HoseMaster

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

If someone charges by the hour ..there certainly an incentive for them to induce you to extend the session to an additional hour. ( Which of course you should pay for ) because that's their business model.

If I ask you for only an hour, and you talk to me for an hour, never initiate getting down to business, and then I end up staying with you well over that hour that I initially asked you to for you to milk the shit out of me, I should NOT have to pay you for your hustling.  I didn’t ask for an hour of counseling in addition to an hour of fucking.  Yea, their time is valuable, but so is mine.  I, unfortunately, got taken by this hustler, and it won’t happen again. 
 

“Hey Mr Electrician, thanks for replacing that light switch you told me you could get fixed in a hour for $100.  What’s that?  You also painted the wall where you fixed the switch, and now I owe you $200???  I already had the paint and I was going to do that after you left.  Thanks for doing that though, but here’s your $100 for fixing the switch.”

On 4/14/2022 at 6:03 AM, MikeThomas said:

Once… with Scott Randsome.

What did Scott do?  He used to be someone that really turned me on.

40 minutes ago, samhexum said:

So why aren't you in Mexico right now to...  um... wish him a Happy Father's Day ?

Riiigggghhhtt??  

Let me look at flights….😏😜

I just came across this story of this Mexican priest who is becoming popular among youth by spreading God’s word via TikTok and other social media, and has over a million followers.  I’m like, “that’s probably the most handsome, youngest priest I’ve ever seen!”  Padre Heriberto Garcia Arias is 33 years old, has been a priest for five years, and is based out of Catedral Basílica de San Juan de Los Lagos in Jalisco, Mexico.  He speaks very eloquently, and when I saw the shirtless picture of him at the beach, I thought “I wonder if that church has any openings for alter boys?”  LOL

I’m not Catholic, but all kidding aside, don’t Catholic priests have to remain abstinent for their life?  If that’s true, this guy must have a lot of temptation come his way, whether he’s straight or gay. 

11 hours ago, FewBricksShy said:

I try to be accomdating when it comes to paying for guys and everything that goes along with it. It's not a cheap hobby, to be sure, and if you're too cheap, it'll just be a poor experience for all involved. But has anyone noticed as of late, perhaps because of inflation, that the expectations of us clients as far as costs have become a bit unreasonable. I was trying to set up an appointment with a guy. He gave me a quote, which was a little more than I wanted to spend, but okay. I'll go with it. He seemed likeable enough. I told him I'd cover his plane or train fare too, that I would need to factor that into things. I asked him then which he preferred. He preferred the plane, but ignores the price of the ticket. (haha) Well, I can't ignore the price of tickets. Then he asks me about getting a separate room at the hotel for our stay and I said I've never done that before. So he wants his fee, a plane ticket, regardless of the price, all expenses during our time together covered, AND a separate room? I understand wanting his time during an extended stay, but I don't feel a separate room is my responsibility. And if I'm buying the planet ticket -- well, he can ride economy class then. He seemed likeable enough, but now I'm not so keen on hiring after this money talk. Like I said, I try to be generous but I don't like feeling like I'm being used. Has anyone else noticed that it seems money talk is a lot less amicable than it used to be?

Fuck that.  Don’t do it.  You’re being taken advantage of.  I’ve done plenty of overnights and weekends over the past 17 years, and only one asked for me to get him a hotel room for “after the overnight”.  When I asked him “after the overnight?", he replied so he has somewhere to go and unwind after the overnight.  I told him, “the overnight is until morning, and then you go.  The only ‘after the overnight’ is when you leave in the morning, and that is no longer my responsibility.”  I never hired him.  There are plenty of others who will stay with you the entire time you hire them.  Move on from this guy.

Looks like the ad is gone.  Undergoing a name change again perhaps?

1 hour ago, FrankR said:

Play ball!

I am always up for round two! 😉

Who’s that?  He looks familiar….yum!

That’s the same one I heard about.

12 hours ago, FrankR said:

I am sorry this happened to you. I like my providers to be active and passionate contributors so I can usually tell within the first 15 minutes how things will go.  Always keep an eye on the clock and never let them run out the clock - would rather end early and save that extra they would charge me if we go over. on another prospect.

Once you get to the point where you have gone over the hour, your options are limited and almost all unsatisfactory.
 

 

Thanks Frank.  I need to keep this in mind for future new hires.

2 hours ago, Lazarus said:

I hope you did not give him $600. He sounds like a hustler. 

Unfortunately I did.  He asked if I had Venmo or Zelle, as I never bring my wallet to first-time meetings, and only had enough cash to cover what I was there for.  I really wasn’t sure what else to do that wouldn’t cause a scene.  I’ve had this kind of shit happen before with other escorts as well, but I’m also really not sure how to handle a situation like this.  Maybe I should start a new thread on this?

6 hours ago, JTtorretto said:

FALSE:  "escorts use google voice"

  All of the professional escorts that I've ever known, use their actual real cell phone number.   
 

FALSE: "you can't tell when a number is fake"

There ARE ways to find out if someone is using a burner phone, voip, or google voice.  [not at liberty to say how]. 
 

In my experience 99.9% of guys using a fake / voip / google voice = are deadbeat  time wasters who have no intention of actually meeting up.  Fake numbers = zero accountability for keeping an appt thus its possible for the client to have a bit of "fun" at our expense, time and income.  👎🏻😡

 

1) I’ve ran across at least two escorts in my 17 years of hiring that used Google voice, and at least one of them had high remarks on here.

2) 99.9% of the escorts I’ve run across in these seventeen years DO use a burner phone.  They have a real phone for family and friends, and they have another “burner” phone (which they may keep during their entire career) with a completely different number for their clients and work.  Granted, their “burner” phone may be a nice iPhone too, but it is no different than some clients I know that have a completely separate phone and number.  I also use a separate number for first time contact, especially when I tried out Seeking Arrangements in the past.  I don’t know who I’m contacting, and if they end up being psycho or something, I don’t need to change my real number.  This was especially true with a few of the guys on Seeking Arrangements who were complete nut jobs.  Once I get to know the escort, I give them my real number.

I know at least one guy who is a client on here who uses burner/bone phones with totally different numbers than his real phone. You can’t tell on these phones whether they come from a prepaid cell phone  or a real numbered cell phone as far as I can tell.  He uses it in case the escort gets crazy in some way, and doesn’t want a real number associated with him.  I’m pretty sure almost every escort on here has a separate “work” phone number too, so what’s the difference of a client has a separate “fun” number?  There’s more than one occasion where I’ve called an escort, and it’s a Google phone number.

I saw him the other night, and I also got “stretched”, but not in a good way.

• He is the guy in his pics (although he does shave his chest and stomach, and I felt the stubble which was a little uncomfortable for me).

• Handsome guy

• Sweet personality 

• Kissing is limited

• Says he is versatile, but he couldn’t keep it hard long enough to continue as a top.  When I tried topping him, he couldn’t take me for that long (and I don’t consider myself hung in any way whatsoever).  I had to jack myself off to finish, which was very disappointing, as I can do that at home watching porn.  However, he couldn’t follow through in either role.

• I told him I wanted an hour before I even ventured to go meet him at his hotel.  I only brought in cash his hourly fee of $300, plus a possible tip if he was good.  I was on time, but he asked for ten more minutes (which initially didn’t seem like a big deal to me).

• Once I got there, we started talking a bit just to get to know each other, which is normal for any one or two hour appointment I do.  What seemed like an hour of talking (which it probably was), I said we need to get on with it, as he never wanted to initiate anything.  It seemed like if I didn’t initiate anything, he would’ve kept talking. When we were done, two hours had passed.  I gave him his initial fee of $300, plus a tip.  He was like, “Oh no!  You were here TWO hours! You owe me $600 total.”  At this point, I felt hussled, as it shouldn’t be ME that keeps track of the time.  Yeah, we went two hours, but the first hour was him allowing me to continue to talk, without initiating what I was there for.  I felt if I wouldn’t have said anything, he would’ve just continued to talk, and then asked for his hourly fee of just talking.

• Would I hire him again?  Most likely not, as it left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth by him not performing as a top or bottom, asking for more time on my schedule (which initially wouldn’t have been an issue, but once it was HIS time, THAT time became money), and then asking for another full hour’s rate when I feel HE should have initiated the intimacy, knowing how much time I had requested.

Over my seventeen-plus years of hiring, I would say that 25-33% of my hires have been overnights, weekends (2 consecutive nights), or mini-vacations.  I sometimes I don’t like to just “get off” and go, but like the intimacy and getting to know someone more an overnight gives.  I have hired some of them for overnights or weekends without doing an hourly first, only because they peaked my interest and live far away from where I live, and I have to fly them out (and it wouldn’t be worth either of our times to fly them out for an hour or two).  Someone that I invite on a mini-vacation is someone I’ve done numerous overnights with, so that I know we click.

When I first started hiring, I got a feel of what I now consider a standard overnight is:

• Showing up early enough for a dinner to meet and greet.  This is usually around 7 pm

• A minimum time period of 10-12 hours.  This gives time for a dinner the night before, and non-rushed morning sex.

• After dinner, going back to the bedroom for fun

• Cuddling for a bit, then sleep on separate sides of the bed, as I can’t have anyone cuddling me all night

• Sleep for at least 6 hours, undisturbed

• Wake up to cuddling, spooning, and morning sex (but not too early)

• Optional breakfast 

* If weekend session, go explore the area during the day and do fun things with lunch we both agree on.  Have dinner, and repeat above steps over again.

Most of my hires have went well, but something that would probably cause me not to repeat with them:

• No intimacy or kissing

• Asking to sleep in a separate bed while they sleep (hasn’t happened to me yet, but I have seen some requirements by done escorts on here).  If I hire you, I want you to sleep with me like a boyfriend experience, and wake up to you cuddling and progressing to sex.  If you sleep in separate beds, I may as well hire you for an hour at night, and once again in the morning.

• Putting clothes on to sleep with me.  I like to sleep naked with my “partner”, and I’ve had at least one or two insist they don’t sleep naked.  This ruins the moment for me, and I just move on, as most escorts have no problem sleeping naked with me.

• Not having sex at least once in the evening, and again in the morning.  I had at least one guy said he doesn’t do morning sex (why did you even stay all night then?)

• Thinking an overnight is 6 hours, or only part of the night.  Overnights to me have always been a minimum of 10-12 hours.  I had one escort say I had to buy him a room at a hotel for the overnight, as he needed to go there after the overnight.  I told him, “This is an overnight.  You stay with me until morning.”  He said his overnights are only 6 hours.  I politely turned him down.  I’ve seen to notice this aspect on escorts originally from anywhere south of the US border, and not sure if this is more prevalent in South America or what.

• Asking for all of their money up front, especially if I’ve flown them out to me and paid their round-trip ticket.

• A-la-Carte pricing during an overnight.  If I hire you for an overnight, you should know what is expected.

• Can’t get hard when they advertise as a top.

34 minutes ago, glutes said:

Perhaps jimboivyo or I could fly him out on one of our Private Jets.

Yeah, at those prices….me too……….NOT!!

I would have to say that’s probably most insane prices I’ve ever seen to travel. 

As I often do to escorts that peak my interest, I reached out to him to see what his rates were to fly him from NYC to California for an overnight or weekend:  I guess he really doesn’t like to travel.

• $2,000 each day in NYC

• $3,500 each day outside NYC

He lists in NYC, but in his profile it talks about him being in West Hollywood.

3 hours ago, Handsome_btt said:

I have tried to meet him at least half a dozen times. Planned 2 days advance- no show. Planned 4 hours in advance- ghost. The other times were “right now” requests which he replied to but never entertained. Has not stopped me from wanting!

What’s wrong with these guys?  Maybe he ate too much Frosted FLAKES cereal as a kid…

Yes.  Super nice kid.  Nice body.  Looks just like his pics.

6 hours ago, Jeff Meuller said:

Sounds like him. I'm pretty sure he wasn't on Rentboy/Rentmen. It was likely Craigslist or Backpage. One of the pictures was him coming out of the shower. He was super nice and hot. Hired him a few times.

One of my regrets in hiring…

I remember he was in LA several months ago, and I inquired about him.  I don’t remember him having that muscular a body, or that much of a bubble butt.  Therefore I think the pics are not his, or altered in some way.  I, too, got blocked for asking a question back then.

I just can’t get motivated on a guy only showing a side face shot and a random dick shot that may or may not be his.  I need to see some body shots! 😈

2 hours ago, Jeff Meuller said:

I think I hired him. He's place was out in the burbs? He was great!

 

I remember he had an ad over 15 years ago now on a site which was not on RentMen (or RentBoy).  He was a gorgeous, smooth, blonde muscle boy based in B.C. Canada.  Sadly he retired before I got to hire him.  Does this sound like the guy you hired, and how was he if the same one?

Already taken down….

I asked someone that had seen him about details:  the one picture on line, the two extra pictures he sends in private including a big fat dick pic, if he is naturally smooth (as I saw a kind of hairy arm, which usually doesn’t match with a smooth torso like he shows), and whether he kisses?  This is the response I got:

It has been a couple years but he wasn’t smooth.  Not muscular - he was in shape but didn’t strike me as a gym guy by and stretch.  I don’t kiss escorts so tough to say - he did cuddle and interact in a way that would lead me to think he would kiss.  His primary interest was receiving oral for sure.

Ok this is going to sound weird but I think that is him in the picture but he has used a filter or something to enhance the picture.  There is no way that is his penis.  I would have been thrilled to death with that.  He is probably 7ish.   Not overly hairy - I would characterize it as normal.  Definitely wasn’t smooth.

I will tell you that I felt like he misrepresented himself but unfortunately he had driven a good distance to me and obviously knew my address. I just went through with it to avoid the drama.  If it hadn’t been that situation it was enough of a misrepresentation that I would have walked away.  Definitely would recommend if the looks and size are what drew you to him.  He was a nice guy with a great sense of humor just not what he represented himself to be physically.