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what forum is this from?

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i suspect its because the actors need to be able to test clear before every shoot

I had planned to meet him friday - then he messaged an hour before and asked if we could do the next day as he wanted to hang out with a friend. That was fine - but then the next day he made it clear he plays safe only (his profile says neg on prep so i just assumed raw would be ok). I declined because i am neg on prep too and i hate condoms.

they don't have to necessarily be twinks or bottoms. fratboys, gym bros - just under 21 (but still legal age)

I'm curious if anyone has any recommendations for younger providers - like 18 - 21 years old. Based in NYC would be best but happy with other cities too, i travel often for work

I saw him a few months ago. nice guy but he struggled to get hard, and he hadn't cleaned out which I discovered as soon as I entered him. So he couldn't top or bottom. He hosted in a big house out of town that was very sparsely furnished so not a very comfortable vibe. While he does look like pics he may have gained a few pounds. I think I perhaps got him on a bad day, but wouldn't repeat.

I have had this issue when using Rentmen.eu. the solution is going to rent.men version of the site. it seems they have a bug that they have no interest in fixing as they focus on rent.men version of the site only now

This guy looks so beautiful! I'm looking forward to hearing experiences - but very tempted to take the plunge myself.

I just feel 'warnings' masked as 'intel sharing' should be posted about actual danger, scams, and people who massively underperform or have serious hygine issues. Not providers that don't respond to your liking after they make it clear they won't be able to meet with you and you got your feelings hurt. Contacting a provider who tells you that they won't travel to another country, and then continuing to talk to them and asking questions about a hiring that is not going to take place is going to of course elicit curt responses. You were obviously not going to hire him - what were you hoping for - to make penfriends? You wanted to feel better about being scorned by him so you came here, and told everyone HE was being rude to you, even though you were knowingly wasting his time - and you got the dogpile you were looking for so don't pretend that is not what you were seeking. You also know that now as soon as someone uses this forum to research him they will find negative things and it will prevent him getting work because you were offended. Don't reply with naivete or fiegned innocence - you know exactly what you are doing. Enjoy your gosspiing. You sound like the type of client that gives us a bad name.

He is saying the provider is only a 5/10 by NYC standards, with an odd-looking penis, and suggesting things must be bad in Canada. The exact type of dogpile comment you were looking for when you started this thread.

My experience was the same as this. Wouldn't recommend

@AdminI think the idea of a Deli for OF reviews or feedback would be VERY popular here.

The thing is - his intention does (or should) directly affect the appropriate response. Not jumping this step is critical. Either he was being genuine, or he was not. You may have to ask yourself a hard question: 'Did I do something to the provider, or is there something about me that made him not want the job?' and have a tough answer to hear. Instead by asking people how you should respond - you already know how to respond. I think you want to hear things that will make you feel good, rather than the hard truth, which will actually help and I understand why. Rejection is hard and hurtful. Understanding WHY, no matter how hurtful though is the only way of limiting the risks of this happening again. I suppose I will ask you this question: what is your stance on the reverse? How do people respond to you when you cancel an engagement with them? Have you ever set up an appointment with him (or anyone) and then canceled? How did you do that? how did they respond? (I am sure you didn't buy flowers - you would only do something like that with a true friend - not a paid employee.) I feel like actions speak louder than words. Through his actions, he has told you his stance. Yet you still desire him so you are looking for a way to reason with a less hurtful excuse for his rejection and to consider hiring him again when you already know the answer is to not hire him again. He knew that would be the result of canceling and he did it anyway (side note - reminds me of the scene in Game of Thrones where Marjorie says 'Cersi is aware of the consequences of not attending the trial, a she is not here anyway- which means she never intends to suffer the consequences!") Either that or you are looking here for support from people to tell you what a horrible guy this provider is, which will give you comfort - and there is nothing wrong with seeking that. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh - it is not my intention to be hurtful or mean - but I really do feel that it's best to not sugarcoat things here. Everyone here is saying 'move on', 'he is unprofessional', 'choose someone else', 'don't hire him again' and look, I agree with them - but I can't help but wonder that there must be something more as I can't imagine a provider turning down multi-day hire going away somewhere unless they REALLY didn't want too.

back to the topic on hand - if you had planned a days long trip, I imagine the fee would have been a significant amount. It is unlikely the provider is willing to cancel on this and give up that fee unless one of two optiosn occured: 1. The provider is being genuine that he feels like he would not be able to deliver an experience you deserve, didn't feel comfortable taking your money, risk getting a bad review, and thought you being disappointed he wasn't able to make it was the lesser of two evils. OR 2. He thought about the rate, thought about his time with you, and said to himself - 'I don't want to do this again.' You will never know unless you explicitly ask him, rather than random people on a message board who are all just speculating.

Yeah good for him if he can get that when known porn stars with 10 times as many reviews charge less.

so you sent him a deposit and then cancelled the meeting and wanted a refund?

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I agree: I think a Deli where people can post about OF creators and we can discuss it like we do providers would be well received here. I find it so frustrating when I subscribe and they only have 10 second clips, or no face.

yeah there was a thread here recently where the provider posted some of the harassing messages and it was a shocking and eye-opening read.

all this talk and not even one provider suggested!

bump - curious if anyone has had experience with guys from RM in Costa Rica. needs to speak english

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I have seen Jose and I can definitely recommend.

I wouldn't even call my own family without texting first. If an unknown number called me I would never ever answer it. Even worse if it was a private number. Always text first - it is good manners.