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A lot of full-time escorts simply temperamentally aren't suited to 9-5, but a call center has all the 9-5 issues ramped up with the constant tracking/being lowest on the company totem-pole/etc that I would expect to be EXTREMELY challenging for ANYONE who was previously accustomed to both setting their own hours and getting validation from the person paying them.

also...could be a nice guy...could be a charming sociopath who will sue the firm for harassment and get you fired.

There are straight guys who simply like the attention. It's an ego stroke for them. You should consider that possibility.

I think helping him get something somewhere else is the way to go if possible.

If it's a huge company that you could find him something where you'd have pretty much no interaction, I'd consider it. Otherwise, i think I'd say only help get him a job if you are ending the escort relationship. Do you have former colleagues at OTHER firms you might be able to put in a word for him at?

This is NOT an economy to be losing a job in. YMMV if you're a superstar or something, but I would be extra wary right now of the kind of thing that could cost a job.

This boils down to don't shit where you eat and if coworkers are ALREADY gossiping about it, best to not act on it. If nobody knew but you two I'd say MAYBE give it a go...

He's higher up than you? Probably best to stay away. Also if you are out at work and people are already talking about your crush as it seems they are, you've already been a bit too obvious in the office.

Waterless urinals are horrible. They reek and are unsanitary. Water does not get created or destroyed, it gets recycled. People need to realize that.

I never use urinals. Who needs the damn splashback?

When I was in HS in the 80s, 6 inches was regarded as hung. I mean, people weren't whipping them out and comparing, that was just the measure stated as big. People watch too much porn and are unrealistic about the state of the typical male.

I think part of it is simply you haven't been together that long . But yes he's cheap. I would have presented it to him as "i'd like to but I don't think I can quite swing it and see if he offered help with the ticket.

I get ads for stuff like "Black Women in their Prime." I don't know who's coding, but...they're missingthe mark.

Are his comments on his page or specific to you? He may be sounding you out looking for an offer...

How many times have we seen people gush over escorts and from the way the client talks it's clear nothing sexual actually happened? Some people are addicted to the thrill of uncertainty and there are people for whom ten thousand dollars is like ten bucks to regular people. Also that's a level if wealth where things like free hotel rooms get thrown at you and the marginal cost is probably far less than you think. If you're taking a private jet somewhere you're paying by the hour not the number of passengers for example.

I hope they don't end up just closing a lot of spas all together. I have to say even before the pandemic it seemed way fewer people were using the facilities than in years past.

If you really don't know about the place, it's kind of dicey to be forward especially the first time. I'd just see how the first time goes, if the massage was good and I was hoping to come again I'd tip a bit extra ~$20 over the standard tip so he remembers me and see how it goes the next time. As for being naked on the table first time out...that's bolder than I would be. What I have done is place the towel such that my thighs are covered but the towel only comes halfway up my butt. If he pulls the towel over your back nothing's happening lol.

The flight is pretty short, wearing a mask I would not give that a second thought.

I meant like to live with you for the semester as opposed to traveling back and forth.

As for these travel things it wouldn't surprise me to find out that there are gay older men with more money that God who just do this for multiple attractive young men just taking a shot that one of them will put out(or feel he has to). Think Bryan Singer pool party but more consensual. You couldn't fuck 50 guys in one night, but if you invite 50 hot guys over and throw some money at them, odds are almost 100% that at least one of them will want to play hoping for more...

OB is engaged or on the verge of it, right? Would you consider inviting her to stay with him or are her parents too conservative for that to be an option?

If someone has a large enough number of followers they make their money off instagram and the shoots are, I would presume, "loss leaders" for that and any other business they may engage in.

I would simply guess that he was saying what he did to make as clear as possible the limitations of his HE without actually saying anything "incriminating."

I personally know at least one escort with an Ivy League degree. Some of these guys come out of school with crippling levels of debt and not everyone from these schools winds up making great money in their day job.

Speaking of warts, everyone should know they upped the age range for the HPV vaccine to through age 45 to get it covered by insurance. I just missed the cutoff when they did it, but I paid put of pocket.