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I'm thinking it probably depends on how far in advance you are reaching out to them. I also travel a bit for work, and often check out what is on offer in the city I am heading to. I think a weeks notice is good - I message by text 'hey saw your profile, I will be in town next week, a bit about me - I am (insert height/weight/age/sexual position). do you have any time between Wednesday-Friday that works for you, and can you let me know your rates?" I have a lot of success with this formula. I think if you reach out with 'hello how are you?" then they reply and find out you are not looking until next month, they move on to people who are require more immediate attention. It's best to put it all out there upfront. If I don't get a reply for a day or two, I can move on to my next preference.

I thought you were done with this thread. You have nothing more to offer- we have heard what you have said. You have spent significantly more time flogging this than the 30 min he asked you to wait, which says a lot more about you than it does Dustin. Get over yourself.

its so funny to me to see the OP make a comment like this. I had a dreadful and actually scary experience with a provider in a VERY similar way - I showed up and he was high on drugs, aggressive and threatening me if I did pay in full (I did pay in full, after 5 minutes and left) and posted here to warn others, and after I posted the warning about it @PileDriver admonished me, telling me I should be kinder/how dare I say this etc. He even wrote another big thread called "Ugly Clients and Providers With Substance Problems" about how we need to be kinder to drug addicts who threaten us. This has now given me the biggest chuckle. I guess he only gets upset or thinks people need warnings when it happens to him.

yes @Ali Gator who posts very often has lost all credibility with me due to this thread.

I'm looking for a NATURAL blond provider. I like lean guys with soccer/tennis player type bodies. I am based in NYC but travel for work often. I really want a blond boy that looks like Lucas Bergvall:

*cue the cries of NO DEPOSITS EVER from the board members* I personally have no issue with sending SMALL deposits to well reviewed providers (both here and on RM), however this situation would give me pause. Just to clarify, as your post was a little hard to decipher. if the provider said "if you send a deposit to lock in a booking, the rate is X amount cheaper" - if so, I don't see a big issue providing the deposit if the amount is minimal. If the provider reached out and said 'hey can you send me some money to pre-pay a booking and I will give you a discounted rate' - that IS an issue and I would only do something like this if the provider was one I had a long standing relationship with, and even then, probably not.

yes I must admit the first thing I thought of is that perhaps you had/have some kind of skin condition the provider was worried about?

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bumping this too- guy is handsome and I am interested to hear some feedback from the group if anyone has had the pleasure of meeting him

I saw him recently in the city on the subway and after following him on twitter for a while now it was like seeing someone famous. Can confirm he looks like his pics. very 'Brooklyn' looking guy. Handsome!

I would love to experience Ace, having followed his twitter and OF (before it got taken day for people being overly excessively offended) The only thing that has stopped me reaching out is that he lists that he is exclusive and given his following in am not surprised he would be! Please let us know how it goes- he seems like a great guy!

I recently had an issue with this. Provider showed up looking nothing like his pics (I saw after they had been uploaded nearly 10 years ago) Also had an awful experience with him. provider blocked me before he even left, and then pretended we had never met as if I didn't show up. I had to get security footage of my building to show we did meet, and show text messages proving provider was lying. Then the provider updated his photos and RM response was 'we are taking the review down as we have confirmed he does look like his pics NOW." I had to go back and forth for a long time before getting the review back up - but I did NOT back down until it was up there. They made me change 'not like photos' to 'photos were outdated' or some such nonsense. The provider eventually returned the money he stole and I took review down to be done with it.

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