Just met him for the 2nd time this week in Chicago and no doubt it was the best guy I’ve ever met on RM. I agree his rate is high but he deserves it and at the end I felt like I had to tip him, because he made me feel really special. I’ve met guys for 400$ and they were worth nothing. Nobody can be disappointed after meeting him, I guarantee.
I asked for a BFE, so when we first met he made me feel very comfortable, but he prevented me he couldn’t spend more than 1h with me because he had another reservation. After a little conversation we had really good sensual sex with a lot of kissing and cuddling. And it was great, but I felt like I needed more. So the second time I made sure we could spend at least 2 hours together and it was AMAZING. When we met it was like we were already friends, if not boyfriends. So he offered me some tea, we had a very clever and animated conversation about politics and the US elections (he is way smarter than anyone could think), then he fucked me once, we talked again, showered together, then he offered me a massage and then he fucked me again and we cuddled and kissed like real BFs. I can honestly say he’s the kind of guy that could make you fall in love after 1 hour.
NO ONE PERSONAL NAMES OR DETAILS ARE MENTIONED IN THIS POST. I AM LEWIS_LMT AND I AM REPLYING TO A THREAD ABOUT ME. THANK YOU.
Thank you to many members who reached out who enjoyed my post when it was originally posted. Happy to keep conversations going with different subject matter in other forums.
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I guess it’s time I enter the chat. For a while, I’ve had clients and peers notify me of this website, and I’ve never paid much attention to it. Many of the comments and postings that I’ve come to privy to (through a client usually) I’ve laughed about.
Example, I’ve read a guy ranting about me because I politely declined wanting my photos taken by an amateur. We had never met. Yet he created a post commenting on my character? Funnily enough, members on the forum called him out on his ridiculousness.
Another recent posting, a mentally unstable Meth user calls me “dense”. How do I know that posting was from the meth user who lit up in front of me at his place? (1) I journal all my encounters (2) No one has ever called me dense in person, then it appearing shortly on a forum to discredit my character. I said no to this encounter, leaving uncomfortable and hastily. Yet I'm discredited because I way extremely uncomfortable....
What I usually take from this website is that some of these client postings/experiences are not at all accurate and, in a small way, for them to mischaracterize a provider and try to discredit them? To me, that always speaks more about the client. But on the other hand, there is no way for other readers to understand the truth.
I'm lucky in the fact that I have a long list of clientele who know me for who I am. My clients outside of this particular world always come first. Hence why it can be difficult to reach me. I would much rather work on one of my oncology clients, my rehabilitation clients, my PT or Chiro client referrals, or my aesthetic clients at my private studio, than take an erotic session. Why? Because I get more satisfaction from my therapeutic work, and I don’t have to deal with a huge portion of flakes, drug users, time wasters, weirdos. Why do I continue to advertise on RM? Because extra income comes in handy when I’m actually available.
Always, I give what I receive. You will read my communication is short on this thread. Correct. Those who communicate with “sup”, “hey”, “what’s up” with no other communication, I just don’t respond. If you are contacting a provider and incapable of basic communication to set an appointment up for yourself, it's not worth my time.
I think what clients have to understand is, you are one person communicating with one person. As a provider, I am one person communicating with 50 on a daily basis. It’s more productive for both to get to the point.
Providers are not also there to sex talk and take up too much time communicating back and forth for it to get nowhere. Time is money. You’ve not paid…yet.
The many, many clients out there who I've enjoyed my time with usually contact like so: “Hi, my name is ….. I’m very interested in booking time with you. I’m looking for XYZ this coming Thursday at 8 pm, would you be available?” This type of communication gets my attention and usually ends up being a very successful encounter.
I just got back to Chicago. I snowbird in the winter. Today I decided (because I have the time and I was notified again of a posting on my name), that I would respond on this thread. And give a better understanding of some of the recent comments made.
In the last 5 days, Ive taken a few RM clients. A few were regular clients. @Umichdude93 would be a new client and the newest posting here.
@Umichdude93 has contacted me twice before. I never delete my messages. It’s also how I keep track of past events. They have scheduled twice before. No-showed twice before. Costing me time and money. When looking up their info, I see I am not the only provider this client does this to. This encounter I played with him, just like this client has played in the past. You receive what you give. When I realize he actually showed. Third time's a charm, I guess. I met them. They asked for an erotic massage. (Nude, mutual touch, release is what I offer) He didn't want what he booked. I told them, I explained my services and costs. They said okay. He got what he wanted, he paid, he left. It was short.
This is me personally. If you are booking a massage and I’ve given you my rate, that’s what the service will be.
If you want something else, it's going to cost differently. I communicate this every time.
Expectations should always be met, I do not wish to feel uncomfortable. Therefore we’ve usually had good communication about our session and are aware of the expectations, plus a price has been agreed to.
Do not come into a service without full communication of what you are wanting/expecting. Don’t be sneaky in thinking you’re going to get something if we have not discussed it. You will leave disappointed.
I've had many clients I’ve stopped and said “hey if you want to changed what we have spoken about, these are my rates” given them my rate, and they have declined, and we have continued respectfully.
Have there been times where I’m personally into the guy (I do like grey-haired older men) and will hookup for fun outside of my massage service? Yes, but that is my choice.
A few others I wish to reply back to on this thread to clear a few things up.
@questbear I remember our time together, also date and time (I journal). Appreciate the compliment. I did not short you on time. You had a left rotator cuff issue. I spent time therapeutically working that shoulder for you. You were a very nice person. You did, without asking, put your mouth around below. Because you were very sweet, I did let it slide. I didn’t charge you extras or stop you. Again, that was my choice to let it happen. At the end of a service, I leave 10 min for you to release. You released very quickly. You went to the bathroom to clean up. I too went to the bathroom to wash my hands. When coming back out of the bathroom. You were half dressed. Yes, there was 5 min left on the clock… but I wouldn’t say I shorted you on time. That is a mis representation of the session.
@DC Otter You are one of those clients with beautiful communication and a very, very nice human in person. I thoroughly enjoyed our experience. Price correct and all expectations met/fulfilled.
@Chads I’m 5’7 Had a great session with you also. Thank you
@MassageDrew - Thanks for booking a therapeutic massage. You did indeed miss the details in booking online on my professional account.
At that time, booking a 60 min massage the title was called - **$125 - 60 mins Heal, Repair & Rehabilitation**
The description being - “This is NOT a full body massage. This massage is for injuries, healing and rehabilitation. If you are currently seeing a PT or Chiropractor, this is your massage. We will thoroughly work on the areas that need your most attention.”
Secondly, during the covid19 mask mandate, I offered all my clients to go maskless. Your head being in a headrest with a mask on is uncomfortable. I took my mask off while my clients were face down. When face up and working on face, neck and shoulders, my mask would go on. I think that’s considerate and thoughtful considering the climate at that time and me seeing multiple clients a day.
Thirdly, Thai massage is a lot more physically demanding and way more than “stretching”. It takes a further toll on the therapist's body and it is an advanced skilled technique that required further paid training hours after school and state board exams. Therefore, these massages are always charged at a higher rate. If you check out spas nationally, you will find that massages based on skill levels are at different rates. A Swedish will never be the same rate as a deep tissue or Thai.
@Jayson03The same as @MassageDrew, you also booked online via a professional website. You booked a COMBO Massage/Facial.
Firstly, the facial is always after the massage. I would never do a full facial and then flip you over face down in a headrest. That's bizarre!
Secondly, It stated in the description of the COMBO service - “Massage 60 mins, NOT a full body massage. We will focus on a couple of problematic areas. (Which we did) Facial 60 mins. Depending on your extractions facial can extend more than 60 mins, time will be taken from massage time”
Thirdly, tantric massage was advertised because I was getting a lot of requests. Therefore, I advertised it. Not due to a low customer return rate. Thank you.
@dctraveler His massage was not cut short. He got exactly what he booked and paid for. Yes, doing a combo service or any service is very physically demanding. Thank you for understanding that. Jayson03 did not read what he booked.
Hopefully this post gives more clarity to this thread. Appreciate you reading.
The ones who politely complain that the height range doesn't allow them to show their actual vertical-ness, and that they're actually shorter than what's shown.
Mario_X in Chicago is fantastic - we align so well. I liked a guy in Cathedral City who is no longer there. One of the finest backsides of anyone I'd seen.
Please let us know who you like so we can go "Yuck!" and tell you how bad/revolting your choices are. It can be so personally satisfying to criticize others for not having taste as perfect as one's own.
Rimming a hot hole is pure bliss. I literally go into a trance especially if I do a big hit of poppers and am under my rim seat. Proud to say I've got a great reputation in NYC for my tongue skills and have several built hot dudes w fine muscular athletic asses who come over regularly. When they moan and make noise and push their hole deeper in my mouth I nearly shoot without touching my cock. I love making them do that so the cum drips down their balls into my mouth. Nothing hotter. Here's my go rimming video..it's only 2.5 minutes but play it on loop and blow a big one. https://xhamster.com/videos/how-to-properly-rim-a-guys-ass-14705461
This could be an art form, especially if performed in a dirty room in a cheap motel. As someone else said, there are people willing to pay top dollar for this. 😅
Joking aside, and in addition to many valid points others have made, I hate it when they try to move the appointment when I am already in the car on my way to see them. If you don't agree, you risk getting a subpar experience because of the bad vibe. If you agree, you just wasted some time you could have used otherwise.
This is another reason I avoid masseur couples who push 4-handed massages. I don't want one, and I know they may cancel if someone who wants it comes along, and the least they'll do is to try to move my appointment.
It also needs to be clarified that identifying as straight, and being straight are two different things.
I’m sure there are plenty of escorts falsely defining themselves as “straight”, simply to appear to the fantasies of some potential clients.
It’s mostly a matter of definition. I had a provider tell me he was straight while two inches of his tongue were up my rectum. I didn’t care what the hell he was as long as he kept licking.
To me, he ceases to be cute once the attitude comes out - he’s then no different from anyone I might meet online the regular way. At first I thought he might not be a native English speaker and could that explain some of the abruptness but the behavior patterns are definitely there.
Which reminds me he also hit me up on one of the online apps. He sent his pic - I didn’t respond as I recognized him straight away, and he then sent a follow up 10 mins later basically expressing surprise that I wouldn’t drop everything to reply. wasn’t clear from either his profile or his texts to me on that app whether he was looking to find clients or hookups.
