was last there last fall, so some things may've changed......park in the lot just north of the building and then pay the lot guy the $5 parking fee....lock up and keep your car keys with you.....walk in and pay the front desk the cover charge.....don't arrive before 9:30......find your own table or sit at the bar.....relax a bit and just take in the scene and layout......the VIP area is at the back and the entrance is to the back left corner (looking from the front door).....the bar in the VIP area is visible across from the main room bar (same bar, actually).....the dancers' dressing/break room is at the north (front) west corner of the room.....watch the main room dancers on stage for a while, then decide if you want a main room lap dance from somebody who piques your interest......if so, go right up to the stage and tip him a bit and chat him up for a few quick seconds ("can you come by my table when you're done?", "you look great!", "awesome moves, buddy!").......when the VIP room gatekeeper is not busy, go chat him up about the charges and protocol in there.....if you find a guy you really like, ask him about going back there and spending time with you (he'll probably say yes!!)....things are a good bit looser back there (and pricier).......if you go back there with a dancer, make sure you negotiate what you want with the dancer and that you and he understand what he gets and what you pay the gatekeeper......
mostly, have fun, take it easy, smile, keep your wits about you re: $$, keep a count on the songs if having a private dance, respect the dancers......