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Now this is interesting. When I think of Tai Chi, I think of Asian fitness moves. Do suppose the gentleman and "Tai Chi moves" can yield inner peace ... haha

I had a client who booked me stressing that he was "straight, but just curious". We visited about his lack of "background" with anything gay and that I would need to "take it easy and be a teacher". I can tell you he was anything but naive. I realized immediately, it was about trying to create something that wasn't reality. The booking went well, but that his "straight, teach me" illusion was just that. Now obviously this isn't a case of "hiring a straight provider" (I wouldn't be doing that as a provider), so this is about as close as it gets for me.

I would certainly be open to providing a "tickling session". Would need to be clear what the client expected and satisfy the need, so to speak.

Really appreciate the input. Productive, positive and encouraging an evaluation of both sides of the issue. Your comment here was definitely one of the best. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

I think the most difficult part is being blackmailed. I would seek legal advice from an attorney prior to doing anything. Advice from counsel would be prudent to examine all aspects of this unfortunate situation. Counsel may advise a different path and if going to the police is chosen, the attorney may suggest an approach with the cops. I do agree that a conversation with the police is a bit of a sticky situation. Regarding the latter comment above, I wouldn't ever talk to my office about this situation.

Well let me say, I don't do well with negative drama and certainly someone who is threatening me. I would probably be the first to let the dude know that I'm not subject to extortion or threats for money. But I'm not you or don't know your situation. I do think this kind of experience should be discussed. There are always two sides to a disagreement, but providing facts, like a written conversation) is helpful in proving your point. I'd certainly go to the police before I'd ever "cave" to any sort of blackmail. I just think it is unfortunate that these kinds of experiences happen.

Beautiful cats. Thanks for sharing!

Interesting background. I certainly wasn't expecting that sort of ending. My thought is, use the experience to help guide your future. There isn't anything you can do for Harry,........ Except learn from what happened. Don't ever forget how this experience has changed you and use it to perhaps help others.... and you.

She's a beautiful cat. Thanks for sharing, Mikebidude