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I can't speak for the others; but, I left NYC in September and am now in Ft Lauderdale.  It's good to hear my absence has been noticed.

I’ve actually very recently noticed that there are fewer ultra-hot guys out and about in NYC… I thought it was due to the weather/season, but maybe not?

I’ve actually very recently noticed that there are fewer ultra-hot guys out and about in NYC… I thought it was due to the weather/season, but maybe not?

It means “kinda/sorta.”
 
Thanks, I hear this one all the time and couldn’t figure it out lol.

It means “kinda/sorta.”
 
Thanks, I hear this one all the time and couldn’t figure it out lol.

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I’m not Christian but have always loved Christmas… this one will be bittersweet for several reasons, but I’m hoping the holiday spirit gets me through it.

These three are FANTASTIC kissers and great with body contact so would likely deliver a wonderful lovemaking experience depending on what you get into:
https://rent.men/Karl_Kelso
https://rent.men/Harriluis
https://rent.men/jose_ok
This young man gives more “friend with benefits” than romantic vibes (at least with me) but is very sweet and sensual:
https://rent.men/AngusStevensxxx
 

Caught part of The Nutcracker from English National Ballet on one of the PBS stations tonight… some beautiful men!


Nutcracker from English National Ballet | About | Great Performances | PBS
WWW.PBS.ORG Experience the holiday classic in a new light, featuring over 100 dancers and musicians performing at the London Coliseum.  

See, I’m physically attracted to a wide variety of men (100% gay here), but once you factor in things like if/where a guy can host, availability, what is this guy into or not into, what is his status, how much he charges, etc, the number goes down from being attracted to like 40% of RMs to maybe 5% in my city I could feasibly see.

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See, I’m physically attracted to a wide variety of men (100% gay here), but once you factor in things like if/where a guy can host, availability, what is this guy into or not into, what is his status, how much he charges, etc, the number goes down from being attracted to like 40% of RMs to maybe 5% in my city I could feasibly see.

See, I’m physically attracted to a wide variety of men (100% gay here), but once you factor in things like if/where a guy can host, availability, what is this guy into or not into, what is his status, how much he charges, etc, the number goes down from being attracted to like 40% of RMs to maybe 5% in my city I could feasibly see.

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I’m not Christian but have always loved Christmas… this one will be bittersweet for several reasons, but I’m hoping the holiday spirit gets me through it.

The NY Post reports that Cafe Un Deux Trois will be closing permanently. This is not the first such report, as during the pandemic they struggled mightily. This is the restaurant on W. 44th favored by theater people, where you could often see important Broadway people.
Incidentally, it is where my husband and I got married. Our Central Park wedding was foiled by rain, and we were planning to lunch here anyway. We thought we were having a quiet ceremony, but once that kiss took place, the entire restaurant applauded. I will always have fond memories of eating there, especially with fellow board members.
Let's hope that this is a false alarm!

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I’m not Christian but have always loved Christmas… this one will be bittersweet for several reasons, but I’m hoping the holiday spirit gets me through it.

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I’m not Christian but have always loved Christmas… this one will be bittersweet for several reasons, but I’m hoping the holiday spirit gets me through it.

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I’m not Christian but have always loved Christmas… this one will be bittersweet for several reasons, but I’m hoping the holiday spirit gets me through it.

Caught part of The Nutcracker from English National Ballet on one of the PBS stations tonight… some beautiful men!


Nutcracker from English National Ballet | About | Great Performances | PBS
WWW.PBS.ORG Experience the holiday classic in a new light, featuring over 100 dancers and musicians performing at the London Coliseum.  

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I’m not Christian but have always loved Christmas… this one will be bittersweet for several reasons, but I’m hoping the holiday spirit gets me through it.

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I’m not Christian but have always loved Christmas… this one will be bittersweet for several reasons, but I’m hoping the holiday spirit gets me through it.

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Jose’s cock barely fit in my mouth!

Personally, I have no problem getting-off without penetration.  (hand-job happy endings, or frottage, kink play such as edging/cum control)
I usually opt for the NO-risk, over low-risk encounter. 
But that doesn't mean I "never" take risks by occasionally engaging in oral with a provider.
As stated above we all have to navigate the degree of risk we are willing to take. But it IS sad to see the number of gays here who are in complete denial of the statistics.
 
STI rates, especially for syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia, havesignificantly increased in gay and bisexual men (MSM) over the past decade, though recent data suggests declines in syphilis due to prevention like DoxyPEP; these rises are linked to factors like increased testing (especially with PrEP), condomless sex, and potential shifts in risk perception, with some studies showing dramatic percentage jumps for specific infections ( i.e. Syphilis ).  
  Key Trends & Statistics   Syphilis: Rates have seen substantial increases, with nearly 75% of cases in the US occurring in gay/bisexual men, though a recent CDC report showed a decline from 2022-2023. Gonorrhea & Chlamydia: Rates have risen significantly, with some figures showing over 60% increases for gonorrhea and 19% for chlamydia from 2014, though this can partly reflect increased screening. PrEP: Use of Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) is associated with higher transmission, with some studies showing significant increases in rectal STIs.