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I've only been asked once and it did take me by surprise. I think I am probably an above-average-looking guy who hires providers not because I need to - I live in the city and can get laid on Grindr/Sniffies whenever I like - it's more about having guys that are A+ and fufiling certain fantasies without too much conmpromise. I also really enjoy the power exchange or transactional nature of it. Anyway - having said that, I now send my picture unprompted. I think it helps in a lot of ways. 1. It shows a level of seriousness that a message from a burner number or a photoless profile on rentmen does not. I have my photo on my whatsapp so if i message them there they can see it immediatly regardless. 2. I feel the providers may adjust the rates when I ask the fee, as the job would be eaiser if there is mutual attarction (i understand this may not be the case with everyone) and they want to close the booking. 3. In anycase - the providers see I am serious and not a time waster, and I absolutly get faster responses once I do this.

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doubt he would look at you either. 😇

I agree there should be a way forum where providers can talk about clients using their rentmen profile names - yes they can change them - but so can providers. Uber allows drivers to rate passengers! as long as numbers and real names are not disclosed I don't see the harm.

HAHAHAHAHHA. of course you think I am a scammer - you think EVERYBODY is. Suspect whatever you like - my comments speak for themselves - as do yours. I have definitely left kind and nice reviews of some of the boys I have met, and some reviews of more average experiences. Yours are ALL Negative Nancy, NONE of these guys you have actually met. get help and do something positive with your time. I'm done.

The fact you choose to ignore my questions shows I am right - every single comment on every single thread here by you is negative, cruel, unkind and it seems you have an obsession with trying to 'out' providers as ingenuine. You are a sad person. Try and look for positive things and you will find them - look for disappointment and you will find it on any corner. Misery loves company which is why you keep trying to spread it. Life is what you make it and judging by your activity here, you're choosing a sad miserable time. Be well!

so kind! what a great way to participate and engage in the community.

Your response leads me to indicate I have hit a raw nerve. I found a cool profile pic for you to use. Seriously though - don't meet these people if it leaves you feeling bad. Your posts on these forums are literally ALL negative and almost hateful. I struggled to find a post where you talked about ONE pleasant interaction. Take up Canasta or Bridge instead.

I am sorry this happened to you. I would advise you not to send money to people you meet online in these situations where the person has a brand new only months-old profile, and ZERO reviews - both here and on RM. Commonsense would have told you to not do that. It's good you have posted your experience here and on another thread to warn people of this particular profile. It would be worthwhile to send info of this experience to RM website too.

You guys remind me so much of Statler and Warldoff from the muppets, but even more bitter. Can I ask you - What do you think of the providers that you have met? Do you like them? do you resent them? Are you jealous that you have to pay in order to be intimate with guys that look like that? Does the whole interaction make you feel inadequate? Is there resentment here? I'm sensing a lot of that. This is not a dig - but a very curious question. If you ask yourself these things and don't come away with a positive response, it could be that engaging with sex workers is not for you. I walk away from my experiences with a high, thinking about it for days. I wish that for you and for everybody. Otherwise, I wouldn't engage in it. From the comments and posts you make here, I would seriously consider maybe not engaging in this if it brings you so much trauma. They can probably smell the resentment on you like a bad cologne and this is affecting your time as well. They put their face, very intimate photos of themselves on their personal info, and their homes when they host up for our perusal - What info do you give them BEFORE you go to meet them (if in fact you actually do meet them)? As I have, and others, have said before - use your brain - you would only do this with providers that have reviews both here and on RM. consistent and recent reviews. Only do this for rentmen that have been on the site for some length of time. also - you do realize you can contest a payment on paypal/venmo/cashapp if the booking is not promised right?

LOL if you want people to think you are getting 10 - 15 clients a day, and 10-15 that are happy to send a $20 deposit to lock the meeting down. Why would a provider take a $20 when they could see the client and get $300. Make it make sense. It doesn't make sense. And as good old judge judy says - if it doesn't make sense, its not true.

this forum has really opened my eyes to what providers have to deal with. I feel sorry for you.

9 times in a row and you still kept doing it and only now suddenly stopped? Sure Jan.

If it hurt their business they wouldn't be doing it more, evidently, it is, in fact, having the opposite effect for it to be becoming a more regular occurrence. You obviously look down on providers and think they are SO beneath you, yet you desire them too so this must be why you are so bitter. I can't see what the problem is with a small deposit - every time I use opentable to book a table at a restaurant, it takes my cc details and I am charged if I do not show, When I book a hotel- if I don't show, I am charged (I recently even asked a hotel if I could change dates as a family emergency came up and was no longer able to go - they refused even with a week's notice) My hairdresser charges me a cancelation fee if I do not show up. When you buy tickets to a broadway show - you are still charged if you don't show up - because you have paid in advance! I actually think it makes sense and has good business acumen considering how much they are put out - people have mentioned how bottoms must do prep work - to just *hope* that the person they are dealing with is genuine and have respect for their time. But more than that, I think respect is the keyword here - something your comment makes me think you lack for the profession and don't consider it 'work', when in fact you probably are really HARD work. I'm not saying give a large deposit to someone who has just created a profile, no reviews, no mention here on this forum, and wanting thousands of dollars - use your brain. If you are going to spend $300-$400 on the booking why would you have an issue with a $50 deposit? You wouldn't. You wouldn't unless you were not serious - or you want to be able to flake out and don't respect or value their time.

and yet you cancelled and not resceduled. sure jan.

The author was def butt hurt and offended - if he wasn't he would have said "that's ok, let them take that time slot. I'm not comfortable with a deposit to lock down a meeting and I will see you the day after." or the next day or whenever. But he did not - he canceled the whole event and came on here to complain about it. He was offended, jealous, and nose out of joint. you pick one, two, or all three. It makes me understand why the providers are doing this more now.

this is so interesting. So if he said to the other interested parties "sorry I am booked at that time" then you cancel last minute- he has missed out on both bookings. The fact that you don't even see that, and instead chose to be offended is pretty wild to me! I think the provider probably dodged a bullet with you here. if you were serious about the booking you wouldn't mind sending a $20- $50 deposit to lock it in.

this is the most disgusting and vile thing I have read on this forum, if not anywhere on the internet. You should really be ashamed of yourself. Truly.

thank you!

I've noticed this when travelling and asked my regular boy about it - he showed me his phone and he had SEVEN bookings in a row that were canceled. he is a bottom so he had showered, not eaten that day, prepped and cleaned out - only to have them cancel sometimes 30 minutes beforehand. He now says for new clients they can send deposit - anything from $5 or $20 just something. if they are not comfortable with that - they can contact him on the day and if he is still available he will see them, but without deposit he wont lock anything down in advance. Same day appointments only. "When I book a table at a restaurant, doctor or to see my hairdresser they take my CC details in advance and charge me cancelation fee if i don't show- I'm not doing that - just making sure people are serious about my time" he said. I think either loads of fake bookings - or perhaps clients are hedging bets and booking two or three boys on the same day and taking the best one from that. Or maybe even other providers are setting up these fake bookings? who knows. Either way, seven days of cancelations in a row is a lot. I know in my job if i had that i would be looking at changing my business model. When travelling i wouldn't mind locking in a booking with a $50 deposit- IF they have favourable reviews on RM and on here.

Thanks for this advice - I have been living my whole life talking to providers like pieces of shit until you told me to be nice to them. SMH. (that was a sarcastic joke just incase it wasnt noted) I am nice to EVERY service provider - be it a waiter, shopkeeper, lawyer, doctor, or janitor. I think you may not have intended too - but your comment has come off rather condescending and even perhaps as a WARNING: SAY NICE THIINGS OR ELSE. I don't like the insinuation that if I ask about this provider, and a client's experience with them that I am somehow crossing the line of being disrespectful - or if anyone that replies with something less than favorable that they are also being disrespectful. I think your comment would scare off people who HAVE had time with him from advising me. Anyone reading this feel free to DM me so as not to encur the wrath of azdr0710. I actually don't mind seeing someone who has one or two bad reviews- for me it means all the reviews are real and I understand guys can have "off" days - but if they are high on drugs or have very outdated photos - this is important to me. I have seen guys before who just "phone it in" - one guy literally stared at the clock while we were spending time together and although he did look like his photos it was an awful experince. I really like David's profile and will be in SF next week. NOT that I need to justify to you WHY I am asking about this guy - but there it is. This is why- there is no nefarious scheme to defame him - just an extar step before spending my money. So my orginal question was - do you have any info (previous names for forum searches) or experince - of not, no need to comment further.

do you know previous names so i can do my own research?

I think pretty much every provider would prefer people don't discuss their clients' experiences on a forum (unless it's some kind of glowing reference!). Curious why this guy would seem to get a pass. Do they have some kind of influence or control over the posts?

https://rentmen.eu/David_CAL

I always check this forum before seeing a guy - and it raises red flags when they have loads of reviews on RM (over 50+) but searches here come up empty. Does anyone have any info or experience?