doing massage....for a while.
 
I do have to admit that I did slowly start back to giving massages towards the end of summer. I changed up many things that worked for my comfort level. Yes, I know that I am potentially putting myself and others at risk. We each have a frank conversation about COVID before we agree to a session.
 
So although, I may not agree/follow all of what @big dale is putting out there...I appreciate his message. We just need to curtail some of that BIG DICK ENERGY.

I replied in that other thread, but I think that the reply is more appropriate here.
 
As THE person that @big dale directed his first comment to on March 20th ("So are you still spreading COVID-19 all over the place giving "free massages"? "), I can tell you what impact it had on me. At first his comment hit me like a Mack Truck. I was like...Woah...where did that come from? Who does this guy think that he is?
 
At the time, I was not as "COVID aware" as to how it was affecting other areas (I think it was hitting NYC really hard at the time). I had already begun backing off on my massage activities. I had cancelled a 9 guy massage exchange the week prior and was limiting the # and frequency of my massages. His message ultimately was a wake-up call to me. He could have been more tactful in his approach...but the message was received. I guess that he speaks with that BIG DICK ENERGY. At that point, I stopped doing massage....for a while.
 
I do have to admit that I did slowly start back to giving massages towards the end of summer. I changed up many things that worked for my comfort level. Yes, I know that I am potentially putting myself and others at risk. We each have a frank conversation about COVID before we agree to a session.
 
So although, I may not agree/follow all of what @big dale is putting out there...I appreciate his message. We just need to curtail some of that BIG DICK ENERGY.

As THE person that @big dale directed his first comment to on March 20th ("So are you still spreading COVID-19 all over the place giving "free massages"? "), I can tell you what impact it had on me. At first his comment hit me like a Mack Truck. I was like...Woah...where did that come from. Who does this guy think that he is?
 
At the time, I was not as "COVID aware" as to how it was affecting other areas (I think it was hitting NYC really hard at the time). I had already begun backing off on my massage activities. I had cancelled a 9 guy massage exchange the week prior and was limiting the # and frequency of my massages. His message ultimately was a wake-up call to me. He could have been more tactful in his approach...but the message was received. I guess that he speaks with that BIG DICK ENERGY. At that point, I stopped doing massage....for a while.
 
I do have to admit that I did slowly start back to giving massages towards the end of summer. I changed up many things that worked for my comfort level. Yes, I know that I am potentially putting myself and others at risk. We each have a frank conversation about COVID before we agree to a session.
 
So although, I may not agree/follow all of what @big dale is putting out there...I appreciate his message. We just need to curtail some of that BIG DICK ENERGY.

As THE person that @big dale directed his first comment to on March 20th ("So are you still spreading COVID-19 all over the place giving "free massages"? "), I can tell you what impact it had on me. At first his comment hit me like a Mack Truck. I was like...Woah...where did that come from. Who does this guy think that he is?
 
At the time, I was not as "COVID aware" as to how it was affecting other areas (I think it was hitting NYC really hard at the time). I had already begun backing off on my massage activities. I had cancelled a 9 guy massage exchange the week prior and was limiting the # and frequency of my massages. His message ultimately was a wake-up call to me. He could have been more tactful in his approach...but the message was received. I guess that he speaks with that BIG DICK ENERGY. At that point, I stopped doing massage....for a while.
 
I do have to admit that I did slowly start back to giving massages towards the end of summer. I changed up many things that worked for my comfort level. Yes, I know that I am potentially putting myself and others at risk. We each have a frank conversation about COVID before we agree to a session.
 
So although, I may not agree/follow all of what @big dale is putting out there...I appreciate his message. We just need to curtail some of that BIG DICK ENERGY.

Since a lot of us are on lock-down. I thought I would add another encounter for your reading pleasure. Hopefully the story isn't too long...but sometimes the juice is in the details.
 
So with COVID-19, I have considerably curtailed my activities. However, I have made exceptions here and there. I have only had two sessions in the past week. One on Saturday and the one I am detailing here.
 
I received a response to my postings on Craigslist or Doublist that said: "Hey. Hows your day ? m 25 y indian. i would love to have massage. im free now". I didn't see his response until about 30mins later. It came in pretty late in the evening. Usually I don't do sessions that late on a work night...but the picture attached to the email showed a very beautiful young man. Dark hair, bronze skin, and a dark beard that framed his beautiful face perfectly. An Indian Prince (think Aladdin). I responded back to him. However, he didn't get back to me until about an hour later. With his location being 30-40mins away, it was a no-go. He gave me his phone number and asked if we could schedule for tomorrow. We agreed on 9pm and I was shortly off to bed.
 
The next day, I passed on all of the requests for a massage, given that I had "the one" scheduled for that evening. I confirmed with in the afternoon the agreed upon 9pm meeting time. Later in the evening, I finished up all of my activities around 8pm. I set up the table with a fresh sheet and headrest cover, turned on the heat on the table, turned on the heat for the massage oil, lit the candles, and set the music. The mood was set and I was jumping in the shower 20mins prior to his arrival. I texted him and told him that I would be ready for him at 9pm. He replied that he would be there at 9:40. WTF!? I am ready now and this late start would reallly be pushing my bedtime...but still...I responded with "OK". I just extended my time in the shower, then poured myself a little wine, and chilled waiting for the Indian Prince to arrive. While waiting, a couple guys from Grindr and Jack'd hit me up to see if I was available. I declined...although I thought about setting one up as a backup. It was getting late now...so I just decided to stick with the plan. Ding! Another text from the Indian Prince. It's raining so he is delayed a little more...but will be to me by 10pm. Ugh! A little bit later, Ding! "I am am 5mins away". Although I had given him explicit instructions on how to locate my place, I decided to go stand on the porch and look out for him. 5mins later, I see a car pull up across the parking lot and on the street. I had told him that he could park in my driveway...so I assumed that it was not him. The occupant sat in the car for a minute or two while I kept checking my texts to see if he was lost. Finally the occupant exited the car, but then headed off to the high-rise condominiums that are across the street and disappeared from site. Now I am wondering where my guy is. Then i see the occupant of the car, return to the car, then looks around, and then starts to cross the street in my direction. He calls my name and I respond affirmatively. Finally, the Indian Prince has arrived.
 
We greeted each other and I escorted him to my massage space. He was as handsome as his picture had promised. I noted the smell of marijuana. It seems that was why he sat in the car for a minute or two before getting out. I have noticed this with quite a few of my 30-and-under clientele. They report that it hightens their skin and the sense of touch. He began to undress while I exited to wash my hands. When I returned, he was just pulling down his underwear. He cupped his shaved groin area as if to hide it from view and he turned to climb onto the table. I took note of the specimen laying on the table. A little bigger and doughier than I had anticipated...but it was all good. It just made his booty that much juicier. I determined at that point..that yes...It was going to "go there".
 
I started the session with my normal progressions. A couple mins in, I asked if I could remove my shirt. The wine, the candles, and the hot boy...were making me a little warm. I was already starting to chub up and it was apparent to him as my dick began to brush him here and there through my shorts. Anytime my crotch was near his hands, I could feel him reaching out to cop a feel. Eventually I got to his feet and started working my way up. As I reached his upper thighs, he spread his legs a bit to give me better access. I took that lead and spread them even further. As I worked around the naughty bits...that juicy ass started to rise. Then he pulls the knee of his opposite leg towards his belly. This effectively starts to turn his hips so that his hole is right there for me to enjoy. I worked this tasty treat with my fingers and then my tongue....and then backed away. He was panting...but started to simmer down. I started on the other foot...then up the leg for a repeat. This time, he just turned sideways...again presenting that pretty hole. He grabbed my dick and started rubbing it on his ass cheeks...and then started rubbing it in his crack. Again I backed away.
 
Up until this point, he hadn't seen my dick. He had only felt it in his hand and it pressing against his body. He then lifted his head from the face cradle to take a look. He pulled me forward and swallowed my dick. He sucked me for a bit and then asked if we could cuddle. He scooted over on the table to make room and patted as a signal for me to join him. I suggested that we move to the bed. Once in the bed, we hugged and frotted for a bit. I then laid back and he began to suck me again. He sat on top of me and began grinding back and forth. He then asked me if I was clean as he started to line my dick up with his hole. I told him I was clean...but pushed him back just as I felt the heat of his hole make contact with my dick. As I was getting up to get a condom.. my orgasm was right there on the edge because of all of the activity. Damn...I started to come a little. Not a full orgasm...but enough to ruin my erection for condom fucking. Oh well. He began jerking me some to help finish my orgasm. He continued to play with me and noted that I was still about 3/4 hard. I told him yeah...but that would not maintain with a condom. Next time. So he leaned back and started to jerk himself off. I play with his nipples and rubbed against his hole some until he shot a nice load. I offered his a shower...but he said...just something to wipe up would be fine. However, once he started trying to wipe up the mess...he asked if he could shower.
 
He showered quickly and got dressed. I escorted him to the door. As he was departing, he gave me a nice big hug. I told him that he was welcome back anytime. He said that he liked me a lot and would be back soon. Then, my Indian Prince drove off into the night...

Sorry to highjack your thread again...but i thought that I would add a story to the mix.
 
The Straight Young Businessman
 
It was a day that I was working from home and the workload was light. I posted my usual ads on Craigslist and Doublist. I like those platforms because they have a wider reach since they are not proximity based. You also tend to get more "str8" type guys since they can't have an app like Grindr on their phone.
 
The responses started coming in. The first responses were from the same guys that respond whenever I post. I shuffled those off to the "bad" folder. I try to keep as much historical correspondence as possible so that I have a communication trail to know who I have encountered (for better or worse). Then...the response that I have been looking for comes in:
 
"i love erotic massage and being touched. gl 29yo 5’11” 150 str8 mwm available today to be relaxed. i like worship and some other stuff, but am cool with just sensual massage if that’s what you want. hit me back with a face/body pic if interested. I hope to hear from you. I can really use some stress relief before the weekend with the family"
 
We exchange a couple more emails and G rated pics. Through the conversation I learned:

He has gotten a few massages before, but is not interested in giving them. He enjoys the attention and spaces out for complete relaxation it affords.
He is unclear unclear if it will be sexual in nature or not (I want it to remain a mystery). He likes moderate firmness but leaning toward gentle. He likes the muscles to be worked out but has a low pain tolerance.
He doesn't want to touch my dick but would like to grab my ass if I am cool with it.

 
We set up for him to come over at lunchtime and he arrives right on time. After brief greetings, I lead him to my massage space. I point to where he can put his clothes and I depart to wash my hands. When I return, he on the table face down still wearing his underwear. I ask him if I can remove those and he raises his hips. As I slid them off, I am greeted with the most magnificent little bubble ass that perfectly complements his lean/tone body. Wow.
 
As I started the massage, I realize how thin this guy is. I have to change up my technique some as to not be to firm on him. I do check in with him and he said the pressure is fine. I could go a little harder if I want. I am working through my normal routine...but counting the minutes until I get to touch that bubble as. I am already hard just from looking at it...but I am a little cautious with the body contact as he had stated that he did not want to touch my dick. I don't want to scare him away.
 
As I start to work up his legs towards the prize, he starts to get a little antsy and moves around some. I think my sensual storked are working as intended. As I reach to top of his thighs and his groin area...that bubble ass begins to rise off the table. I began to work around the naughty bits. A graze here and a rub there...but nothing to aggressive. His ass was now propped straight up in the air. I grazed his hole a couple of times but that was it. I could see a stream of precum hanging from his dick. I grabbed his legs to straighten them out...and pull that bubble ass back down onto the table. I start again on the other leg. Bottom to top.
 
Similarly, he started to squirm and that bubble popped straight up again. This time I stepped it up and went for it. First fingers and then my tongue. I was in heaven...and judging by him moans and movement he was too. After a few minutes, I backed off and continued the massage. He asked if it was time to turn over. I told him...not just yet. relax and enjoy. Truth was...I still wanted to be able to see that bubble for a little bit more and get another taste...and certainly I did. Then it was time to flip.
 
His dick was sticking straight up. Avg size, but it fit his small frame. I went to work his pecs. He was so thin...there was little there to work, so I was done rather quickly. Then down to work him legs...along with some stretches that would give me access to his hole again. No objections from him. So now, the only part left that hadn't really been worked was his dick.
 
When I touched it, he let out a deep moan. I began my hand work on his dick and balls. He then asked if I liked feedback. I said sure. He said...I mean "sex talk". I told him to go for it. So he starts saying things like "Oh that feels so good", "yeah, play with my balls", and stuff like that. As I am working him, I can feel his dick getting harder and I can see his balls pulling up tight. He reaches and and grabs my ass and squeezes. He is bucking his hips and I know that he is about to blow. Then suddenly he stops cold and just lays flat on the table. I ask what's wrong. He said that it was his medication...and it was preventing him from coming. He got close...but just couldn't get there. I said...no problem. Just relax and I will molest you a little if you don't mind. No response...so I started playing with him for my enjoyment. He seemed to like that I was taking control and "using" him. I spread his legs and started rubbing his hole. Very gently at first and then I started poking at it a little bit and started the sex talk . I asked him if he like me playing with his hole. He said yeah...but would prefer a tongue as a finger tends to irritate him. Bingo!
 
I told him to slide down to the edge of the table. I pulled up my rolling stool to the edge of the table as well. He raised his hips and put them on my shoulders. I grabbed him by the hips and pulled him closer. I pushed his legs back which gave me perfect access to his hole. Wow. Thanks for lunch. I dig in and go to town with my tongue action. I noticed that his dick seems to be responding, so I reached up and start playing with it too. I then start licking up his perineum and then his balls. Very good response. So I continued to move between working his hole, and balls. Again...I saw his balls begin to rise and get tight...and bam! Rope after rope after rope of cum went flying across his belly up to his chest. From my position, I could see his chest rising and falling as he tried to catch his breath. So hot.
 
He showered before he got dressed. I nice warm hug...and he was on his way. Relaxed for the weekend with the family.

Also, a city/location in the subject/topic helps

Posting this because I got 3 private messages this week.
 
ALL asked for my opinion and NONE provided a link
 
So if you are posting a public or private msg, please include a link.
 
Thanks

I've had really good luck finding sensual/erotic M4M on Thumbtack. Just look for guys who have exclusively or near exclusively male reviewers.

These sites aren't necessarily for M4M. However, they can provide leads to guys not on the M4M sites or can be used to cross reference guys in your research.
 
Massagebook.com - Does not have the ability to filter for males. I have seen guys on this site that have advertised at one time or another on the M4M sites or CL.
 
Massageanywhere.com - Does not have the ability to filter for males. They are not good at keeping the information up, so a lot of the information may be dated. However, can be good to get a lead on someone...or see an older ad of someone advertising elsewhere now. The site is also a little quirky to use. Your search only brings back a subset of the matches unless you are a "financial contributor" to the site. However, if you re-execute the search, you may get a different subset with additional matches.
 
MassageFinder.com - This is the "legitimate" companion website to MasseurFinder. Some masseurs advertise on both. You may also find a [missing] masseur that used to advertise on MasseurFinder now only advertises on MassageFinder.
 
Healthgrades.com - Looks to be a strictly legitimate site. It does allow you to filter buy gender and location (within miles). It could be used to identify some new potentials or as a cross reference in your research.

It may require a little work, but I have been able to find information on the masseurs listed on Thumbtack elsewhere. It's great that Thumbtack allows you to search for "Male massage therapists only". Other sites don't seem to have that feature. Once you get the list of male providers that you are interested in, you can use a few simple tricks/tools that can potentially provide other/direct contact information.
 
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As an example, here is what I did for the first 3 males that showed up for my zip code:
 
Guy #1: I performed a google search on the Business Name. This gave me the address and phone of the provider. Also, if you look further down the Thumbtack page, there is a section labeled "Credentials". This lists the providers name. I searched on that as a cross reference
 
Guy #2: I performed a google search on his name and added "LMT". I was able to find his phone number through American Massage Therapy Association (AMTA) website. Additionally, the provider had a link to his Instagram Page on his Thumbtack profile.
 
Guy #3: I performed a google search on his name that was located in the "Credentials" section. This returned his business page on massagebook.com. This page provided more direct information to contact the provider. The google search also returned, his LinkedIn, his Facebook, and his YouTube channel.
 
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So with a little extra work, I was able to find out tons of information on the providers. I know this may seem like a lot of work...but I do the same research on ANY provider that I am thinking about setting up a session with. Names, phone numbers and pictures can help you find out a lot about people with a simple google search.

...For those that came here for a massage story, here is another one of mine that I detailed on another forum: https://www.lpsg.com/posts/28233421/ and the follow-up story: https://www.lpsg.com/posts/28365641/
 

 
I just thought that I would check back in here. It's approaching 2 months since I have given my last massage. My grindr, jack'd and scruff ads still mention massage although I have not used either ad for massage or connections. However, I still continued to receive requests for massages daily. That has picked up dramatically in the past week. I received a request for a massage & more this evening. I responded to him that I was practicing Social Distancing and he responded with..."Boy Bye. Fuck the rona. Pussy ass hoe". Most guys have been understanding, a few still try to plead for session, but this was the first really negative response that I had received.
 
I have been discussing with some of my other massage friends of what it would take to get back to giving massages. Some have mentioned just masks, others have also added gloves to the equation...along with thorough cleaning of the equipment between sessions. Some say that they just may start with people they know well and trust. However, none of them are ready to start again. I am not sure what will work for me. I would prefer not to give (or receive) a massage with gloves. Also, I can barely stand a 20min jaunt in the Grocery store with a mask on. There is no way that I can survive giving a 45+min massage wearing a mask.

I know most of us haven't been hiring much this year, but If you could give an award for the best masseur of 2020 who would it go to?
 
Here is last year's thread https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/and-the-2019-award-for-best-masseur-goes-to.154055/
 
For me in 2020, it would go to Jeremiah, https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5913/ I enjoyed my time with him and I felt a strong personal connection. I am able to relax and just enjoy the massage. I feel comfortable with him. I've seen him in other years too. From the ones I hired this year, it would be him that I enjoyed the most. So he would be my pick.
 
Send your links and tell us why you picked that masseur

Glad that I could help and glad that are enjoying your time Will.

I've met him. Looks like his pics, handsome, but oddly distant in his communication. Like in his own other world. Definitely had a stripper mentality. Believes money should be thrown his way just for keeping himself in shape and being attractive, but has no other skill. Massage, not so much. That probably works for $10's and 20's at a strip club but for his rate, and reluctance to even being nude, I'd advise you to save your money. D-

I decided to see Dakota again to see how things have changed in the last 4+ years. I booked a session for yesterday. When I booked the appt, he agreed to be nude for part of the session (He had also been nude for part of my prior session). He had asked me to confirm the appointment on the day of (I had booked several days in advance) and he would give me the address. When I confirmed, he replied saying "Ok, I dont get nude during massage, just to let u know.". I reminded him that he had said that he would and he responded with "Sorry, find someone else"