RyanDean

He sees male clients. Based on my experience, he has a process of vetting clients that will clarify your questions respectfully and efficiently.

Such an interesting question, @BCMan I don't know that there's such a website, aside from perhaps Seeking.com (which has its own limits). That said, some thoughts... it sounds like forum contributor @BenjaminNicholas would deftly meet this criteria. you might explore the offerings of LuxeMentor; and depending on your location (and height requirements), I'd endorse James Dumont for your consideration. And I'll be interested to see which other providers come to mind for other forum contributors...

About ten years ago, I appeared on Who Wants to be a Millionaire as the in-person "Lifeline" for someone. Helped them answer the $50k question correctly. But I've never competed on one myself. I have some LA friends who seem to do this or that lower-profile game show every couple years.

Where do you live? I'm aware of a number of figure drawing classes that engage a primarily gay/queer cohort of artists in NYC, including at least one that hosts remote modeling sessions. One of the best NYC ones hosts male models of all ages/shapes and another often includes more explicitly erotic poses/sequences. There are also private groups for more serious/experienced artists. I'm also aware of at least one gay figure drawing group in LA and one in San Francisco, plus one based in the UK that hosts models from all over for artists that are as well. But, yes -- your local college maybe, and probably also your local arts society/council, but there might also be other opportunities in the gay communities near you...

When I first started hiring about a dozen years ago, I rarely went back for seconds. Not for any particular reason, just because I found the variety exciting. Coming out of the pandemic, I did lock into one regular guy who was and is great and we began to become friends in a way. Our "relationship" went to a different place (seeing movies together "off the clock," checking in when life got complicated, etcetera) but I soon recognized that we would likely never really be able to be in each other's "real lives" without it getting complicated, so I scaled back on meetings with him. Boundaries are important in this hobby and it seemed necessary to recalibrate. More recently, I've not had great luck when "sampling the offerings" so have been more inclined to rehires. Mostly to get past the getting acquainted phase so that we're both able to relax into the encounter. One gent I've been seeing somewhat regularly lately isn't the most dynamic but he's gorgeous, kind, easy to be with, the pieces make for a great fit, and our time together has been reliably gratifying. Which I consider a definite win and a clear reason to book him again. But I think he's one of only three gents I've booked 3+ times.

Set up appointments with promising & well-reviewed gents in Las Vegas, Providence, and Atlanta -- only to get ghosted on the day. Every. Single. Time. So tedious.

Yep. Smart, kind, engaged, great booty...

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It's the "Long Beard" trend that I'm hoping will pass/fade soon...

Chase is legit. Hot, smart, understands the gig... Also very organized/straightforward in his communication. And if you're in the Philly area, @ajvanguard, you might consider checking him out in person at his Unleaxxxhed party this Friday.

I'm surprised at how infrequently I hired in 2025. Locally, just two return bookings with a very reliable gent. While traveling, every booking I arranged flamed out -- twice I got ghosted, twice the communication went awry in weird ways. Luckily, I had some good times at AdonisNYC and PhillyUnleaxxxhed, so the year wasn't a complete wash. Here's to a more gratifying 2026...

I recently discovered I was blocked by a RM advertiser that I had no recollection of seeing before in a region that I only rarely visit.

I was in his general vicinity a few months back but the number I had for him seemed not to reach him. Or at least it didn't get his reply. Here's hoping he checks in to let us know how to reach him.

Next party is December 6... https://x.com/unleaxxxhed RSVP required.

Spent some time with him at the most recent NP. Sweet, attentive, gorgeous, very NY/NJ Italian in look, fun, friendly. He's not huge (probably 5'9" or so) with a startlingly narrow waist. But he is completely cut... incredible definition, proportionate bulk, really stunning.