There used to be a provider near me that, after massaging down my glutes, would slide the entire side of his hand across my asshole and up through my crack. It was so much more sensuous to me than having my asshole fingered.
I used one masseur (since retired) repeatedly who always used the same music loop. I noticed over time little pauses that told him when to switch body parts and when to flip. Actually pretty clever.
He had it set to allow 10 minutes at the end for genital massage. I often came quickly and he would use the remaining time to visit muscles that he thought could use a little attention.
This segues into my philosophy:
Paying cash for sex is not acceptable by the majority. Buying someone drinks & dinner and then having sex after *is* acceptable. But they’re both exchange of value for sex.
Why can’t we get rid of our puritanical values in the 21st century?
I have a good friend and we both hire escorts and masseurs. We always text appointment details to each other "just in case" for first time encounters. Plus reviews after & recommendations.
I just happened to look at Mr Nunber for my own number and see that a provider from last year reported "underpaid. Collect money in advance.".
This troubles me because I always put the quoted amount of the service folded on one side of my wallet and then add appropriate tip from the other side. In this case I recall the provider was mediocre at best and I did not tip. But he did get his full fee.
I'm a premium subscriber to Mr Number and wish they would alert us on the app when we get a review. I would have addressed this in the moment with the provider but 9 months later there's little point. I'd also love to be able to respond to a comment.
I was hiring one massage guy for a couple years and we went from massage with happy ending to adding almost full blown sex (no anal).
Then I saw he added a 4 hand massage and that mutual touch was okay and encouraged. So I booked a session and there was no mutual touch (they didn't even take their shorts off) and the massage was lackluster. I assume the other guy signaled somehow he wasn't interested in doing other stuff with me.
I didn't express my disappointment after but maybe should have.
I have a client profile really to have a couple pictures in case a provider weeds clients out based on age/looks. (I've had that happen)
But interestingly I wrote "prefer no draping" and it shows a "prefer no d******". I didn't think draping would be a sensitive word. And also curious what readers would think the word is!
I have a very good friend that also hires and we text each other the providers link/info before an appointment. Then after we do a kind of mini review. We tend to have the same taste in men and have overlapped providers. (My husband and I both hire and strangely have never shared info like this!)
I don't think I've ever given thought to the dangers, but I guess it's good to know where the authorities can start looking if something ever were to happen to us.