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My hire recap ( I tend to only hire when I am traveling for work) Feb - really nice top from Puerto Rico. would see again but he has moved out of business March - hot guy from Orlando. nice chemistry, would rehire. Average looking guy in Cleveland, wouldn't recommend. April - one of the hottest hires I have ever seen. Amazing. saw him again, but he told me he couldn't do the business as some clients were hard work. He also was wary of how temping it was to get stuck in the industry. smart guy. He gave me his personal number and still sees me when I reach out (which I have twice) May - hot top in Boston. would repeat when I am back in town June- vers guy that was awful and I left a bad review here and on RM. He sent me my money back with apologies and I removed reviews as I believed he learned his lesson. August - tried to hire a guy in Philly but he cancelled last minute and I just got a guy from grindr instead. November - Atlanta, saw a hot twitter/OF star bottom. Was very hard to pin down, but he had fair rates (could easily charge more) and he performed SO WELL. we exchanged personal numbers now we have met and I will see him every time I am in town for sure.

I find that RM has mostly big muscular guys who offer to FUCK YOU HARD or little fem twinks who look anorexic. My tastes lie somewhere in the middle - I am much more attracted to lean boy next door guys, and I like guys who are in early 30s not 21. These types seem to be the diamonds in the rough on RM. I am also bi so maybe we are similar in flavor preference.

I would say it's Christmas Day, so most providers traveling now will be near and with family. Chill out.

I have a more boy next door recommendation for you than the stud muscle guys people have listed, also based in NYC. I enjoy this sometimes also, and actually ask for role play where we say "I love you" to each other and he really gets into it. DM me.

I normally only see providers who are on prep undetectable, but I could make an exception. If anyone has details of rates can you shoot me a DM?

It is 100% an indicator of the economy. Google "the stripper index" a friend of mine told me about it and it has been academically researched and found to be true that sex workers are the first to feel the effects of a recession. A rise in providers would be an indicator of this, which goes hand in hand with the drop in work for providers too, so they are getting hit both ways - less work as well as more competition. The Stripper Index: Decoding the Economic Signals of Sex Work - Business Review at Berkeley BUSINESSREVIEW.STUDENTORG.BERKELEY.EDU The Stripper Index, named for how it relates the revenue generated by strippers’ cash tips to the financial strain of consumers and the current...

interesting take. What makes you get to that conclusion. he mentions many times that he gets pleasure from making people happy. it looks like he does have an exhibitionist streak, but I imagine most guys in porn and/or the sex industry would be this way. I really like his next door boy look but with some added cheekiness.

have met up with him. Super nice guy, sexy as hell. he is tough to get a hold of, but worth it. I will see him again for sure.

having consent withdrawn takes nothing away for the validity of what I am saying. consent can be withdrawn whenever and its withdrawal must be respected. the end.

unless you suck dick with a Condom on - you can get every single one of them through oral sex.

for me it's a requirement. I do not like condoms, and I am protected through Prep. I have no need for condoms.

I imagine all of these data sets being put forward are not focusing on the topic: which is specifically providers + condom use- I imagine prep use with providers would be significantly higher than the average layman. I don't see providers who want to use comdoms.

I would say the time is probably better spent reaching out to the provider with those questions. I would never leave a good review if the place was not clean and the RM reviews specifically ask about the ambiance.

I had someone message me on RM to ask about a review I left and it annoyed me and it annoys me here too. I replied the same way I do here - 'why would I leave a 5 star review confirming the pics were real and I enjoyed myself if that wasn't the case.' I am not obligated to give blow by blow accounts to some stranger online. Saying that I have reached out to people who left bad reviews - I just wanted to confirm if it was because of chemistry or drugs or maybe they were 5 minutes late. some of those things I find more offensive than others.

Sending someone money from grindr is not the same as meeting a provider. There is no provider to be mentioned here because there was no provider involved.