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Hello, looking for spas/ massage parlors that have male providers in North New Jersey? A place where I can call ahead and request a man. I can’t find any. Thanks!

I’ve received many sensual massages over the years with HE and while several masseurs have been spontaneously and proactively willing to engage in oral (receive, give, or both) without discussing it beforehand, I always stop them due to my fear of safety and contracting something. I’ve never engaged in it, as much as my primal instincts really, really, really want to. 😈
1. I don’t want to contract anything and 2. I’m married and don’t want to bring anything home.
Have any clients dealt with this and if you overcame it, how did you? I’d love to engage in oral with providers, but I can’t seem to get over this hump/fear and never know how to tackle it. Any and all advice/suggestions are welcome. Thanks all. 

I’ve received many sensual massages over the years with HE and while several masseurs have been spontaneously and proactively willing to engage in oral (receive, give, or both) without discussing it beforehand, I always stop them due to my fear of safety and contracting something. I’ve never engaged in it, as much as my primal instincts really, really, really want to. 😈
1. I don’t want to contract anything and 2. I’m married and don’t want to bring anything home.
Have any clients dealt with this and if you overcame it, how did you? I’d love to engage in oral with providers, but I can’t seem to get over this hump/fear and never know how to tackle it. Any and all advice/suggestions are welcome. Thanks all. 

The only 100% safe way is complete abstinence. But that’s no fun and a fairly grim way to live. You could explain your concerns to your masseur before booking and ask him his status. Also ask to book him just after he next gets tested and is all negative. Obviously that’s still no guarantee, he could have caught something recently etc. but it might help you to overcome your anxiety enough to try sucking! 
 

Sounds like your best approach would be to just avoid the exposure.  In all seriousness the few minutes of pleasure would not be worth the torture you'd put yourself thru from the appointment time until the waiting period to know you were still clean. 

His ad says he likes to be told what to do. So I'm going to text him and tell him to marry me!! I'll send y'all a postcard from our honeymoon in Hawaii.
 
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Yeah, when I first joined it was mostly guys looking for public action. Now it seems to be the marketplace of choice for illicit drugs and escorts. 
Careful though, there's also a ton of catfish and scammers on there now.

Took one for the team today.  No real massage skills, dirty room, super rush job.
Def won’t repeat.

Kev is one of my favourite masseurs. He is tall and strong like a rugby player, and a lovely guy. He is also gifted... and a very talented masseur. I highly recommend him.
 
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Longer than waxing?  I don’t think so.  I think they’re the same thing in terms of ripping hair out at the root.  But sugaring is gentler and doesn’t require heat. 

I finally had a chance to see Alex Blessings on my current holiday in NYC.  I can see why he gets consistently good reviews here.  His price is reasonable and his extra were nice and he is not a clock watcher.  I can see why he's a regular of so many fellow forum members.

Another deeply satisfying session yesterday with Blessings! 
I had a need for a professional pubic grooming session and nobody does it better than he does.  There is something stimulating about being with a naked man clipping and trimming the hair on your private parts.  It can lead to a more extensive experience and with Blessings, it always does.  I do recommend him for clients interested in a barber/grooming fetish.  But even without it, this man is like a good wine that keeps on getting better and better as time goes on.  I have been his client for about 3 years now and he just never disappoints.
This was my first time visiting his new apartment - a spotless one bedroom, corner apartment on the 23rd floor.  Meticulously clean and well organized.  A spa-like bathroom.  If anything, his new bed is even bigger.  
I am glad to have him in my life.

His new place is great and his talents are as remarkable as ever. He’s a beautiful man

Santa, I'd like to add one more item to my list.  I've been very good this year! 
😈

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The one review is by a guy with no others I could find.

admittedly, this picture is many years old 😉, but he's a great-looking guy......legendary performer.....even has his own wiki page!

The link above required a login. This might be the same one.  It IS amazing.
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I get this, but I’m not Liam. & the Bergdorf’s comment was snarky. Apologies.
 
Im 52yo /  pretty decent shape (runner/skiier/surfer) that sometimes hires - mostly massage w/extras.  I don’t leave reviews often - & this is a new account.  On previous account I rarely had experiences that seem worth posting about but there are a few and a couple with criticism regarding profile pics / stats.   
 
So, here are some others I would recommend and maybe one or two that I would advise against.  As always, PM for details
 
👍🏻:
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Jeferson
Amazing!!!! 🍀  the entire package & What’a package. you’ll session will defiantly last longer than booked, so include that in your calendar. He likes to get to know you and commune.  He and his partner 🔥🔥 are both very caring and passionate, but very very “new age” so if that’s not your cup of tea, I’d say not for you  
seriously,  incredible, lovely, loving, & 🔥!!!
 
https://rentmasseur.com/MassageSession
*Just all around🔥 
https://rentmasseur.com/ShawnHealing

* great massage  nice enough guy but a bit “whatever 🙄💅” @ first then warmed up  
*But more than most want to pay to go the extra mile - & not to the end of the road   
*Apt was messy / brooklyn art vibe - but I didn’t mind so much,  clearly that kinda guy  
 
https://rentmasseur.com/DaddyRetreat 
 
only hired through MMX massage   Is defiantly on the mild S/M vibe -not my thing - but was respectful of limits and I did enjoy a bit were he was leading me   Skilled and hot  
https://rentmasseur.com/Taly
 
hired years ago pre tattoos with his partner, who’s no longer listed  
🔥🔥
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/13627/
 
with his partner way up town  partner is not as handsome but very skilled and sexy non the less   I can’t host, or I would see them more. It’s quite a commute  
 
https://rent.men/SteelBike
🔥🔥 very long time ago and I think he’s in Philly now  
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6239/
Very long ago when he was at a spa  one of my first HE expedites and didn’t expect it  🔥
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39396/  
very nice, relaxing but went pretty quickly into other territories   I think we were just truest attracted to each other.
 
** there are others I’ve had incredible experiences with that no longer advertise.
*** also, many experience at Eqnx spas seeking the world   

👍🏻/👎🏻:
https://rentmasseur.com/Lino
ok. have repeated but not in awhile.  Likes to let you massage him. Ha! But I’m into that so….   🔥

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28165/
Ok, haven’t repeated but have considered.
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_NYC
fun. Not really therapeutic  pics are real but maybe a bit outdated?  Bod is the same   Maybe a bit older.   Didn’t regret  have never gone back  

https://rentmasseur.com/Zanja
 
okay, but a bit anxious and weird  but I think he was new.  Was a few years back. 
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6376/
I love handsome older (relative term) men  was curious forever because he reminded me a bit of a Russian masseur I used to see at equinox  
So…  when I got to his place, appearance was more disappointing than what I expected it to be   I also go a very very weird vibe at first and almost left - a kind of silence of the lambs vibe & probably should have left, and just trust instants…but it turned out ok.
The massage it’s self was actually really incredible and actually very erotic even tho there was zero attraction    
 
He is definitely a bit odd & bit curt, but harmless and I did really enjoy the massage  not going back tho  
 
 
👎🏻:
https://rent.men/MassageByRyan
pics are total fakes -about 15 - 20yrs older than those shown and defiantly not even him. Mediocre shape   Should have walked away but didn’t.  Massage was “eh” & I declined the HE  
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/7513/
 
pics are accurate but the personality is not. The massage technique was good, but he had a palpable negative / energy. I tried a couple times because I thought he might be having an off day  nope  kinda snooty three times - clearly he’s exceptionally good looking and that is why I tried more then most but I always felt worse after. If your his type maybe you’ll have an awesome experience  but I don’t know what that is   Middle age white 5’8 trim/ fit, outdoorsy  type (me) maybe is not. 

 
 
 
 
 

Curious as well. Heading to Vegas next week…

Logan Stevens is the “masseur”, the other guy is Cody Seiya.  I am not partial to blonds but Logan checks ALL of my boxes!

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While it never felt great to show up at a provider's place and find someone else there (roommate/boyfriend or, in a couple of cases, the client before me on the way out!), that was never a big concern of mine as long as the room we were in was private. 
I think if someone has to stop the session at mid-point due to some physical issue he should discount the session.  I wouldn't be inclined to give the guy a second chance if he didn't realize that his inability to complete the booking as scheduled warranted some reduction of fee.

https://rentmasseur.com/Fantasyseeker
 
any info or experience with this provider.  Coming my way!  Thinking of seeing him. 

I deleted a comment I made a few weeks ago in this thread after @Alex.Blessings reached out to me 1:1 to understand my feedback. I wanted to share an update here, which is twofold.
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@Alex.Blessings messaged me offering a free follow-up session to address any feedback I had. Though I was initially hesitant, he genuinely seemed interested in my feedback, which I will admit I did not offer him after my first session. I guess I am not used to sharing feedback live with a masseur after a massage, when and if I have any. When I shared the feedback with him, he was very fair in responding to it and offered me to share exactly what I was looking for in the massage. I did, and I told him if it wasn't a match and it's not what he offers, no hard feelings and we could each move on. I truly appreciated his offer to try to understand my feedback and what I was looking for in a session - I had never experienced that with a masseur before, and I have tried many.
He agreed to the items I listed and once again offered a free session to give it another try. He was very kind about it. We had our session last night and it was everything I asked for - he took my feedback into account and incorporated all I asked for. I've tried a bunch of masseurs this year and have not yet found my regular, but after last night I don't think I need to continue my search and will be visiting Alex on a regular basis. I didn't want to take his offer for granted, so I did provide a tip for his generous offer and thorough session.
If you plan to meet Alex, just be open about what you're expecting or hoping for, and he will do the same in return. Perhaps I should have done so before our first session.
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Everyone needs to take the temperature down a bit on this thread. Our world is full of enough hatred and division; it doesn't take much to be cordial and nice to one another, even when we disagree. This should be a forum in which people are comfortable sharing their views and none of us should be worried about being attacked for our opinions. 
@Alex.Blessings genuinely sought out my feedback, made a very generous offer to rectify the situation, and provided a session that was everything I asked for. Thank you, Alex, and I look forward to many more sessions together.

After going down the rabbit hole of watching the "best massage video ever" in the spas/masseurs forum, I've decided to hire my own massage turns into escort encounter in LA.  Looking for recommendations of providers that do both.  Most escorts advertise as providing both erotic massage and escort services, but I'd like to start off with a legit massage on a massage table, and then like in the videos, things slowly progress, hint at more, until I turn over, and things heat up and at a certain point, the pretense of a massage is completely gone and its just a full on escort session.  Any recommendations?