BenjaminNYC

Technically it IS fine dining and shopping. 😉

Let's see......25 years old and a profile on RM since 2017.  He might be an age shaver lol

Let's see......25 years old and a profile on RM since 2017.  He might be an age shaver lol

Seems like he has a fragile ego. You paid his rate, were a regular good client. What does he expect? You to be faithful? Be grateful? It seems strange behaviour if he’s an experienced provider.
We all know that clients shop around and see other guys. I talk with at least half a dozen other masseurs and I know that clients who come to me also go to them. I have a good idea what those guys charge too because I’m friends with them. None of us mind that clients shop around. It’s really not a competitive industry, it’s actually very cooperative. I’ll warn them about difficult clients and they do same for me. I’ll also refer clients if I’m busy, and they refer to me.
I think your guy may have got the wrong impression of your ‘relationship’. You might be best to gently remind him that you’re his customer and that he is free to decide what the rate is and you are free to decide whether to buy. If he doesn’t understand that it’s probably best to avoid him because he seems a bit high maintenance. 

I think the only unfair pricing is charging for something the provider doesn’t deliver.  He could charge a million dollars an hour, as long as the client is willing to pay and gets what he’s expecting, then I think that’s fair.  However, if the provider charges $100/hr., and says he kisses but doesn’t follow through, then I think that’s unfair.
 

I live between NYC and Philadelphia and I cannot tell you how many times providers list my area as Near Travel with no intent to ever travel there.  Or they list your city in their future travels only to delete it after you inquire about setting something up.
The good ones work will have dialogue with you if a meet is possible.  The others ignore or act like you are imposing on them. 

@pubic_assistance I’ll put any young fresh bubble-butt bottom to shame! 😜 A skilled top is a skilled top. And those that prefer them young, twinky and bubbly I get it too. But there is something to be said for guys that have experience, know their anatomy, and when they see a dick (straight, curved up, curved down, thick, 6” or 9”) know exactly how to give their top the best experience. And by experience it doesn’t mean age it just means a bottom that’s thoughtful and wanting to constantly improve his bottoming game.  Six sigma here…constantly trying to learn and get even better.  

Definitely stay away from Jake Cole.  I have had experience with him and he will not deliver what you're looking for.  Depending on your budget, take a look at the DoublePounders. 

Definitely stay away from Jake Cole.  I have had experience with him and he will not deliver what you're looking for.  Depending on your budget, take a look at the DoublePounders. 

There's DL and then there's invisible.  With so little to go on in his profile, it's hard to take this guy seriously.  

Whenever they start talking about investments, crypto and huge returns, I tune out immediately.  Huge red flag.  

Whenever they start talking about investments, crypto and huge returns, I tune out immediately.  Huge red flag.  

Whenever they start talking about investments, crypto and huge returns, I tune out immediately.  Huge red flag.  

Whenever they start talking about investments, crypto and huge returns, I tune out immediately.  Huge red flag.  

Whenever they start talking about investments, crypto and huge returns, I tune out immediately.  Huge red flag.  

There's DL and then there's invisible.  With so little to go on in his profile, it's hard to take this guy seriously.  

Content creator as his second career......he has been on Seeking looking for arrangements/Sugar Daddy

I echo BananaBagel's sentiments.  I recently met Travis and he was fun, sensual, hot and easy to connect with.  Like BananaBagel, I definitely recommend.

Great ad copy!  I would suggest that you mention whether you host or only do out calls......and if you host, where in NYC you are located.  I echo the suggestions for filling out the "into" section.  I'm the type that searches looking for some specific things, like kissing.   Your profile has not been showing up on my searches and I assume that is because you have not filled out that section.  Wishing you success! 

Better than the Ben Sash seal of approval!  Thanks for the feedback!

Better than the Ben Sash seal of approval!  Thanks for the feedback!

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I had a similar experience.  ProTop messaged me on RM.....I politely begged off the unsolicited contact, by saying I would contact him should I be in need of his services.  He then persisted in haranguing me over the next few days until I ultimately had to block him, which I almost never do.  

I had a similar experience.  ProTop messaged me on RM.....I politely begged off the unsolicited contact, by saying I would contact him should I be in need of his services.  He then persisted in haranguing me over the next few days until I ultimately had to block him, which I almost never do.  

I had a similar experience.  ProTop messaged me on RM.....I politely begged off the unsolicited contact, by saying I would contact him should I be in need of his services.  He then persisted in haranguing me over the next few days until I ultimately had to block him, which I almost never do.