Letmeworshipit

This seems to have gotten more complicated than I had anticipated. Everybody has their niche and their preferences. I will always be looking for those guys who readily state that they love getting sucked off. For some, it’s their favorite way to share a load. Those, my friends, are my kinda guys.

And in all honesty, that’s exactly what turns me off. I want that niche of provider that almost prefers oral service over anything and really gets off on turning his dick over to a cocksucker to be edged and drained. It really is a disappointment to get with a provider who has to kack himself off the Cum. To me it says that we weren’t a good match in the first place.

A security guard at a urinal put on quite a show for me after realizing I was starring at his huge cock. He stroked to full erection but demurred once I tried to get him into a stall. Another security guard at a downtown hotel I recognized as a guy who used to live in Palm Springs with his wife who I would suck off all the time at a bookstore in Cat City. I didn’t have time to try to get him into a bathroom stall buttI sure wish I had. His cock was one of my favs.

Speaking of houseboys, I’d consider that arrangement for the right guy for a specific period of time. Having a cock-centric, exhibitionist oral top houseboy around with his own room/bath is a really enticing thought.

I still prefer adult theatres over peep booths. Cocksuckers in most GH places are insanely aggressive and competitive and ruin the whole vibe. Give me a theatre with a guy sitting playing with cock waiting for service. No nasty smelly cut out to deal with, just mouth on cock. Every town in North America needs a few of these. Men would be so much happier.

I call it my passion, but my ex tells me that it's a fetish...and one he loved, btw. I'm a cocksucker, yes. But it goes beyond that as I love the bulge, briefs, gear and anything that accentuates and showcases the cock. When I get into the zone with a true feeder, I go into an out of body state of bliss...I even start to moan sometimes I'm so full of joy and bliss and warmth. When I was in my 20's I attended sessions at the old Church of Cock in S.F. and attended meetings of the same in Chicago and Toronto. I also regularly hired a guy named Eric in L.A. who totally understood my hunger and passion and was the perfect trophy cock for sessions. I've long stopped feeling guilty about it, even when guys have said I must be an anal bottom since I love cock so much. Not true. I'm a very, very happy oral-only guy and love meeting guys who "get it" and enjoy receiving. I host here in AZ and travel anywhere.

I agree. Nor should anyone have that expectation. Some get into the role though of being a cum machine and having a cocksucker see how many loads they can get out of them. That's a hot fantasy but not an expectation of prerequisite. Everybody, client or provider, have their niche or special interest. And since we're all human, they're all different and unique. I just wished it was easier to match the people who share those "niche" passions.

I agree. Nor should anyone have that expectation. Some get into the role though of being a cum machine and having a cocksucker see how many loads they can get out of them. That's a hot fantasy but not an expectation of prerequisite. Everybody, client or provider, have their niche or special interest. And since we're all human, they're all different and unique. I just wished it was easier to match the people who share those "niche" passions.

Everybody has their comfort zone for sexual activity, regardless of background. I have dear friends who would never go to an adult GH place or theatre. I get it. But I bet I have a lot more sex than they do spending hours on Grindr, Scruff et al.

I agree. Nor should anyone have that expectation. Some get into the role though of being a cum machine and having a cocksucker see how many loads they can get out of them. That's a hot fantasy but not an expectation of prerequisite. Everybody, client or provider, have their niche or special interest. And since we're all human, they're all different and unique. I just wished it was easier to match the people who share those "niche" passions.

Oh, you bet. In fact they keep expanding and upgrading. There are several nude sex resorts in the area, with two of the biggest being CCBC in Cathedral City and All World's in Palm Springs. Also, a couple of sexy bars with patios and a couple of active peep AVS.

I lived there. Know it well. Still prefer the desert, but the boys are about the hottest anywhere. Dumb, but hot...?

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Here’s the deal. My fetish/passion is oral cock worship. I look for providers that love that scene and really get off on making their dick the center of attention and getting serviced to completion. I get real tired of providers who advertise as tops telling me they love getting sucked off only to get there and be told that they can’t cum from head and prefer to fuck. When I find those true oral top feeders it’s a great time for all, so why can’t providers find a way to let prospective clients know that a preference? There are a lot of guys like me out here.

You are correct in your assumption. An oral top is definitely the feeder, the one standing or sitting allowing the oral bottom/cocksucker to attend tho their cock, teasing it, edging it, sucking it and eventually, draining it.

I lived near Palm Springs for years an loved having so many opportunities to ply my trade and practice my skills. The adult resorts can be great fun. They need a couple of adult theatres those to complete the offerings. Who has the best adult theatres in North America?

Yea, coke and is the worst. Haven’t done for years. It was fun the first couple of times and then was awful. Never again. I still do poppers sparingly and think they’re OK if used in that way. As a cocksucker only, I’ll sometimes take an ED med just to get rock hard and sometimes after I’ve sucked off a couple guys I’ll find a hungry cocksucker to finish me off. My feeders (oral tops) will take one if I give it to them but most don’t need it as they get very turned on by a session with a true cock worshiper.

Also, just pondered on the psychology of everything for a moment: to cum from receiving oral requires to give control over to the other person. Not necessarily a 'top' thing to do so there might be a psychological block, if only subconsciously, in the instances where you are looking for an oral top and they end up needing intercourse or jerk themselves.(instances where they are in control).
That explains my instance of wanting to stroke myself, even for a brief moment, as my preference in my personal sex life is to go back and forth with control. Your mouth can always gravitate to those balls in the moments it's not stuffed with cock!?
Happy hunting!

I have a couple of guys I can’t wait to drain who seem to be total matches for my niche. I will wait until restrictions are loosened, though, as I think we’ll both feel more comfortable and relaxed when we meet. I love to chill a bit first, too, so want the scene to be conducive to a fun session for all.

My kinda thread. I love those guys who just love/live for their next blow job. Those guys who started getting head in their teens and got addicted to shooting their load down a cocksuckers throat.

From my experience, it’s more like 75%. I am a cocksucker so sex to me is getting teased with his bulge and cock and then able to fully drain him toward the end. My favs are those guys who figure me out and know they’ll have a repeat customer if everyone gets what they want. I love a legit massage with teasing. I had a guy in San Diego for 2-3 years. He got me right away. Great legit massage, teased me mercilessly during it, then told me to get off the table and on my knees. He’d take a hit of poppers, stick it under my nose and I’d drain him swallowing every drop. Perfect session that got better each time. Love those guys.

I've had similar experiences, including in legit spas. I'm fairly open in my flirting and most guys picked up on it after a session or two. If they were open to play, things happened, if not, no worries. I'm one of those guys who believes a great massage should end with a happy ending for one or both of us, preferably more than just a hand job.

Of course. I have not had sex during this shutdown but not adverse to it completely. I mean, I guess it's conceivable that I could service someone in a controlled environment and maintain a semblance of safety. But, as I said, I have not indulged and don't plan to until things open up again.

From my experience, it’s more like 75%. I am a cocksucker so sex to me is getting teased with his bulge and cock and then able to fully drain him toward the end. My favs are those guys who figure me out and know they’ll have a repeat customer if everyone gets what they want. I love a legit massage with teasing. I had a guy in San Diego for 2-3 years. He got me right away. Great legit massage, teased me mercilessly during it, then told me to get off the table and on my knees. He’d take a hit of poppers, stick it under my nose and I’d drain him swallowing every drop. Perfect session that got better each time. Love those guys.

From my experience, it’s more like 75%. I am a cocksucker so sex to me is getting teased with his bulge and cock and then able to fully drain him toward the end. My favs are those guys who figure me out and know they’ll have a repeat customer if everyone gets what they want. I love a legit massage with teasing. I had a guy in San Diego for 2-3 years. He got me right away. Great legit massage, teased me mercilessly during it, then told me to get off the table and on my knees. He’d take a hit of poppers, stick it under my nose and I’d drain him swallowing every drop. Perfect session that got better each time. Love those guys.