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Lotus-eater

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  1. Power facilitates sexual assault (e.g., Harvey Weinstein, Sean Combs, etc.) but it is not the primary motivation: "In the 1975 bestselling book: Against Our Will, the feminist writer, Susan Brownmiller, asserted that “rape is about power, not sex.” Ever since, the conventional wisdom has been that rapists are misogynistic men seeking domination and power over women, not violent men seeking sex. However, there is a fundamental problem with Brownmiller’s bold assertion. In the ensuing 45 years, there has been no significant empirical research to support her claim. Yet, almost everyone repeats it. In examining eight years of FBI data on 250,000 rapes and other sexual assaults, one factor stands head-and-shoulders above the others: the age range of the victims. Herein lies the key to unlocking the mystery of the offender’s motivation. Social science has demonstrated a strong relationship between age and sexual attractiveness... Studying the ages of victims, therefore, provides an opportunity to examine sexual motivation. If rapists are primarily motivated by the desire for power and domination, then one would expect them to prefer middle-aged, career women. However, if rapists primarily desire sex, then one would expect them to prefer young women and men. Our research demonstrates that offenders almost always attack the young. The percentage of female victims who are over 50 is close to zero. Similarly, in male prisons, where women are extremely scarce, heterosexual men target the youngest inmates. ...Women rarely engage in sexual assault – they make up 3% of the offenders – but when they do commit sexual assaults, they most often target 15-year-olds. A power motive can’t explain why both male and female offenders prefer young victims. Only a sexual motive can do the job. ...An analysis of whether female robbery victims are sexually assaulted during the incident suggests that the sexual attractiveness of young people is an important factor. Since the robber has already established dominance over a vulnerable victim, the effects of opportunity and vulnerability are removed, and only the effect of the offender’s age preference remains. In such cases, robbers are much more likely to rape victims between the ages of 15 and 29—the years when women (and men) tend to be the most sexually attractive. Only a sexual motive can account for this pattern. ...Also, men who commit sexual assault tend to be considerably older than men who commit other types of violent crimes. The relatively high rate of sexual offending by older men is likely due to the fact that they have become less attractive with age while their sexual attraction to young people is undiminished. The men and women they find most attractive are not attracted to them. Some of them use force to get their way. ...Any explanation of sexual assault must account for why gay men commit the crime at least as often as straight men. It must explain why offenders, regardless of age and gender, overwhelmingly target young people."
  2. 80F at night is great weather!
  3. At least you received a reply. A number of masseurs I've contacted to get basic information read my message and then don't bother replying despite the profile saying "ask" about rates and availability.
  4. How does someone have no reviews after so long? Does he block everyone?
  5. Wishlist (v1) is now Favorites (v2).
  6. The drug-addled thug in prison is the guy you should be contacting to provide some help.
  7. Interesting name.
  8. My 2 cents. Therapeutic=strictly platonic massage (commonly with some professional training), hourly rate up to $140. Sensual=nude massage with MT, HE option, hourly rate up to $200. Erotic=optional massage (which is usually bad), escort-type experience, hourly rate $200+.
  9. Federal prosecutors have a 90%+ conviction rate, but Combs is a celebrity. Case is listed as: UNITED STATES OF AMERICA V. SEAN COMBS, a/k/a "Puff Daddy," a/k/a "P. Diddy," a/k/a "Diddy," a/k/a "PD," a/k/a "Love," Defendant. What will his convict name be?
  10. We now know that he's a violent thug however you regard his look (I'd swipe left). Was the victim attracted to a dangerous bad boy, prone to downplay any signs of erratic behavior, being extorted, or something else? Murders are usually committed by someone known to the victim, so I also find it interesting that there were many texts between them and yes, he did not seem like the sort of person that a surgeon would typically socialize with, which would be a reason for the police to dig deeper.
  11. Liberace wasn't the only guy fond of expensive bling: The biography of bling WWW.CNN.COM From modest chains to the “Hope Diamond of hip-hop,” these photos map the evolution of rappers’ jewelry
  12. Unless you want to look like a genderless dragon.
  13. Tattoos serve to highlight the effects of aging on the skin.
  14. That's too broad for me. After getting burned, I will only consider Asians and Columbians with a good track record.
  15. Don't know if it's a majority but fraud (fake pics, no massage ability, stealing, etc.) seems to be more common in newer ads by Asians and Columbians.
  16. I also haven't seen a stat that there has been a 50% chance (!) of developing Long Covid with earlier or later variants. "At the pandemic’s onset, approximately 10% of people who suffered COVID-19 infections went on to develop Long COVID. Now, the risk of getting Long COVID has dropped to about 3.5% among vaccinated people (primary series)." article (study)
  17. "Overall, 16% reported ongoing symptoms a year later, and 3.6% reported moderate-to-severe impairment in their daily activities. ...similar to the 3.4% with ongoing impairments after influenza." link
  18. I assume it's tobacco: cigs or e-cigs/vape. Most put weed/420 in a separate category.
  19. TommyFaust on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Newer ad with no reviews. Columbian or Columbian fraud gang?
  20. President Clinton: "It depends on what the meaning of the word "is" is. If the – if he – if "is" means is and never has been that is not – that is one thing. If it means there is none, that was a completely true statement."
  21. I call them steamy.
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