don't want to tread thru the past 86 posts, but do want to say we all should offer our basic and honest stats in the first communication.......I think I'm in the habit of doing this and I don't remember being asked for stats (or a picture, for that matter)......I usually say/offer weight, height, age, race, non-smoker, no drugs, clean hygiene, and maybe other stuff as appropriate......honest and friendly communication is the key!