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The anger we feel when providers request a deposit should be directed towards irresponsible clients who book appointments without any intention of showing up. Before the advent of burner phone apps, clients were more concerned about their reputation.

I understand that, but I have a great reputation on this website and my reviews. i’ve been scammed as well and every time I’ve been scammed with pay a $50 deposit or $100 deposit they had zero reviews.
well, while I’m typing this my 6:30 PM is now 40 minutes late with no response.. he booked a two hour appointment took up the busiest time of the night.. 

Just throwing a post out there in advance, before the 'speculative' types would weigh in that something has taken me offline. 
NOT leaving escorting, or anything of the sorts...but took down the RM profile for a few, dealing with an absurd life situation IRL(In real life). 
As many of you know, I had gone back to working with the Army on a part time base, assisting recruiting command at Airshows, commemorative events, etc. Alllllll parachute based, required your own equipment and expertise. Made a name for myself spinning up live action events, especially ones geared towards a very specific group of paratroopers- the Triple Nickles, a solely African American group during WWII that's been all but forgotten. 
While on the road ramping up an event for them- my truck was broken into and virtually all of my equipment stolen- just under 20k in value. Insurance is fucking me around to the n-th degree on it, and this as literally become like a full time job. 
Disgusted with humanity...have kind of just withdrawn a bit...and think I needed some time to juice hard, come back with a clear mind and attitude....and 'take the objective', as they say.
Will surface back on the net shortly, love you all!
 

Unfortunately I don't make enough money to be a Sugar Daddy. Would you settle for a Papa Stevia?

I’ve been helping a guy like this the past year.   He basically couch surfs.  I got him hooked up with some social services, some dental work, he’s currently sober.   Not a project I would take on again…

agreed - to the point where i do not even bother watching them.... even on chaturbate, just do not interest me at all

I find these face masked porn pieces to be a huge turn off and appallingly retrograde. 

I am exactly working in peace operations and refugee support in Kiev. Risking my life yes, but not all heroes wear capes!  I've been sexless for months!

I would never meet a guy without a face pic on the main profile.  I want to hang with guys comfortable with their actions/profession.  Just my take, especially with so many options in different places. 

I just returned last night from a weekend trip up to Montreal. This was my first trip of this kind, but it won’t be my last. My husband and I arrived on Friday morning and left Sunday night, visiting Campus and Stock on Friday and Campus and Diamant Rouge on Saturday. 
Stock: I think we went there around 11pm, taking a break from Campus. I could be off about the exact timing, but Stock had dancers on stage pretty often at that time though the club wasn’t too full. Dancers were mostly talking to women or each other. We only stayed for one drink and then left, didn’t do any private dances. I would be willing to try again, but since we had a lot more fun at Campus we went back there. 
Diamant Rouge: this was also only a short stop in, around 11pm. We saw an incredible pole dancer - by far the most impressive moves we saw anywhere, but left after one song. The bar was pretty quiet but everyone seemed friendly. This felt more like we walked into a neighborhood bar, which I could see feeling very nice if that’s your vibe. 
Campus: both nights we arrived around 9:15. On Friday, we had reserved a table which was fun to do but not necessarily something I’d do again. It required bottle service so we got some champagne (wanting to be sure we didn’t drink too much too fast). The server was nice and attentive. Our table was right at the little platform off the main stage, which meant we always had a great view and also quite a bit of dancer interaction. When we first arrived, there were breaks between performers but around 10 it seemed to switch to back to back (or close to it) with a ton of different guys. The guys were more attractive overall than anywhere else, and some put on really great shows.
Each night we got 3 private dances together, for which they charge twice the price ($40/song). We basically expected that and stuck with that as our plan. 
On Friday, we started with Parker, then Tommy, and last Sammy. We did 2-3 songs with each of them, and they each had slightly different styles but were all good choices for us. Tommy was my favorite of the night both onstage and off - he’s charismatic, a great performer, and is in incredible shape. We didn’t ask for anything in particular for the dances, but all 3 progressed relatively quickly to full nudity and all of the dancers guided our hands all over. For those interested, Malik Delgaty danced on stage around 1am I think.
On Saturday, there were way more women, and several bachelorette parties (3-4 I think?). The behavior overall wasn’t too bad though, and I still felt plenty comfortable there. The most egregious behavior was from another gay patron who kept getting on stage and embarrassing himself. That got old fast, but the dancers handled it as well as they could. Our first dance on Sat was with Tommy again, followed by Fernando, and lastly with either Eduardo or Drago - I thought he introduced himself to us as Eduardo but on stage the MC seemed to be saying Drago. He is a beefy Colombian who was wearing a white baseball hat both nights. Again, we did 2-3 songs with each, with Eduardo being my favorite of the night (though again, Tommy gave some serious competition). 
Other standout dancers that I would go back for included Diego, the other Latin lovers (sadly I missed their names but Eduardo and 2 others danced together and were announced as the Latin lovers - both darker complexion, very attractive and great dancers), Vinnie, and a few others whose name I either missed or can’t recall. 
Overall we had a great time, but I wanted to share a few downsides. I was surprised at the pushiness of some of the bar and door staff with regard to demanding tips. We are frequent tippers and were already doing that, but hearing other patrons get  told off publicly about tipping was surprising even coming from the very tip-heavy US. Also, one dancer who I won’t call out publicly was only showing a dildo, not his actual dick. I was suspicious during his first number both because of the size and the positioning, and then when he only gave quick flashes of it, my confidence grew before becoming totally positive during the last onstage number he did on Saturday. I would rather see a smaller real penis or even a performer that just doesn’t show it all than to see a dildo paraded around like it’s real. 
Many of the dancers mentioned heading to Miami in the winter, which I am guessing (or maybe just hoping?) means Wilton Manors, so I think a trip there may be in order in the colder months. 
Thanks to everyone on this forum who shares so much info here. Going in without much experience, I really appreciated having a better idea of what to expect. 

I doubt the people in this thread chastising posters who prefer an all male environment for strip clubs ever have supported the dancers who work in these clubs.  I’m happy I was able to enjoy times when gay strip clubs (in Montreal in particular) were exclusively male on most nights.  
 
Those days were special.  In today’s world we will never see shows like the one captured in these images below…. Which will probably be removed by the moderator.  Straight guys don’t “play gay” on stage when women are present 
 
 
 

Fenix is a hungry bottom and Sex Daddy will c*n you out of as much money as you allow him to.

This is what he currently looks like according to a twitter post last week...

Just had my first visit to Campus. It was a Wednesday. The men there are hotter than at Spunk and Adonis in NYC by like a lot. (I should note I live in NYC and go out to Spunk and Adonis a lot.) And there's a lot more nudity. The booths are more spacious and comfortable than any club in NYC. Every dancer there was a mouth-watering muscle god. I too got too many dances lol. Max and Charles in particular showed me a real good time. Crowd was light but it had rained all day and night. Many dancers said Wednesdays are typically a great night. It did start to pick up around 10:30 - 11pm. Anyway, I'm here in MTL on a family vacation and trying hard to not sneak away again tonight

The same way he is related to Damian Lewis.

Polls have shown a lot of people like that sort of person.

Well, he flaked on me but it was as if he had more important clients who he sees often that take precedence even if he’s confirmed?  It’s so annoying, and as nice as a guy he is, I’m glad I’m not the only one who notices this.  I’d never book with him again under any circumstances.  He could be at my door and I’d tell him to kick rocks.
You need to be communicative in this business and flaking will eventually catch up to you and we will speak up about it and you’ll get blackballed.  I guess he has a large clientele and that’s what he’ll stick too

$20 a song PLUS tip?   That’s more than most private lap dances that I e done in lots of different cities. If I’m doing an additional tip, we’re doing more than lap dancing! 

Tennis player Borna Coric

https://rentmen.re/BigDM  
Good evening. Wanted to give a heads up on a service provider in the Chicagoland burbs area.  Please be careful, against my better judgment I paid a deposit for a future date.  Unfortunately, he ghosted and is now ignoring texts and RM messages. Hopefully others have a better experience than me. 

Awwwww! If there’s an annual or bi-annual ‘Tristan Thread’ then perhaps there had to be the bi-annual or annual RESPONSE to it!
Absolutely swooning in the compliments; appreciate all of you so very much who have supported me over the years. I have never attempted to be the same as some of my colleagues- whose business model is to pack an absurd amount of clients into one day, fill themselves up with money like the cheeks of a chipmunk, then disappear for weeks. 
 
My model is slow but steady, only a couple a day at max- and that allows me my other obligations to the Army and to family / dogs / regular job. Communication with me can suck; and I will state that in advance…but as all of you who stayed the course have seen; I never do people wrong. 
 
As far as not being everyone’s type; oh well. Some people on this forum also strive for guys that perpetual con artists and hustlers, or because a guy is 22 and ‘less touched’, his value increases? ROFLMAO. Alright, let me know how that works out when he leaves after 35 minutes or doesn’t show up period, demands deposits, or blackmails you down the line when he’s desperate for 👌.
I feel better at 41 then I did in my early 30s;  and what you bring to a session as an escort is more important between your ears, as between your legs or the biceps on your arms. 
 
Time and experience shape perspective; and I am thankful to all my ‘mentors’ out there for helping craft mine. Love you all! ❤️
‘TB’ / Jordan

Keeping Up Appearances, one of my favorite shows!

No intel, but wanted to re-post the link to his ad: https://rent.men/Danieltovar
 

Words have power.  Someone told him he was beautiful, and he believed him.  When I was in school someone told me I wasn't attractive, and since then I don't leave my home without a paper bag over my head... lol