DunwoodyGuy

I guess he got the message;

Several months ago, I went to a masseur's house for what was set up to be an erotic massage. The masseur was in his early 30s, but when I rang the bell, the door was opened by a man who looked to be at least in his 60s, if not older. He was clearly not the masseur in the ad. "Are you here for the massage?" he asked. I was about to turn and leave when the actual masseur opened a door to a room off the entrance and said, "Oh, come in here." Once the door was shut, he said, "That's my roommate. He owns the house. He likes to know who I'm massaging--is that all right?" I said yes, but it wasn't. It took me pretty much half the massage--which was otherwise excellent and very sensual--to stop feeling creeped out by the roommate/landlord thinking about me getting one of his roommate/tenant's erotic massages. I would have been much more comfortable had the masseur said to me in advance, "Oh, you might run into my roommate. He's cool with my doing massage." It was a good massage, but I didn't leave a review on RentMasseur.

Why, Baron, you never cease to astonish me!

Link?

I'm already hard just reading it!

I think you mean "hermeneutical" not "hermenteutical."

I did too. I was going to type "Get yourself to San Diego and hire @Simon Suraci. As a matter of fact, after reading Simon's response above, I'm thinking of flying to San Diego and telling him I'm a virgin too!

Few HUNDRED?!?

Instant and irrevocable block.

Think about it: If you ASK what's included in an erotic massage, you will rarely get a satisfactory answer because, as well know, "erotic massage" means so many different things to different people. So how could a masseur possibly know what you have in mind? And it's unlikely that the masseur has a cookie-cutter approach to something so based on chemistry and connection. But if you SAY what you would like to be included, the answer will usually tell you everything you need to decide to book or not, whether it's positive or negative. My usual statement is "I like a massage that combines therapeutic techniques with erotic touch throughout, not just at the end." When the response is something like "That's not a problem" or "That's exactly what I do," I feel comfortable booking. If that question results in ghosting, I also have my answer.

Maybe the husband is 68.

Sometimes I tell them "If you're being forced into doing this by human traffickers, respond with the words 'What do you do for work?'" Sometimes I say my profile is being monitored by the FBI. Sometimes (when I'm feeling evil) I say my profile is being monitored by Immigration.

I think somebody just needs a good massage.

Right before Christmas, I had to postpone with a masseur I met at a mutual friend's very buzzy, very flirty holiday party. I recognized him from his RentMasseur profile, and we chatted at the party, feeling more and more comfortable with each other as the evening went on. I was extremely turned on by him and made an appointment the next day for a few days later. As the days progressed, I started to feel one of those "winter crud" things coming on me, and the morning before our appointment, I felt like crap. I texted him and said I had to take a rain check. I thought for sure he would consider me a flake, but as it turns out, he had the same thing and was considering canceling on me! He even thought we might have both caught it at the holiday party! After a few days, we both felt better, and I rescheduled. It was one of the best experiences I've ever had, and I'm scheduling a return session this week. Long story short, I think it was good that I canceled--and if he had canceled first, I would have appreciated it. I might have wondered if he was really sick or canceling because he had a better/hotter client--but that doubt was erased as soon as I arrived for the session. The comfort we now feel for each other going into the second session would probably never have developed if one of us or both of us had gone into that first session sick or contagious. So, yeah, I think cancel. If you do so in a warm, friendly, professional manner, the outcome will undoubtedly be better than making your client sick. (Also, send me the link to your ad!)

But it looks like individual masseurs are still able to use the word "erotic" in their descriptions.

A lot of the fake Grindr profiles are scams looking to engage in data mining, identity theft, and credit-card fraud. They use PayPal to "reserve a time" and use that to either to pocket the deposit and disappear or--worse--worm their way into your online identity or accounts.

I completely agree. He is one of Atlanta's true gems.

His responses so far are monosyllabic, in line with the reports that he is "aloof."

Please tell me you tipped him.

How about sending a message like "Not sure if you remember me, but I had the biggest crush on you when we were in high school. Maybe you can make my teenage dreams come true?"

That's why I hate faceless profiles.

OMG--I used to get the BEST massages from him. Is he still around?

"Husbands"! How many do you have?

Using the combined phrase "Reiki Tantric" implies to me that he doesn't know what either of them means. (However the 4 reviews from over a year ago are all good.)

Anyone have any experience with GingerMister in Atlanta? https://rentmasseur.com/GingerMister https://rentmasseur.com/GingerMister