SometimesBi

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Gah! I can't believe I made that mistake. Thanks! (...and now discovers CoM doesn't have an Edit Post feature 😥)

While many of those positions look beautiful/sexy, I don't think I'd be a candidate for most of them. Too much work/effort for the client. When I get a massage, I want to just relax, and let the masseuse have his way with me. 🥰 So, your first pic is a winner for me.

While we all talk about hiring these days, I'm curious if guys still just do the random hook-up thing anymore? Years ago, even decades, Craigslist used to be the place to go. But no more. When that ended, I dabbled in a couple apps: A4A, Grindr, and Scruff. (Oh, I seem to also remember a site called Silver Daddies or something). But the last time I tried an app, I got flooded with "interest" from bots. Or, it was the same guys ads I'd seen for the last 5-10 years. Nothing new/fresh. Could anyone recommend an app or site that actually works to hook-up? Are there any that actually screen out the bots? Any where guys are current/recent? Any apps/sites that are free? Or is a subscription the key to keeping it real? (Again to be clear, I am asking about free hook-ups, not hiring).

Doesn't look like Ryan is still in Seattle 😭 https://rent.men/ryanmusclegod

https://rent.men/HuxleySamson Any info or recommendations? I've recently entered the realm of retirement (yea, I'm that old) but it means I actually have more free time now. So I need a provider that is good with older bottoms like me. Incalls are a must.

The OP asks the question of IF the past incident should be brought up. It sounds like you really want to, regardless of suggestions or concerns others have replied with. So then I submit that you should now be thinking of WHEN to bring it up. If you are truly attracted to him, I would NOT bring it up too early. Definitely not before meeting, and possibly not until the second or even the third date. Establish a connection, and if it is strong, then bring up a "...you know, I think I just realized something from the past..." type of conversation. Just remember, it will almost surely play out just like those romance movies, and could cause a rift in your friendship. If they aren't feeling a strong attraction to you before you bring this up, it could end things. This is dangerous territory. Good luck.

Ok, now I gotta ask: Do you really think that once you got going, that you could restrain yourself to just the 5 inch depth? I'd expect the urge would just be too strong for you to not, eventually, push all the way in. 😉

Wait, what? Is that a Russia thing, giving up your passports? Or were you just putting them in the hotel safe?

There's a big difference between Detailing, and a basic car wash. Professional detail services can easily exceed $200, so his 150 sounds like a bargain. As for his 350 rate, traveling escorts charge their normal rate, no matter where they go. So one shouldn't compare with one's local area average.

Back to the OP, here's my suggestion. Set up the car wash/detail. But ALSO plan to be shirtless in shorts yourself (it'll be a hot day, right). Chat a bit as he's getting started on the car. Remember, he may have noticed your eyes wandering while he was talking to you last week. Watch to see if his eyes wander. An opportunity to have a more sexual conversation may present itself. Maybe you'll bring up RM, or maybe he will volunteer it himself (or even just let things develop all the way, and you get a freebie) He's on RM. He knows how to be discreet. It sounds like you are, too. I would not expect any complications with neighbors.

The problem is, the provider charges more for 2 "clients" vs 1 client+1provider. So contact the provider again, only this time say you'd like the 3way again, with a different additional provider, that you've already hired and will pay separately (that is what you did the first time?). Then the main provider's rate should go back to 300. Just be sure your friend role-plays his part in this.

Gee, and here I was hoping this topic would have revealed the finger pic as a way for the provider to suggest he offers prostate massage 😏😁

First I've heard of such a thing. So that begs a question: if the top does this, how does he thrust without them popping out?

Or the Seattle area? 😏

Instead of canceling, might you have asked if that provider could have traveled to you?

Last month, finally hooked up with a friend acquaintance for the first time, after months of trying to align sschedules. Both of us are older, and that age kicked in. It was difficult for either of us to really get excited. So I had this thought today, that maybe we could get together, and hire one provider to come service both of us. Would a provider want/need to charge differently since there are two of us as clients, instead of just the usual one? Will we have difficulty even finding a provider that would have us both?

All this talk of providers cumming in a mouth, on a face, on pecs, etc. Some of us bottoms would prefer to take his cum up our ass. Sounds like that could be a more challenging request of providers?

359? With a price like that, I'd expect he'd also add sales tax. 🤣

So as I watch (and re-watch) favorite porn scenes, I certainly fantasize about me in those scenes. If I were to hire a provider, specifically because I want to play out such a scene, could I email a link to him, to best explain what I seek? Knowing all the bad stuff out there (bad links, phishing sites, malware, etc) would any provider trust such a link? Is there a better way to go about this? Even if done safely, would a provider even watch it? For clarity of discussion, this would be a provider NOT in the scene being shared. (So you cannot just say "remember that movie you did, where you...")

As long as the top isn't super big, I can do that every time (and I'm not a provider, so... no charge here 😁) My favorite position is on my back at the edge of the bed, legs up over the top's shoulders as he fucks me. I can stroke my hard dick with one hand, and caress his chest, pecs, nipples, with the other. Or, both my hands on his chest while he strokes me. The question will be: who cums first, me or him?

Maybe the OP did just that?? 🤔🤔

But, the female partner cannot provide the anal (and prostate) stimulation in the way that the man enjoys. And sorry, no, a strap-on is not the same. So don't go there.

Suppose the client is a married man, who isn't quite sure when he can discreetly get away from her for a couple hours (or might not get the opportunity until just a couple hours beforehand). How would you recommend a client set up such an appointment?

Just a quick note about "expiration". Manufacturers do tests to analyze shelf longevity. No, they don't actually set some aside for 2 years and check it - new drugs come out far too fast for that. But the FDA grants the manufacturers a license to sell each batch they make. Technically, it is that license that is expiring on the given date. Medication with an expiration date doesn't magically become useless/void the day after. On the opposite side, food doesn't have expiration dates. It has Best By dates. Sometimes, the date is manufacture date (often canned goods). If you find a food product with an actual Expiration Date, either there is some medical element, or the maker didn't know what they were doing.