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Try living in fly over country. The only decent providers happen to be in town as they have family here, visiting for a wedding etc. There is actually one local I like. But he’s so consistently late, I can’t stand tolerate it.

On top is great - but you might practice somehow first. I don’t know your age, weight or condition. Make sure your body is up to it first.

I have a provider I vacation with, he also brings his boyfriend. It works out well

Ghb - can be horribly addictive. I have a friend/provider who is struggling to quit.

My first provider taught me to use the word donation, instead of rate etc. Not sure if it matters. But I continue to use it.

I absolutely love when they bring up controversial topics. I was recently with a guy that’s been talked about quite a bit on here as being “difficult” - I found him entertaining and fun. He was trying to hit me up just to grab lunch the next day, but I had left the city. What’s more interesting than a right wing, Christian, gay, escort? Fuck - wrap him in a bow, slap my ass and call me Sally. Keep in mind I always tell them I’ll be in the hotel bar at 5 having a drink and some food, they are welcome to come early and join me if they want. It’s not included in the “time”. Typically they need to eat anyways, so why not. I’ve met some really nice people I remain in contact with.

As mostly a bottom, I still want a provider with a hot tight ass. Love to grab on for the ride. Can’t wait for vacation….

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Absolutely not. If this person decides to respond, you could end up in trolling that lasts years. Before you know it you’ll be in a lawyers office talking about defamation suits and restraining orders. You won’t even remember how it all started.

The rate probably varies depending on where you are located, how attractive you are, where you are offering to take them etc. Perhaps just tell him you want and ask him the rate.

I pay for everything. It might be nice to give them extra folding money for incidentals. They want to run into a store and grab a snack or some such. I have actually had providers ask me for money so they could buy dinner or a gift for me. A bit odd on it's face, but whatever.

Very true. I began to notice there isn't anybody who looks like me on his IG

Reviews are funny things. I recently spent time with a provider that has been complained about quite a bit on here. Doesn’t return messages, blocks, is a jerk etc. I took the plunge and had a great evening. More than reviews I look at how long have they been around. Do they have a Twitter feed that is used regularly, a WhatsApp etc.

Trans people committing violence is the latest unreported news.

I've gotten the "I only feel safe with you" comment from two different long term providers. It's my money, home, cars, food, gym etc. that make you feel safe. If you had all of that and I was never around....you'd probably feel just as safe. I'm not biter lol.

Heart ripped out, stomped on, spit on, rubbed into the dirt and pecked at by vultures. But I’ll be fine lol. It’s why I started seeing a larger variety, I can get overly possessive really quick. Not one of my more attractive personality traits.

He does not look like his photos. But he is a good top.

I've double dated with some long term providers and friends. Other friends I avoid as they interrogate anyone new. It's one thing to ask a few questions, some folks feel the need to know everything about people. I've actually unfriended some folks over them being too damn snoopy. It's like they have to figure out where the other person fits in the pecking order.

Your entire profession is to deceive.

I am sorry you are going through this. I have been in this same situation. You are not alone.

You can either make yourself more attractive. Or hire less attractive providers. They can only pretend so much.

This arrangement has worked well for me in the past. We both get sleep, I cum and go. I had a regular pre Covid that I swear never slept. One of those people that always have to have noise in the background, all night. I used to get a room that had an outside patio. His friends would come over and good lord, they would yap all night long. I enjoy that sound in the background. He would come take care of me, go back to yapping.

For me an overnight would be, meeting around 5-6 PM and them leaving after breakfast. Depending on what they like the time would involve a nice steak house, maybe checking out a bar, the hotel fitness center and pool, some Netflix etc. I've gone out of my element a bit lately and tried both older providers and shorter dates. Just not my cup of tea. It's like the car wash, I want the super deluxe wash with extra carnuba.

Omg - there is no ambiguity, no oh jeeze shucks, maybe it means different things. The guy is trying to rip you off.

Mine went away with weight loss and cutting out alcohol.