Jump to content

sniper

+ Supporters
  • Posts

    3,600
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Everything posted by sniper

  1. I've heard "seed" used.
  2. Is getting a motel room for one night and slipping away an option?
  3. Once a year is the standard. And there is stuff that can go on below the gumline that is serious. But most dental insurance is very close to a wash in terms of premium versus what it covers(annual limits are often low); if you are reasonably good about your oral hygiene you're probably better off putting the monthly premium into a savings account and paying out of pocket. The dentist will often cut you a deal to not have to deal with filing a claim with the insurance company which will pay less than sticker price anyway.
  4. I've asked dancers at Adonis Lounge what their name is(not having met them before) and most will tell me "X, but Tim lists me as Y in the emails." At which point I wonder why they bother to have the stage name at all. Then again, I was at one point a fairly regular presence there and they may have picked up on the fact that the staff "knows" me and thus are fairly confident I'm not a serial killer/stalker/cop.
  5. Happy Birthday!
  6. My dentist did once suggest I switch to getting cleanings every three months to help with gingivitis when I was in my late 20s, and after less than two years she said it had improved and I could go back to every 6 months. She did offer to replace my silver fillings with porcelain and I said yes because I had some rather large metal fillings that I was self-conscious about and they were decades old anyway. But since then she hasn't done anything that could be characterized as pushing stuff on me. Of course she could just be waiting until my front tooth which is mostly veneer fails and then I will probably be a candidate for 4 implants because my top 4 teeth really don't match up that well...
  7. I would never tell someone anything negative about their tattoo. What's the point? It would be obnoxious. (Well I suppose if they got something written in a language I knew and they didn't and it was something offensive, I might. Or if their tattoo was a swastika and not the Hindu one...). But my general opinion of them is they only look good on people who look even better without them. Come to think of it, that's often true of many types of clothes as well... Body modification is a whole other thing and those giant earlobe stretchers flat-out skeeve me out. The occasional piercing doesn't really have the same effect, but beyond a couple, I think it's just odd-looking.
  8. Eh some people it's marketing strategy, others it's to manage expectations. i.e. he may be saying don't expect much if anything beyond the standard happy ending.
  9. Have you ever played rugby? There's rampant nudity and horseplay in the sport. Less so today in the age of ubiquitous cameras bu it's there nonetheless.
  10. How many gay guys actually even go on a DATE these days? Hell I know a married couple who hooked up on manhunt and fucked three times a week for six months before the bottom said "So when are you going to take me to dinner?"
  11. I went to college late 80s/early 90s and nearly all dorms were coed and only the all-female dorm had any sort of restriction on visiting hours. This was in the godless liberal northeast though so other parts of the country may have taken longer to go that way.
  12. At the same time, I do think it's fair to say that being penetrated is both physically and emotionally a different experience. I think there are plenty of entire male sports teams where all the guys have grabbed each others penis at one time or another and they don't even think of it as sexual, just something they do for comic effect and everybody laughs about it. The straight rugby teams I have interacted with all seem to do this sort of thing - the gay ones don't, I suspect because the contact means something else to them. And I think that in turn leads to guys thinking "a little horseplay" is no big deal and inadvertently enables worse stuff to go on.
  13. So anyone know if Johnny is still discreetly seeing clients? I mean even for the top guys my understanding is str8 porn simply doesn't pay that well...
  14. The account number IS hidden- CC receipts only show the last 4 digits(of 16). Nothing you can do with that. And it appears the signature and name are covered as well.
  15. For multi-hour appointments regardless of frequency I would think some break is warranted. The single hour rate is higher because of the fixed costs of travel time and preparation. If the rate is $250 for the first hour, the second should be more like $200 and I've seen some that go even lower. I've seen things like $300/1hr, $500/2hr, $800/4hr advertised. But given you've already seen him several times I'd ask him and see what he offers rather than risk lowballing him and turning him off/making him feel he can't counter.
  16. I'm a little confused by "you weren't the one who forgot to lock the door." She walked in on you. You were the only one who could lock the door, no?
  17. The only gyms I've been to that were completely open with just showerheads on a wall were YMCAs and HS/college locker rooms. Nobody used my HS showers and very few people used the college ones. My local YMCA installed partitions and curtains over the showerheads in the early 2000s. Which was bad because the showerheads were pretty close together and that meant you'd bang your arms on the walls. I've seen one or two gyms where there were just walls between showerheads but the front was open so you were exposed to anyone walking past, but nearly all have curtains or doors. The doors are not always completely opaque though.
  18. A lot of people in the sex industry seem to have grown up in states with deliberately-misleading abstinence-only sex ed. It's not that suprising to me they are on average less informed. Yes, the brighter ones figure stuff out, but for lots of people research isn't really their thing and they assume what they are told is the truth.
  19. The woman had a history of bipolar disorder and depression. While I don't think the people who berated her are responsible for her actions, I do think telling someone to kill themself is reprehensible, and Jaxton Wheeler, whose supposed best friend suffered from depression and blew his brains out not too long ago, should have known better.
  20. I was told by a friend that Gilead covered $3600 a year towards it. He has a $6000 deductible on his plan. So it's not covering every penny(though that's a not insignificant amount of assistance). And I knew it wasn't Gilead for MS drugs, I was just saying that the fact there's an assistance program doesn't mean everyone is eligible.
  21. If all his accusers were people who never made it and were desperate for money, I could find it plausible that a couple fished for money and others were just piling on the gravy train once the story got out. But the fact that a couple of people who moved on and had quite successful careers on their own afterward are now coming forward to say he abused them too, to me, is damning. They have absolutely nothing to gain from this. They're just doing this so that the others will be believed.
  22. I mean if they are on m4m massage sites even if they say therapeutic, they've seen it all before and know the score. But if you're at a hotel spa and pulling this stuff, I think you are overstepping.
  23. The way some of you are talking, if this really is a therapeutic-only marketed provider, versus someone who is advertising on masseurfinder or the like, I think you are being rude to your provider if you are going out of your way to expose yourself and then hoping the towel falls off your erection.
  24. While I agree with that in the ethical sense, I do think there is something different about being fucked and it's a separate milestone in some ways. As someone who didn't touch a penis other than my own until I was 27, it was another 3 years before I was willing to be fucked(and it was at Steve's, a bathhouse in Reno, with a cute guy about 4 years older than me).
  25. The webpage has a whole section for "GLBT" and there are more dancers listed there than on the main page...
×
×
  • Create New...