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This is NOT an economy to be losing a job in. YMMV if you're a superstar or something, but I would be extra wary right now of the kind of thing that could cost a job.

This boils down to don't shit where you eat and if coworkers are ALREADY gossiping about it, best to not act on it. If nobody knew but you two I'd say MAYBE give it a go...

He's higher up than you? Probably best to stay away. Also if you are out at work and people are already talking about your crush as it seems they are, you've already been a bit too obvious in the office.

Waterless urinals are horrible. They reek and are unsanitary. Water does not get created or destroyed, it gets recycled. People need to realize that.

I never use urinals. Who needs the damn splashback?

When I was in HS in the 80s, 6 inches was regarded as hung. I mean, people weren't whipping them out and comparing, that was just the measure stated as big. People watch too much porn and are unrealistic about the state of the typical male.

I think part of it is simply you haven't been together that long . But yes he's cheap. I would have presented it to him as "i'd like to but I don't think I can quite swing it and see if he offered help with the ticket.

I get ads for stuff like "Black Women in their Prime." I don't know who's coding, but...they're missingthe mark.

Are his comments on his page or specific to you? He may be sounding you out looking for an offer...

How many times have we seen people gush over escorts and from the way the client talks it's clear nothing sexual actually happened? Some people are addicted to the thrill of uncertainty and there are people for whom ten thousand dollars is like ten bucks to regular people. Also that's a level if wealth where things like free hotel rooms get thrown at you and the marginal cost is probably far less than you think. If you're taking a private jet somewhere you're paying by the hour not the number of passengers for example.

I hope they don't end up just closing a lot of spas all together. I have to say even before the pandemic it seemed way fewer people were using the facilities than in years past.

If you really don't know about the place, it's kind of dicey to be forward especially the first time. I'd just see how the first time goes, if the massage was good and I was hoping to come again I'd tip a bit extra ~$20 over the standard tip so he remembers me and see how it goes the next time. As for being naked on the table first time out...that's bolder than I would be. What I have done is place the towel such that my thighs are covered but the towel only comes halfway up my butt. If he pulls the towel over your back nothing's happening lol.

The flight is pretty short, wearing a mask I would not give that a second thought.

I meant like to live with you for the semester as opposed to traveling back and forth.

As for these travel things it wouldn't surprise me to find out that there are gay older men with more money that God who just do this for multiple attractive young men just taking a shot that one of them will put out(or feel he has to). Think Bryan Singer pool party but more consensual. You couldn't fuck 50 guys in one night, but if you invite 50 hot guys over and throw some money at them, odds are almost 100% that at least one of them will want to play hoping for more...

OB is engaged or on the verge of it, right? Would you consider inviting her to stay with him or are her parents too conservative for that to be an option?

If someone has a large enough number of followers they make their money off instagram and the shoots are, I would presume, "loss leaders" for that and any other business they may engage in.

I would simply guess that he was saying what he did to make as clear as possible the limitations of his HE without actually saying anything "incriminating."

I personally know at least one escort with an Ivy League degree. Some of these guys come out of school with crippling levels of debt and not everyone from these schools winds up making great money in their day job.

Speaking of warts, everyone should know they upped the age range for the HPV vaccine to through age 45 to get it covered by insurance. I just missed the cutoff when they did it, but I paid put of pocket.

Can I ask a dumb question? Are there extra fields you get to see in the info block if you are a paid member? I don't see any field for top/bottom or safe/bb when I look at profiles on rentmen. Some people include it in their text or in hashtags but most don't seem to.

The problem isn't just Amazon - it's the entire economy that is grinding down wages for the people in the bottom half of the economy in the name of squeezing out a few extra percent ROI. You can't get blood from a stone, and we would do well to remember that we have an interest in minimuzing the fraction of the population that has nothing to lose.

Most companies offering PPOs still have a "usual and customary" cap on the out of network reimbursement so you can find yourself on the hook for more of the charges than the percentage they tell you. Though many (maybe most?) providers will simply accept the insurer's limit, you do need to be aware that there's the possibility they don't.

It's possible he's actually quite wealthy on paper if he's had a job and contributed to his 401(k) but chose to live simply to facilitate his travel. I had an elderly coworker years ago who was sort of like this. He always just rented a room, didn't even have his own telephone, no kids but he did have a sibling and a nephew or two. Never went out to eat, always made himself a sandwich for lunch, only ever spent money on travel as far as we knew. He walked several miles to work rather than pay subway fare. He was with the company for over 45 years. He finally went to retire when he hit the age for mandatory withdrawals from the 401(k). In addition, we had an employee stock plan where everyone was given a certain number of shares in proportion to salary, and that had also done fantastically well. Apparently, his balance was so high that the plan administrator called in a TEAM of advosors for him. He was never even a manager and he wound up with close to 8 figures.

Let me clarify - I have no problem being the breadwinner assuming the other party is generally fiscally responsible. But the traveling lifestyle never really worrying about a career thing is too high-risk for me. Supporting someone is a lot easier if they aren't actively dragging you down. For me this is partly a function of being raised in barely-clinging-to-lower middle class status and the attendant fear of my parents losing the house and being thrown into poverty. If you are middle-aged and living in a rented room in the U.S., fine if you're happy with that, but odds are you are one accident or illness away from disaster.