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@MikeyGMin
 
Hmmm, never thought I was playing out a fetish. I'll ponder that.
 
I've been seeing a 99.9% straight guy, no longer advertising, over a year now. Always for weekends, from the start. In his city or traveling together.
 
He could be considered a fitness model and was discussed by many on this Forum.
 
He doesn't fuck (me) which is okay. I've never enjoyed getting fucked. And his dick is too thick. He doesn't get fucked, that's okay too. I fucked my ex-wife for over 20 years, (worn-out.)
 
In the bedroom, I/he enjoy(s) my oral abilities - both cock and ass. I enjoy the closeness (yes he spoons and tangles with me) during sleep and the occasional cock play with him during the night.
 
During the day and prior to bedtime we explore, dine, drink, see attractions in the cities we visit. We both get looks from guys and gals. He has an intensive day-job, asks for input from me, a seasoned fellow. Enjoy the camaraderie.
 
@Gar1eth My idea of sex may not match yours, it's okay. I will say I'm more than satisfied.

BUT, gents, not saying either of you have done this at all.
 
There have been posts on this Forum where guys who've had a session with a non-pic'd (or similar pic'd) gent. Looked sorta like the ad, but not exactly. REALLY?
 
They've had no issue. Horny for dick, I suppose.
 
If it ain't who I was expecting, face, body, dick-wise, he's a goner.

Hello,
 
I wanted to post this message based off of something that @Benjamin_Nicholas posted in another thread about a friend of his. Unfortunately, I cannot go into too much detail, but I wanted to share this with all of you here as a warning to be careful about who you hire.
 
The first thing you should do is go to your doctor and get vaccinated for all STIs. After you start hiring, get a full panel STI test regularly. It is up to YOU to protect your health. This person I spoke with had to learn the hard way that this industry is full of LIARS. There are tons of escorts who may have some infection, but don't tell you because they don't know themselves, don't want to risk their business being harmed, or are quite frankly to stupid to understand how these matters can impact people's lives.
 
To both clients AND escorts on this forum; if you have an STI, regardless of how big or small you perceive it to be, you need to be upfront with your partner about it before you have sex with them. Your partner has a right to know your status so he can make the decision if he wants to be with you or not. To not be upfront with them right from the beginning is dishonest and to me, it is straight-up lying. You have a right to know your partner's status before you have sex with them and if they do not want to be honest with you, then you should not be with that person in the first place.

Do they inform us, we hirers, that the pics ARE SOMEWHAT what they look like? Or that a knock on my door will be SIMILAR to the ad?

I understand the need for discretion but if they are that concerned about being found out maybe they shouldn't be escorting. Even with the fake pics it is still possible for friends or family to find out.

Tell me, how can you excuse a LIAR??
 
I fucking don't get it. Sorry.

For more up to date photos, his Instagram handle is alfiecinematic . However, having met him in Montreal at Stock Bar a few years ago, he's a class A douchebag. Air of arrogance as if he's all that and a tendency to con you of your $$ if you're not careful. Looking at his Instagram videos and stories, the way he talks and carries himself today is very much so the same as he was in Montreal. For anyone considering him for a private, proceed with caution!

He gave a good lapdance to me back in LA. Super hot body and he knows how to flex. You could touch but just not everywhere. However be prepared to pay for three songs money even if you told him you wanted to have one song. Maybe it was just me but I have to let this out.

Ive known him for years. He definitely has let the attention get to his head. He used to dance a while back at Swinging Richards back in Fort Lauderdale and he used to get pretty hot. However, I saw him a few months back and the lap dance was one of the worse I had. He is a sweet guy but you can tell its all fake.

I appreciate your respectful confrontation. I do believe that I have racist prejudices (I believe we all do) and it is always healthy to be alert and open to feedback, it is hard to see your own prejudices without others' light. Thanks to you and and others I realize and understand the racist bias in my post. I still do not see how you can read that I am saying that black escorts have criminal records, because I am not. But as I explain in post #60, there is a clear racist bias in my post and I regret it. Even if it was not my intention, I apologize if I offended anyone. No excuses, I am sorry.
 
I could edit my post, but I think it is good to document these conversations.
 
Now let me make a comment to you and everyone else who understood I said that all Black escorts, or somebody even said all Blacks have criminal records, when I clearly said something very different. I suggest you take a serious look at your own racist prejudices. Apparently you do not recognize or understand the wide diversity that exists in Black America, when you are blind to my specific reference to a tiny subculture.

With $ 1000 I will go to Europe ! I think 200-300 is reasonable !

Somehow could not find this thread when I searched the forums... I had his number in my phone, ready to text until I read $400/hr. You get 'em stud.

Very well said.

Good on you. There is no hostility...well... except one person feeling the need to demean clients/forum members and a particularly well liked escort.
 
My point is, there is somebody for everyone. There is no need to put someone down because they can't afford to or don't want to pay $500 a pop. Don't put someone down because they want to be fair, affordable or whatever you want to call it when dealing with their clients.
 
Ryan is clearly hot as hell. People who like/love him... great!!! We all have our faves for various reasons.
 
Anyway, I won't say any more. Big man sleepy... go night night. Back to the subject at hand... Ryan

Not for nothin, cause this guy seems hot and all, but for me, the only muscle I really care about is the one between the legs. Sorry, just attempting to take the edge off some of the hostility here.
/shrugs shoulders

I'll take "Petty" for $500 Alex. You do realize paying more doesn't necessarily mean you get better service. Do you have anything constructive to add to this forum post other than demean everyone who isn't in this supposed big spender league gamechanger or seaworld are in?
 
It's all good though. You enjoy Ryan and pay the fee he wants. As I have said, if he can get whatever... more power to him.
 
I don't know Ryan personally, but from client posts and brief interactions (I had years ago) he seems like a good guy. He's not for everyone, just like not everyone is interested in him because of his muscles. I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate you demeaning people (i.e. potential clients) in his honor.

Well when I contacted him, he was non-specific about what exactly he would or wouldn't do. You got a little further than I did. I guess it was because he was new to the game and I was an unknown.
I think he also said a high number for a half hour... not even an hour. So that coupled with the non-committal response was a turn off.
 
I have to give @RexB props for his philosophy he posted elsewhere. Whether I can afford to see a guy or not, not meeting him was probably a blessing in disguise. Again Ryan, seems like a nice guy. He does, what he does, and makes that money. More power to him. However, I much rather see someone... that if we do muscle worship, I want the option to do more and get some reciprocation. I don't know if I could ever get that with him.

Yes Brian Maxon. What a stud..I have never seen anyone since then that has his height, build, face , cock, ass and personality...well maybe big wave rider Laird Hamilton :-)

Would it actually be "Brian Maxon" that you mean?
Now he was a hottie so I wish that it had worked out for you!

It happened again last night here in Austin. At 7:00 p.m. I get a "Hi" from a Grinder subscriber who purports to be 25. My profile reads that I am 54, so I am intrigued but not fooled. I ask have you read my profile. He responds with something suggesting that he has. I send him a recent photo, still he remains. He sends me a photo, and sure enough, its the photo of a 25 year old. I ask provocative questions, he responds with short answers but no questions of his own. I get blatant about what I like in the sack. Still he remains. He asks if he may come over. Duh. He may. Then...the shoe drops. We talked about the scope and scale of my "generosity". Then he came over, and he was 25-ish and did what we discussed, and it was terrific.

Put "sugar daddy" on your photo and you'll get lots of responses - some interesting some not. Hooked with slightly thuggish white dude with wife and baby. Now he wants to hook me up with his brother, also wife and baby. Not everyone's taste but ok for me.

Brian Maxon. Man I would fly to LA every couple of months for a year just to have him top me. Big muscles and big cock. Would be patient with me because I was new to sex with anyone but he would not let me up until he was inside me for at least a few moments (and then I could not take it much longer). Great guy. I miss him.
Scott Ransome. Had a couple of really hot sessions with him. He did not top but I got the feeling that he might if I offered more money. I was too new to the scene so was not sure how to approach him. Had my first of 2 duos with Scott and Steve Sterling. The session was originally with just Scott but Scott left Steve outside in the cold and I felt bad so I invited him up. It was strictly an oral session but as I was new to having duos, it was hard to decide which one to service. They both released and that was good enough for me.
Jon Vincent. Only 1 meeting. Nice guy. Frot and oral for him. Was shocked at his passing.
Chance Caldwell. 1 meeting. Nice and he tried to top me but again I was new to this and could not take it.
Aiden Shaw. It was forgettable.
Marco Rossi. Another forgettable one.
Steve Hopper. Nice guy. Talker. Tried several times to top me but it just didn't happen (a bit to blame for both of us). Nice cock but I think he was a bit delusional about the size of his cock. Above average but no where near the size of say Brian Maxon.
Bo Summers. Nice but forgettable.
Bo Dean. Nice session. Only oral for him. He would have topped me but he wanted more money and at the time I thought it was a lot and he seemed like he was on something. Sexy guy even with the tats.
 
Rex Chandler. I wish I could have added him to the list but man I was too naive and scared to make the trip to LA to see him. We talked over the phone a couple of times.
 
Most of this took place in the mid to late 90's and a NYC transplant from NC was just discovering sex.

MANY have be scammed once only to open their door after answering one his his fake ads to find him standing there again. He way out WEIGHS me but fortunately a low IQ and decades of pot work against him. I was in corporate furnished housing in LA and when he took his first steps in I told him this was just the "meeting" apt for safety MY apt was above and I grabbed keys and turned him around pretending to follow him back out then slammed the door on him. (even in the 3 0r 4 steps out he was asking for his "donation to his "bodybuilding" fund" lol. ) He stayed out in the hall a long time complaining until I threatened to call the sequirity guard.
He scammed me once where I DID feel threatened (he had nun-chucks) and blocked my exit from his filthy Burbank apt until I paid him, and now he wasted another night. *I got VERY even later sending him on a wild goose chase to an empty lot in Malibu, the story is on a thread here somewhere

DaddyCub, those were the days of The Classifieds and Frontiers. Rex Chandler definitely advertised in the Classifieds. For a years I went kind of crazy trying to explore my sexuality. Had been in the closet too long. Yes it was the British straight porn actor Steve Hooper. I still can't believe that I was so lucky with Scott Ransome. Once he even brought along some weed and just relaxed. Weed does nothing for me but he relaxed and fed me his cock. I have also been very unlucky to hire Scott Sloan twice. I can't believe I was so stupid but I think he was using different ads. Oh well. Live and learn.

I have posted VOLUMES on S Sloan here on the boards you are not alone in the - fallen for his ads twice - dept. MANY have. Thankfully either arthritis due to advanced age or a permanent Pot Stupor seems to have made him and his fake identites (until he showed up lol) finally disappear.