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Do you tip your lawyer (on top of their hourly rate)? Doctor? vet? Therapist? 

Move on. There are literally lotsa fishes in the sea....if you cant afford it, you probably shouldnt force it. No point putting yourself in a financial risks for this. 

Do you tip your lawyer (on top of their hourly rate)? Doctor? vet? Therapist? 

Do you tip your lawyer (on top of their hourly rate)? Doctor? vet? Therapist? 

Pretty sure majority of clients have had these sort of experiences. Me self have lost count where providers simply failed to get their tool to stand to attention. Cost of doing business.
Echoing others, them most stunning providers not always the best suited option. 

Move on. There are literally lotsa fishes in the sea....if you cant afford it, you probably shouldnt force it. No point putting yourself in a financial risks for this. 

Well, one would certainly hope so and may even assume so. But in my experience, VERY VERY FEW actually do. After developing a certain esteem for a long-term on-going provider, often I came to realize that I was just a provider myself of easy income in trade for company and a body that they easily gave in exchange out of an often temporary need to do so. Nothing more. A little gratitude and a small amount of affection or even just a friendly esteem would have been nice. And I am sure it happens, just rarely to me.
Now I hire for the allotted time and experience, and they get just their fee, nothing more nothing less, and we all are happy. No more gifts when coming into town, shopping sprees when they have mentioned certain "needs", done are remembering birthdays and gifts for the occasion and so on... It's not worth it. One can't buy esteem or friendship. They are actors acting a part they were hired for, and have a life of their own which should be no concern of the clients nor ours to them. It's a business transaction hopefully done in a pleasant manner for us both. It should be a red flag to ourselves if we expect or hope anything more. 

Ever wonder if some of us are in serious “relationships” with the same provider? I wouldn’t doubt it.

In so far re resonding to any and all advances on grindr or IG.....I reckon there would be a quite opposite view between the average looking joes and the hotties. Imagine sending say 10ish texts and got ignored 80%/90% of the time on daily basis. Must be disheartening, what a blow to self esteem. Now imagine for a sec being on the other end, receiving wayyy more than 10ish texts and be expected to respond to every single one on daily basis. That must be tiring and well annoying. 
I knw a mate (who is an absolute sex magnate) who got crazy amount of texts on grindr daily. And more so on IG. Understanably he would only respond to guys he attracted to. Is he rude? Certainly priviledge but wouldnt call him rude.

Was stalked.....no harm me safe just surprised and (frankly) hilarious lol

In so far re resonding to any and all advances on grindr or IG.....I reckon there would be a quite opposite view between the average looking joes and the hotties. Imagine sending say 10ish texts and got ignored 80%/90% of the time on daily basis. Must be disheartening, what a blow to self esteem. Now imagine for a sec being on the other end, receiving wayyy more than 10ish texts and be expected to respond to every single one on daily basis. That must be tiring and well annoying. 
I knw a mate (who is an absolute sex magnate) who got crazy amount of texts on grindr daily. And more so on IG. Understanably he would only respond to guys he attracted to. Is he rude? Certainly priviledge but wouldnt call him rude.

In so far re resonding to any and all advances on grindr or IG.....I reckon there would be a quite opposite view between the average looking joes and the hotties. Imagine sending say 10ish texts and got ignored 80%/90% of the time on daily basis. Must be disheartening, what a blow to self esteem. Now imagine for a sec being on the other end, receiving wayyy more than 10ish texts and be expected to respond to every single one on daily basis. That must be tiring and well annoying. 
I knw a mate (who is an absolute sex magnate) who got crazy amount of texts on grindr daily. And more so on IG. Understanably he would only respond to guys he attracted to. Is he rude? Certainly priviledge but wouldnt call him rude.

Some providers market through grindr (in addition to RM) thus see ppl reaching out to them on grindr as potential customer and would expectedly direct them to his RM. That said, some others use grindr for non-business reasons, they be looking for potential free hook-up and not potential customer. In such case cant really fault them for not responding. I bet most of us regular folks often ignore advances on grindr for whatsoever reasons - so why should pretty ppl be held on higher standard? 
IMO, for a client to enjoy this hobby long term, one should readily upfront accept and acknowledge that none provider will happily spend their time and effort on you if not for $$$. Key is not how they feel towards you but how good is their acting/ performance on the clock. Everytime a provider compliment my looks, I know for sure thats a lie. This is not me looking down on my self but me knowing and accepting the nature of the relationship. Make life easier on my end as a client.

Some providers market through grindr (in addition to RM) thus see ppl reaching out to them on grindr as potential customer and would expectedly direct them to his RM. That said, some others use grindr for non-business reasons, they be looking for potential free hook-up and not potential customer. In such case cant really fault them for not responding. I bet most of us regular folks often ignore advances on grindr for whatsoever reasons - so why should pretty ppl be held on higher standard? 
IMO, for a client to enjoy this hobby long term, one should readily upfront accept and acknowledge that none provider will happily spend their time and effort on you if not for $$$. Key is not how they feel towards you but how good is their acting/ performance on the clock. Everytime a provider compliment my looks, I know for sure thats a lie. This is not me looking down on my self but me knowing and accepting the nature of the relationship. Make life easier on my end as a client.

Some providers market through grindr (in addition to RM) thus see ppl reaching out to them on grindr as potential customer and would expectedly direct them to his RM. That said, some others use grindr for non-business reasons, they be looking for potential free hook-up and not potential customer. In such case cant really fault them for not responding. I bet most of us regular folks often ignore advances on grindr for whatsoever reasons - so why should pretty ppl be held on higher standard? 
IMO, for a client to enjoy this hobby long term, one should readily upfront accept and acknowledge that none provider will happily spend their time and effort on you if not for $$$. Key is not how they feel towards you but how good is their acting/ performance on the clock. Everytime a provider compliment my looks, I know for sure thats a lie. This is not me looking down on my self but me knowing and accepting the nature of the relationship. Make life easier on my end as a client.

Some providers market through grindr (in addition to RM) thus see ppl reaching out to them on grindr as potential customer and would expectedly direct them to his RM. That said, some others use grindr for non-business reasons, they be looking for potential free hook-up and not potential customer. In such case cant really fault them for not responding. I bet most of us regular folks often ignore advances on grindr for whatsoever reasons - so why should pretty ppl be held on higher standard? 
IMO, for a client to enjoy this hobby long term, one should readily upfront accept and acknowledge that none provider will happily spend their time and effort on you if not for $$$. Key is not how they feel towards you but how good is their acting/ performance on the clock. Everytime a provider compliment my looks, I know for sure thats a lie. This is not me looking down on my self but me knowing and accepting the nature of the relationship. Make life easier on my end as a client.

Some providers market through grindr (in addition to RM) thus see ppl reaching out to them on grindr as potential customer and would expectedly direct them to his RM. That said, some others use grindr for non-business reasons, they be looking for potential free hook-up and not potential customer. In such case cant really fault them for not responding. I bet most of us regular folks often ignore advances on grindr for whatsoever reasons - so why should pretty ppl be held on higher standard? 
IMO, for a client to enjoy this hobby long term, one should readily upfront accept and acknowledge that none provider will happily spend their time and effort on you if not for $$$. Key is not how they feel towards you but how good is their acting/ performance on the clock. Everytime a provider compliment my looks, I know for sure thats a lie. This is not me looking down on my self but me knowing and accepting the nature of the relationship. Make life easier on my end as a client.

Oh honey. No one is obligated to be polite to anyone else’s unsolicited messages on a dating app. I frequently get “most woofed” on Scruff and can get 50+ messages a day, not to mention “woofs” and album unlocks from boys “shooting their shot.” I do not have the time or interest in writing 50 polite messages to keep someone’s fragile ego intact. 
 
Likewise, I send messages to men who I wish would respond to me. When they don’t (which is not at all uncommon) I shrug it off. I am not entitled to anyone’s time, and I don’t need the validation. 
 
Reaching out to a provider on a dating app is really just fantasizing that the provider would really be interested in you if only you weren’t also a paying customer. That is delusional behavior. 
 

Put yourself in the shoes of a client. You should have answer of what to do. 

Echoing this.
I have this one provider who I used to see regularly, overnights, weekends, trips. We text daily, purely professional at the start then slowly becoming more casual and personal. Communication always gets intense pre and (for days, a week or so top) post the first couple of trips. I called it customer service period. 
There was this period where I was seeing him intensely, went on several trips (ranging from 3/5 days each) in a short 2 months. I was honestly on the brink of catching feeling (or maybe I was if i am being honest).
Then he pulls away, slowly but noticeably. We never talk about it. Communication just stop. I stop seeing him for months till recently but no intense communication pre or post this time. He reaches out, we set up a meet. It was a great one, no awkwardness. 
Nowadays, we would trade check-in texts every couple weeks, nothing intense.
I would say prior to the hiatus he would text like a flirt, nowadays more like a mate. 

Unless absolutely necessary, I won't randomly text my regulars (not even the one who I have been on trips with or had met free of charge several times for meals). When it comes to paid time, client controls the dynamic but if otherwise its the provider. All my free of charge meets have been proposed by the provider, its their free time afterall. 
On the other note, he did such a pro job that you geniunely enjoy your time together, so much you believe he would do it again (though in a much smaller scale, say for coffee) for free. If he really keen, he would ask you.
I once invite my regular to dinner prior to scheduled session (which would be non paid hour), he politely declined and offer to buy me dessert after play (within paid hours). Couple days forward, he invite me to a brunch free of charge (I paid for meals, he paid for dessert). All in all, very subtle but message is crystal clear.

90% providers I met charge 450 - 600/ hour....I never haggle on their pricing and that said I dont generally tip. 100% of their earnings are for their own account, safe to assume that they dont pay cut to anyone else. None of my clients ever tip me for my counsel lol
Though I would tip if provider go above and beyond providing services outside of agreed/ expected scope....I once tip 1k for a 4days trip.

Highly recc!

Thanks....was asking solely bcs no provider ever quoted me 1k+ for a 24ho hire. Lowest was north of 3,5k. 

Thanks....was asking solely bcs no provider ever quoted me 1k+ for a 24ho hire. Lowest was north of 3,5k.