Moke

I usually give 15 minutes. 

I didn't spam RM advertisers. Over a series of days, I sent out a handful of brief specific queries about future availability. That is all. I was prepared to hire any or all of them for separate appointments, though -- based on prior experience -- I anticipated that only two or three would actually come through as potential actual bookings. And that proved to be the case.

You might have better a yield rate on initial queries and, if so, I suspect we'd all welcome the opportunity to learn from the wisdom of your experience.

 

In a way, I’m glad when they don’t reply. It goes to show how they don’t care about clients.  They’re automatically taken off my list.

This is a hit-or-miss business. Very few of these guys are legit, so they don't treat the customer in a professional manner. It's not a realistic expectation. Most of these guys want instant appointments (cash). They don't want to answer questions, or have anything to do with what they call "time wasters." For many, it's just another version of rentmen.com.
I always ask questions, but many don't respond. I've learned to move on quickly. I've learned not to fall in love with a photograph. I'm willing to pay for good service, but good service is difficult to find, sometimes. When you find it, it's a good thing to keep. But it is a needle in a haystack. Good luck.

I met these gentlemen yesterday evening.  As I mentioned it was my first threeway and they did not disappoint.  I really enjoyed our time together and they exceeded my expectations.  I would meet both together or either individually if the opportunity comes up.  PM me with specific questions or for more general details if interested.

Just recently seen him. Super nice guy and he has a nice tight cake. I enjoy my time with him 😈 

Bump. He’s back in SF.  Anyone else have experience to share?  Extras?  

On RentMen you can just go to RM Live cams and select the guy you want. Guys have different rates per minute and are from all parts of the world.
You can do a private and chat to them… tell them what you want them to do on camera etc.
You will receive a link to the video afterwards which you can view as and when you want. You don’t need to pay to view it again.
 

Let us know how it goes! 

Just in the past couple of months a few providers I've met with before have reached out to ask if I'm interested in getting together again. They've all been tasteful, pleasant and respectful and it's worked (good marketing!), I've re-booked with all of them.
More to the point of this topic, this is a new phenomenon for me and I was wondering if there was a general slowdown in the market.

Supposed to meet with him this week, he's been very communicative so far 

met him. massage was great. can tell
he is trained. MT and HE. He generally looks like his picture although not as lean but that’s okay by me. very nice guy. only visiting SF for a limited amount of time. i’d repeat if he was in SF.

So I took the plunge and personally I would not recommend.
Sexy body (not as ripped as the pics), handsome face. Somewhat arrogant and the session was more about satisfying his needs vs mine. Could not stay hard for the full session….
Face and body - 7 / 10
Planning & communication leading up to the session - 8 / 10
Attitude and personality - 3 / 10
Bedside (or should that be in bed??) manner - 4 / 10
The fuck - 4 / 10

Strongly recommend Rob who fits your bill. He also has a RMen ad fwiw. 
his massage ad looks like he is traveling right now?  But he lives in Sacramento. https://rentmasseur.com/RELAXROB

I usually give 15 minutes. 

He doesn't know any single thing about that person, and seems like you did not inform him about having a roommate when making arrangements. To me that looks like a personal safety thing.
Yes, you should have told him. He's coming to a home of a stranger, that alone has a degree of risk, then he's surprised by seeing another stranger hanging out in the house, without knowing who that person is or what the intentions are.
I don't find the actions of the provider unreasonable.
I've had unpleasant experiences with opposite roles. I've been to the place where the provider is set, and I have found people there hanging around, and it does not feel comfortable and pleasant. In fact, one of them had the roommates passing back and forth in front of me while I was getting the massage.
IMO, both the client and the provider should be aware of other people present in the place where the event will take place, regardless of how "open minded" the people around are. The "I'm ok with it" thing or "I'll be a fly on the wall" thing is not the issue; it's a comfort and personal safety issue.

it blows my mind that people think that if they have someone coming over- paid or not - that you should have to consider whether you have to tell them they are walking into a space where someone else may be there or not: OF COURSE YOU SHOULD TELL THEM. 
 Jesus Christ!
if you walked into a providers house and there was someone else sitting there, unknown and unexpected to be there, you too would freak out or be unnerved,  regardless of how sex positive they profess to be AFTER THE FACT.  
have some basic decorum and manners. PLEASE. 
 

I'm puzzled why you're uncertain about this. Yes, you should have informed the provider that your roommate would be home.

If you have a roommate, either:
1.) Disclose that you have one and they will be present, or
2.) Make arrangements for the roommate NOT to be there when you’re meeting with a client. 
 
Clients expect privacy for many reasons and also keep in mind that although you and the client may not know each other (and both of you are taking some risk with meeting), the roommate is even more of a stranger AND a surprise to the client. 
 

If I went to someone’s home, expecting to be alone with the person and see that other people are in the house without being told, I too would leave. It would not feel safe. It’s weird that you wouldn’t tell the therapist that you had a roommate or think that you should’ve. Would you have appreciated walking in to the masseur’s studio and encountering a roommate or spouse he failed to mention? 

Yes you should have told him your roommate was there. Reverse the situation. Would you be comfortable if you were going to his place and unexpectedly found his roommate there?

Damn. Too bad. But thanks for the eye candy.

He doesn't escort anymore. His ad has been expired for 5 years:
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Quoted me 16k for a weekend.   
24 Hours is 8k. 
12 Hours 4 k 

I saw Camilo in San Francisco recently.  Handsome man.  Delightful massage.  PM if you would like to know more.