ShortCutie7

I haven’t in the past but am highly considering using them in the future (and actually started a thread about them a while back). I have never allowed guys to cum in my mouth, and hook up very infrequently and only with guys I have been chatting with a while (I consider that to be a form of vetting and always make my fear of STIs clear prior to meeting). What was surprising about this particular escort was that he had written in his profile something along the lines of being orally gifted. Possibly he didn’t suck me until I inquired because when I played with his I only briefly licked his shaft.

Since my menu of options is relatively limited as I am scared of STIs and find bottoming painful, kissing is VERY important to me… and not just on the lips, but all over. I can’t imagine enjoying and paying for a hookup without at least some kissing. I was actually surprised that on my (only thusfar) encounter with a provider, he kissed passionately but did not initiate oral.

I never thought of it, but that’s absolutely true! I don’t think I know anyone around my age (mid-thirties) who has more than two kids.

Agreed- I always hated the word “queer” in this context. I also don’t particularly care for the word “gay” even though I have used it to describe myself in the past. The most accurate term for me is homosexual since it clearly defines that I am (solely) sexually attracted to other men, but doesn’t necessarily have an impact on any other aspect of my life.

Wow! I could tell even from what little I can see if his face that he has an incredible jawline.

That’s why I’m envious of those in the middle of the spectrum. I am 100% gay so don’t have a choice in the matter. That said, the only real difference between between me and a single straight person is that in the once in a blue moon I have sex, it happens to be with another man- there are different categories and levels of lifestyles that we all engage in.

True, though I do recall being scared of drag queens lol. On the flip-side (since it’s funny you @Vegas_Millennial happen to be the one posting), the Vegas strip was my favorite place in the world as a child, and there I had constant exposure to topless women!

I’m an only child and had two very involved (and relatively strict) parents growing up. As far as I know, none of my blood relatives are gay or even bi, and I had no more exposure to gay culture than anyone else living in NYC. I never had the same interests as other boys but didn’t even consider the possibility that I was gay until I was a teenager and found myself attracted to men and not women.

I’m trying a new tactic: I deleted Grindr this weekend and will not re-download until I’m down at least 10 pounds… we’ll see if that works lol. Keto worked very well for me two years ago, but I gained most of the weight back and haven’t been able to stay on the wagon since for more than a few days.

As a potential client, I do not text because I as a general rule do not give my phone number to people I have not met in person. If that is a dealbreaker for a potential provider, I would simply move on.

I agree with your sentiment, but I think you’re greatly overestimating the self-awareness of the average man. There’s also no correlation between money and cleanliness (with the exception of obvious examples such as homeless people).

Nicholas Galitzine! I keep on getting ads for “Mary and George” and DAMN he’s hot!

There’s also the whole Yelp theory that people are more inclined to bother writing a review if it’s negative.

Yep! I was neutral on the earrings; I was just surprised that he was wearing them. I think it was the style of the earrings that made him look less masculine.

Thanks, all!

AugustAF looks hot AF. No mention of him on here that I can find… name change? https://rent.men/AugustAF

While the OP specifies that piercings are not included in the prompt, I think it’s applicable to say that the first (and only thusfar) provider I met was unexpectedly wearing earrings, and I didn’t mind but it helped me understand why some may have perceived him as effeminate.

Two hookups have picked me up while making out and carried me to bed- both times I was taken aback by how much it turned me on! Neither guy was particularly muscular, so this may be something you can request of a provider of any size (I’m a little guy so do probably weigh significantly less than the typical client, but even so).

Sometimes when I’m getting blown, I can’t tell if I’m cumming so the guy doing the sucking ends up with a surprise load in his mouth… I do warn hookups of this and nobody has ever minded 😈

EXACTLY!! I won’t go too much into my personal/financial situation, but I provide food (encompassing groceries, takeout, etc) for the equivalent of three people (not including myself) in lieu of paying rent. The food costs more than rent would.

Congrats on the recent weight loss! But that’s amazing, $201 a month wouldn’t even get you “dollar pizza” (which is now usually $1.50 for a small slice) in NYC.

Absolutely not, it has taken me a lifetime to embrace my very short height, and it now has become a major part of my personality!

I did not “make up” my definition; that is the definition I have heard/perceived of the word in every context until this thread.

I’m not saying a client’s income should be a provider’s concern at all, I’m saying just the perception of paying 20 hours’ worth of income for 1 hour of work could have an impact on the dynamic. It could go several ways (ie “wow, he must really want me and value my time” or “this loser has to work 20 hours to give me what I command in one hour”).

Ha! If only some escorts understood how little money people with regular 9-5s take home after taxes, retirement contributions, etc… I know my take-home is in reality a fraction of what sounded like a really nice income a few years ago. I don’t know if an escort would be turned on or appalled by the fact that if I give him $400, that is half of what I take home in a week!