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Totally.
When I was very young, I was attracted to some of the boys, but I didn't see myself fitting in with the gays...so it was traumatizing for a bit when I was 12 to 13 years old, when I had little knowledge of how this all works, and worried that I was on my way to becoming a homosexual. Something that was often described as a pathway to loneliness. 
I have long been a proponent of the "you-do-you" attitude when it comes to human sexuality.
When I was in High School...I was considered straight, when I was in college I was considered bi, after college I spend a few years exploring and people considered me gay, then back to bi, when I married my wife, and now most people think I'm straight because I'm married with kids, and lead a more discreet sex life.
In the end..throughout all these labels, I haven't really changed. I am still ME !

My ultimate fantasy guy Rex Chandler. Big blond beautiful and HUNG!

I live in nyc, Rafael goes to a gym in Hells Kitchen where the vast majority of members are gay. Everybody, that has watched gay porn at one point has an idea of who he is. 
If you guys want me to make a situation weird it’ll be weird, trust me. 
Escorts and public figures are social people, and 99% of people respect public individuals when they see them. Me included. 
Do I consider Rafael to be a celebrity as other mentioned? Not really as mainstream people have NO clue who he is. When he goes to a gym located in a gay area he knows exactly what he is doing. More so when he goes to a gym that cost $10 a month. 
If he had had bad experiences with people recognizing him or coming up to him trust me he would have switched to a more exclusive gym than Planet Fitness. 
Ask yourself why when you meet a great escort you have an amazing time. It’s because they love to interact and meet people. Rafael is very down to earth, he will smile to you when he sees you at the gym. This is why I gave that piece of information to the OP, even if I know that the chance that the OP will actually go to PF to talk to Rafael is close to 0. 
Let’s be realistic here. 
Did I post his home address? No, is it well known where Rafael works out? in NYC, if you are part in some ways of the gay scene, yes, and no one cares. 
Rafael goes to gay bars to have fun too, as many other escorts, does he get harrased? No, because 99% of people are respectful and chill. 
If you go to LA you can take a bus tour on where celebrities live, now that’s in my opinion an invasion of privacy.

Some of us here have reported Chronically late providers without naming names. why? How will they learn if their only negative reinforcement is the loss of one gig or even a client. Should  inconsiderate, unprofessional behavior be tacitly accepted by protecting the perps who are stealing the most precious resource of all. ...time?
If it's a real repeated problem  call him out.
 

Every election year, there's an increase of purported antisemitic attacks leading up to election day. 
Doesn't mean you should stop embracing your cultural background and live in fear.

aka JoelSummer, JoseBaldo
His ad is expired but his cell # still comes up 

I had sex almost exclusively with women up until age 50. (Blow job in car from a guy  who paid me to let him do me and a frot session with a friend in college when we were drunk. are the exceptions.). After my wife died, I found dating women and the expectations of a relationship was too emotionally taxing. I wanted sex, but was not ready for a relationship. So I tried female escorts.  They were expensive, and not very convincing or satisfying as lovers. Accommodation rather than passion.    So rather than just be celibate or have to work on a relationship, I went through a gay escort site.  Initially I was hesitant so I went through a site in which there were about 400 thumbnail photos. Only three men held interest for me.  Two of those were near enough to my location to try.  So, as an experiment, I arranged to hire one.  Turns out, getting blown by a man was just as rewarding as getting blown by a woman and there was no fuss, just muss.  Over the almost 20 years I have been hiring men, I have expanded my activities.  I occasionally have sex with women. Usually as a result of being set up by friends.  At this point, I do not label myself, rather, I just enjoy sex with people with whom I want to have sex and who are willing to have sex with me.   If anyone asks, which they have not, I would tell them I have sex when I can, with whom I can and then ask why they want to know.  

I visited Montreal for a few nights over the Labor Day weekend and went to both Stock and Campus. The last time I was in Montreal was 2019, and Stockbar had the best guys. But after last weekend it's easy to say that Campus has the far better experience. Went to Stock for a few hours on Wednesday and Friday, and the experience didn't compare to the way it was in 2019. Campus Thursday through Saturday was packed with a raucous crowd. I went to Campus after 10:00 on Thursday, after midnight on Friday and 9:30 on Saturday.
You're definitely spoiled for choice at Campus. There are 10+ dancers every night in a range of sizes, colors, ages and either with many tattoos or none at all. The following are just some of the dancers I found memorable, the days they performed, and a brief description.
Gabriel:  Friday and Saturday
Absolutely gorgeous guy. Very tall with dark blond hair and a short beard / stubble. He looks like he just walked out of one of those really sexy cologne commercials and right into Campus. He reminds me of that Australian doctor on the show House. Just a real head turner. In addition to all that, his dance to the song Call Out My Name was smoking hot. Definitely safe to say he was one of the headliners on Friday and Saturday.
Malik:  Saturday
I'm assuming people know who he is, but it was fun to see a porn star in real life.
Brandon:  Thursday - Saturday
One of my favorites. Handsome with a nicely muscular body, great ass and perfect dick. His body is amazingly symmetrical, even when he's hard his dick points straight up. His dances were slow and sensual, and he just knew how to work the crowd when he performed. Seemed to be a crowd favorite.
Valentino:  Thursday - Saturday
Young Asian dancer with a gymnast's build, so he's compact with a strong back, muscular arms and tight little ass. And there's something about his face that's so appealing to me, he's so handsome with bright, large eyes and an easy friendly smile.
Zayne:  Thursday - Saturday
Blond college aged guy, another dancer with a gymnast's build. Really muscular arms. He danced to the song You're the One That I Want. And it was just so fun because it's an energetic, uptempto song and the crowd really gets into it and so does he.
Clark:  Thursday - Saturday
Muscular, colleged aged guy with a crewcut who wears 70's style wire rimmed glasses. For me his stage dances were some of the best of the night, especially the slow reveal of his XL dick.
Kai:  Thursday - Saturday
At Stock Bar he danced as Jordan, and he's gorgeous in those Stockbar videos, and he's still very hot. He has a lot of tattoos including a big one across his upper back. I'm not generally into that, but he is the exception to that rule. He's got dark hair, sexy bedroom eyes, tight muscular body and nice dick.
Derek: Thursday
He reminded me of a dancer at Stockbar named Connor just with more muscle and a beard. He's a sexy blond guy with a pretty long dick.
Matthew: Thursday and Friday
He was always wearing a backwards baseball cap. Definitely more on the heavily muscled, beefy, body builder side and he has an enormous dick. After his dances he wouldn't always put clothes back on, so he'd be out on the floor with his dick swinging around and his big ass sticking out. Later he'd put on these white briefs that didn't do much to contain him.
So that's my short notables list from a long holiday weekend in Montreal. I'm glad I finally got a chance to go back after so many years and to have such a great time. Though it was kind of sad to see the current state of Stockbar, I'm glad that Campus has been able to pick up the torch.

By every measure, this should be like shooting fish in a barrel, but coming up totally short. It's getting down to the wire and can't find anyone really, so here we are. 
Backstory: My buddy and I are looking for a non-traditional escort for next weekend in NYC. We're both mostly straight (that's always debatable but just go with it for a moment), both married and both have a family, and we both LOVE to get sucked off. We're pretty dominant and have a rare chance to grab a room in the city and spend two nights this coming weekend. I've known him for a while and we never get to do this. 
Problem is the type of guy that legit turns our crank is a mid-30's to mid-50's dad type, some grey hair, 220-260 lbs, clean cut, with a great belly, and totally submissive. I mean someone who can just get on their knees and suck both our dicks for over an hour. That's how submissive. 
I know they're out there because I can easily pick up someone like that on the sidewalk at random, but that's a game and I need to schedule something in a short window. Every person I see on the apps and escort sites is pretty jacked and while that's hot, I can't find anyone who seems to fit the profile. Shit, maybe there's a huge market here that is underdeveloped that I can figure out how to monitize one day. But for now, 
Hope this makes sense. If we can't find anything, we'll probably just head out to a few bars next weekend and take our chances. It's an option, but ordering in is preferred.  
Any suggestions? Totally serious here and not just trying to tell a good story. 

Good morning. Today we remember a man who paved the way for civil rights.

He has been asked about on the forum many times over the years. Only two forum members seems to have met him... @ccadkm16 (who doesn't appear to be active on the forum any longer) and @dcguy20 
Tyson's old expired profile has a face pic.
https://rent.men/TysonSteele

Happy Christmas Eve 

Had 2 separate sessions booked for today.
The 1st guy, we touched on the donation yesterday. Said he only takes donations upfront. I offered to meet a middle ground (half to start, rest at the end). This morning he messages me to confirm a time and I wanted to clarify the donation subject. He said no and ghosted. 
The 2nd guy said he takes donations upfront to get things out the way. I mentioned I typically forward the donation after the session. I respectfully tell him thanks for everything, I appreciate him replying to my inquiries and I'm sorry for everything. I go on RM and see that he blocked me lol. 
It's like walking on glass a lot of times...
 
 

@MrMattBig Thanks to your advice, I posted this on LPSG and got a response.
George the Coach is actually model "Glenn Brown" from Playgirl and also went by "Tom Harnett" from Colt magazine:



Call me crazy but his younger look doesn't do it for me.  I like his current look now:

However, I am grateful I got more information, but I checked and apparently this was a while ago.  He posed as Glenn Brown for Playgirl in 1991 and for Colt magazine and video in 1995.  Still, he looks extremely well and I'd date him in a heartbeat.
But I'm curious, anyone else remember his pictures in Colt or Playgirl?

One of the best that I could not get enough of was Trevor917.  His ad didn't show any face pics, and I had run into enough issues with that, I swore to never meet again if they didn't have a face pic. Many years ago, someone had mentioned on a forum, not sure if it was on here or not, that he was on the cover of one of those workout magazines. When I saw him on there, I looked him up and arranged to meet up with him as soon as I could. Not only was he hot and handsome, was one of the nicest guys. There seem to be hardly any pictures of him or at least I cannot seem to find any online. This is one of the few pics that I did find of him. 

https://obituaries.clintonherald.com/obituary/michael-jensen-1081916185

https://obituaries.clintonherald.com/obituary/michael-jensen-1081916185

If he wants extra $ for cumming, it’s a hard pass for me. I had an escort text me as I was heading up to his hotel room, “By the way, it’s $100 extra for me to cum.” This was after he agreed to cum when we were setting up the session and after we agreed on a price. This kind of last-minute upcharge was a deal-breaker. I texted back that I was going to the ATM to get more money. I never returned. i enjoyed leaving the upcharging bastard hanging.

I'm guessing this has been discussed before. I sent a note to a guy on RM indicating that I was coming to town, liked his profile, and wanted to see if he was into the scene I was looking for. Without any other info or response to my message he simply replied "Do you have clear photos of yourself".
 
Now I have problem eventually providing a photo before I meet up with someone. But that this is his initial response completely put me off. I am hiring him, not the other way around. That is the end of it as far as I am concerned.

The world lost a wonderful man and a kind soul. Folks may remember him from his days at The Gaiety - I remember him as a friend.http://magounbiggins.tributes.com/obituary/show/Scott-M.-Donnelly-108508002

He was a wonderful man. Mesmerizing. So much charisma. I remember him, in more ways than one, from the Gaiety days.
 
May you rest in peace, Scott.
 
I will always remember you.

The world lost a wonderful man and a kind soul. Folks may remember him from his days at The Gaiety - I remember him as a friend.http://magounbiggins.tributes.com/obituary/show/Scott-M.-Donnelly-108508002

Steve hopper is always the dream